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haha, actually I also didn't do any of those she mentioned. But surely I know, and have come across tons of similar situations.
Nowadays, many people would think as they have done so much, at least some return should be given. However, would you ever think either (1) your efforts are not enough; (2) you have put your efforts in the wrong way?
Just like nicole123 said, there are just so few seats available, have you ever thought what you have done is special and unique? Let me tell you this, when I thought I need the popular girls' kindergarten with the same Catholic group as you mentioned for backup, I spent 2 years to do volunteer work and establish good relationships so that I can easily secure a seat thru connection. Have you thought of doing that and would you spent so much time and efforts for your child? It is not impossible but talking about so much commitments for a long period of time. But even having done so much, that only give you a better chance. Of course at the end, I didn't choose that kindergarten. Because I wouldn't want my daughter to be studying unless I have no other good choices. This is just to share with you so you could know what more can you do next time. There is still a long road ahead.
Anyway, sorry if my tone is being a bit harsh since I also agree with other parents that I don't find borrow address is a right thing to do. But I do hope you would understand, if you don't get what you want, may be it is only because you haven't tried enough. So may be try look positive and try harder next time.
For your information, 2 years ago when my daughter applied for kindergartens, I took 3 full months off to surf the internet and do it 'til 3 - 4 am every night to learn the necessary information.
Ian
原帖由 B.BB 於 10-5-20 17:45 發表 
我想信好多人都有做齊，但收o左o個 d 又未必有做到。
我覺得考幼稚園呢，絕對唔係一分耕耘一分收穫，多勞多得
我估 nicole 同 ian 都會贊成呢點
[ 本帖最後由 iantsang 於 10-5-20 23:06 編輯 ] |
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