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macdullbaby

其實用退學來迫校長讓步，跟你意願去處理會唔會唔係咁好？ 最後可能迫不到別人反而令自己無退路⋯⋯

jenny1029

macdullbaby 發表於 17-12-7 10:52
其實用退學來迫校長讓步，跟你意願去處理會唔會唔係咁好？ 最後可能迫不到別人反而令自己無退路⋯⋯
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大家其實誤會左，我唔係用退學嚟逼校長，而係我同佢講完我覺得我會考慮退學，問佢退學手續點做，因為佢地handbook website都冇講，佢就連答都唔諗住答，直接叫我出去搵admissions,但個admission 個staff都只係俾個電話我叫我自己打去問。而且我囝嘅情況唔係俾人蝦噤簡單，佢係俾人打，嗰個小朋友一唔高興就推低佢坐住佢嚟打，但佢冇野嘅時候又會叫我囝同佢玩，我囝咩人都會陪佢地玩，亦唔識驚，佢平時我都有教佢，一見佢想郁手就要擋同走，佢總係話唔夠佢跑，擋佢都擋唔住，所以第二次佢冇見到嘅傷，我係覺得嗰個小朋友有問題，佢地喺課室我囝已經唔同佢坐，但係recess, free play time就出事，我先會覺得學校唔重視件事，而係我小題大做。呢兩次俾佢打係嚴重我先會出聲，之前一路都聽我囝講話個小朋友成日抓佢，番到嚟手腳損哂，我都只係教個仔點保護自己，佢亦都好樂觀，繼續番學玩

jenny1029

jenny1029 發表於 17-12-7 11:07
大家其實誤會左，我唔係用退學嚟逼校長，而係我同佢講完我覺得我會考慮退學，問佢退學手續點做，因為佢地h ...

不過我已經退左學，多謝大家意見

Activehealth

jenny1029 發表於 17-12-7 11:08
不過我已經退左學，多謝大家意見

樓主英明，早走早著。

果啲喺楝市區大厦佔兩層樓，無小學又無國際聯系，淨得幼稚園但話自己係international school，算吧啦！

Jane1983

故意推跌同學，騎係佢身上係咁打佢，呢個好得人驚吓。已經超越咗小朋友之間的小冲突。

有家長講到還手或者學功夫防身，呢樣要小心處理。打打吓，無情力，亦可大可小。

抺茶雪糕

騎係佢身上係咁打佢:

其實有個小朋友都係咁對我個仔，我個仔又冇咩嘢覺得大家係玩同埋其實佢哋都幾friend

jenny1029

抺茶雪糕 發表於 17-12-7 11:53
騎係佢身上係咁打佢:

其實有個小朋友都係咁對我個仔，我個仔又冇咩嘢覺得大家係玩同埋其實佢哋都幾friend ...

佢地唔係玩，所以有d唔同

抺茶雪糕

jenny1029 發表於 17-12-7 11:55
佢地唔係玩，所以有d唔同

一樣，只係我個仔以為係玩，但個小朋友係好狼騎着佢狂打佢

GC0060

While I believe the school could and should have done more on your son's case, I do not believe in requesting to switch class / withdrawal to handle this matter.

The priority of a school is to ensure the safety of all students. They can adopt whatever approach to teach the bully, but they should ensure also the safety of the victims as well. Most schools / teachers do not want to deal with bullying cases as it is hard to "convict" the bully with no witnesses usually and most cases appear to be just playful matters on the playground. But to me it is not right to beat up anyone period, doesn't matter if they are only playing.
But it is also not ideal to request to switch classes / school because of this. It gives out a message to a victim that he / she should always run away from problems instead of dealing with it.

fishchow

如果系男仔，比佢學下 殆拳道、詠春，柔道；
我覺得Ok 喎。第一 鍛練下自己意志，
亦可強身健體，畢生受用。

HKTiger-Mom

抺茶雪糕 發表於 17-12-7 11:58
一樣，只係我個仔以為係玩，但個小朋友係好狼騎着佢狂打佢

好似完全唔一樣，樓主仔仔應該唔覺得俾個同學打係玩，以你仔仔就覺得俾個「小朋友好狼騎着佢狂打佢」係同緊佢玩。

GC0060

玩唔係大晒。玩亦唔應該及唔需要傷害他人身體。

Playing does not justify any harmful acts upon others and it should be nipped before it buds.