Actually those parents can be understanded. They are not really want to pay many times for the deposit. That's the problem of the system. All KGs clearly understand their status. That's why those KGs people always think as a back up will collect deposit much earlier. And force parents to pay more then one time deposit. What would you do if you have better offer this time then your previous one? Will you pay the deposit again? All parents just want to do the best to their kids only. Not 集郵!
I think releasing the offer is one step, when will the school send the offer to wait list parent is an issue. I think we need to be patient to wait till May or August. Waiting is a torture! The uncertainty making parent keep thinking and thinking. I am now waiting for MS (waitlist) and GH (first round result in Feb).