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父母的背景是一個重要的收生考慮條件嗎?  點樣先係好的背景? 父母的職業? 收入等.....? 學識?   唔係只看小朋友interview的表現嗎?
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原帖由 baby_jkk 於 10-12-8 10:10 發表
父母的背景是一個重要的收生考慮條件嗎?  點樣先係好的背景? 父母的職業? 收入等.....? 學識?   唔係只看小朋友interview的表現嗎?

唔排除係有呢d既學校, 不過一般都係睇小朋友既表現...即使有一間係要睇父母職業,背景&是否有學識而又收你小朋友...真係要諗諗好唔好俾你個小朋友去讀...因為學校既師長對眼都已經生o係額頭到...想想會教到小朋友d咩呢?

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一個咁細嘅人仔, 面試時或多或少都唔能夠完全表現到佢平時嘅能力, 特別係撞午睡時間~ 表現失準!
學校有幾重理家長背景, 我唔清楚, 但係問得嘅, 就即係睇! 我又唔覺得有好大嘅問題喎~ 就好似有d學校會in家長或者要填問卷咁, 學校都係想了解多d, 然後揀d家庭教育支緩多d嘅學生啫~ (我講嘅支緩, 唔係只係講錢, 係時間, 心機, 理念等~)
咁當然, 如果佢無問過家長相關問題, 就以報名表上嘅表面資料嚟評分.. 以乎有d片面囉!
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原帖由 Smartterrence 於 10-12-8 10:24 發表

唔排除係有呢d既學校, 不過一般都係睇小朋友既表現...即使有一間係要睇父母職業,背景&是否有學識而又收你小朋友...真係要諗諗好唔好俾你個小朋友去讀...因為學校既師長對眼都已經生o係額頭到...想想會教到小朋友d咩 ...


我又唔係咁諗~
如果有一間學校講到明收我個仔係因為我地嘅背景嘅 (指學歷/職業), 咁我會覺得~ 小朋友有背景相約嘅同學仔, 老師教學時.. 可能較易處理當中差異~
i.e. 學習氣氛較好, 進度較快~
就好似有學校會將d細仔放响同一班, 而唔係大細仔一班

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我覺得如果家長環境唔理想, eg. 父母都要出外工作, 工作時間長, 都會影響小朋友的讀書情況, 學校會覺得父母冇搵足夠嘅時間教小朋友, 所以如果母親是全職主婦會高分d....

令外, 我覺得學校會睇父母的工作性質, 如果工作性質係比較複雜的, 都會影響小朋友的生長環境, 近朱者赤, 近墨者黑, 正如其他家長interview個時都會留意其他家長的表現, 佢地都唔想同態度唔好的家長嘅小朋友做同學, 學校同樣都係咁諗姐.....

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發表於 10-12-8 11:21 |只看該作者
我認為如果申請表上有填寫學歷及工作機構名稱等等資料的, 相信在挑選相同分數的小朋友時會有影響, 不然的話填來幹什麼? 但學校這樣做亦無可厚非, 因為如果幾個小朋友的面試表現都是好的話, 他們要作出選擇, 唯有從家庭背景着手.
世上就是這麼不公平的, 我們又可以如何? 唉!

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發表於 10-12-8 11:42 |只看該作者
我唔信學校會唔考慮囉…我仲覺得某幾間學校係主要睇呢樣野添…
如小曳人話,爸母職業同家庭背景好d,給能學生的支援一般都會好d同多d。再者,"好"學校同"好"學生是"互相依靠"的。學校也會想有特別技能的學生為其帶來獎項,而特別技能就一係背景做成或用錢練成…我認識的某學校有英普班,他們收的有部份學生的母語為普通話,我朋友的囡囡本來就說北京口音的普通話,所以理所當然的就被選了去參加朗誦比賽…如母語不是普通話,又只是K1人仔,開學至今都只有3個幾月,學校要好努力train個小朋友至可以去參賽…

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發表於 10-12-8 11:45 |只看該作者

回復 7# ccycsy 的帖子

i agree with u !

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發表於 10-12-8 12:18 |只看該作者
其實有很多沒有尚職業、良好背景、學歷的家長也會很盡心盡力教導小朋友,而他們的小朋友也有很多很有修養、很乖巧的。他們跟其他孩子一樣,喜歡學習,充滿好奇,如果學校單憑家長背景而收生,未免太不公平了!

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發表於 10-12-8 12:29 |只看該作者

回復 1# kimWan 的帖子

這個社曾是沒有完全的公平…再者,學校也不是單看家庭背景,小朋友interview表現還是重要的!你所說的好"素質",小朋友就可以在interview表現出來…

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發表於 10-12-8 12:35 |只看該作者
咁又唔會單憑家長背景而收生....
重點都係睇個小朋友姐~
只係家庭背景直接對小朋友有影響~~

我見過屋企樓下的一間幼稚園, 有兩個食緊煙的男人等緊個仔仔放學, 個阿爸一見到個仔出黎就唔食煙喇..但另一個就係咁食, 個阿爸話: "佢食煙係衰人黎架~"
個阿爸說得出d番話, 可見佢都係有心教好個仔, 但佢個行為就剛相反, 所以家長的背景都好重要姐~~~!!

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發表於 10-12-8 12:52 |只看該作者
For some schools their admission should based soely on child's capability.
Bur for some of the famous kinders, I understand they really count also on the parents background - but the child's capability should also be good in terms of interview performance.
1. Reglion has 5 additional marks for going into famous primary - which will show better P1 allocation result for that kinder.
2. Parents with higher income e.g. professionals or famous parents - tend to have abundant of resources in grooming the child - e.g. attending over 10 tutoring on Eng, Maths, Chinese, PTH, speech, debate, music, sports, drama, etc. Then the kid's academic results will for sure be better and they tend to have outstanding performance in extra-curricular activities and got various awards at early age. - These external awards were also marketed by some of the kinders to show their child's high standard. But all these courses are expensive and may not be affordable by everyone. Some already have teacher coming for home tutoring in K1 & K2 and some are taught by famous teachers.
3. Parents coming from famous primary school and secondary schools would tend to be able to get their children into their mother school as well - hence also improving the P1 allocation results of the kinders.
4. One would also expect children coming from good family background will be better trained in terms of politeness, obedience, etc. You know some parents put their child into those etiquette class.
This is the reality and we parents as adults should face the reality.
In the P1 admission forum, I also heard some interview questions asking the child how many maid they have at home and how many countries they have travelled.
When I graduated from school, I also got an interview from a large foreign company asking if you are living in housing estate?

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發表於 10-12-8 12:53 |只看該作者
我認為普遍收生理想的幼稚園都會睇家長的背景囉~

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發表於 10-12-8 13:09 |只看該作者
個份表填咩都得嫁啦,又唔洗咭片,又唔洗入息證明,學校又唔會打電話check,你鍾意寫上市公司主席又得,銀行總裁又得。所以邊會有學校單靠份表上既"父母背景"選擇學生嫁?當然係睇小朋友表現啦。

你寫咩都好,最重要係in既時候父母講野有條理,令教師知道父母教子女品格有方、有時間與子女建立良好關系、對子女將來有打算。

做到以上幾點既父母,"有背景"既比例可能比"冇背景"多,所以成日都有人誤以為學校只考慮"背景"。

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發表於 10-12-8 14:11 |只看該作者
Agree. Some kinders may look at the background of the parents (yet there is no proof required even though the correspondence address may have certain indications), but the real determining factor should still be the children's performance during the interview.  C6 and I are both so-called professionals or senior management, and we live very close to those famous kinders, but our daughter still got no firm offer to date as she did not answer questions during the interviews.

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發表於 10-12-8 14:23 |只看該作者
我相信一d多人爭既KG會睇埋父母,當有好多都面試表現都好叻既小朋友時,點係咁多人入面揀呢?一定係睇父母啦!不過我覺得如果單從張form去睇就好片面,好似樓上媽咪話齋,張form點寫都得啦,所以我覺得interview時應該要in埋父母,咁先睇到個父母有無修養同埋對小朋友有無耐性....etc.

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發表於 10-12-8 15:34 |只看該作者
係張form到講大話d個行為, 已經係睇得出家庭教育好唔好的最好證明.....
冇論學校知唔知都好, 問題唔係在於一件事, 是在於觀點問題, 家長本身都存在dd觀點, 咁又點教好小朋友呢??

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發表於 10-12-8 15:43 |只看該作者
可能2個表現差不多的小朋友,揀唔到就睇下la~叫得你寫唔多唔少都會睇下既~
但收左我仔o個d應該唔會睇喇....


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