Home, what it is?

LPYdad1

Dear parents,

I hope you takes some time to read about this, other than training or informative things.

What is a home?
Should it be a classroom, your kid  learn from teacher?
Should it be a studyroom., your kid revise your study?
Should it be a playground, your kid play the instrument?
What about a training room for your specail training, a hotel for sleep, a restaurant to dine?

Should it be a place that your kid could ly in his bed , doing nothing after his homework or his study is done, or a place he could play something so strange that other people could think is is weird, a place he could cry just because begging for a more piece of cake, or a place you could draw something no one ever understand.

Should the primary & key funcion of a home is a shelter for your kid?

I have written and read a lot about technique and remedy for development disorder in here. And I knew that u and me are those parents very keen on rectify your kid's problem.
I particularly remembered a parent asked what remedy could she do when her kid is periodically screaming at home, but not in school. This is most likely a development disorder, probably in sensory deficiency. However, have you ever think that he believe that he could release himself at home, probably the last and only venue he could do such a thing. If we parents tried to remedy your kid to do every so called ordinary behaviour, where could he ever express himself. Where is his self recognition?
Please think that no matter how dumb is your kid, how serious your developemnt disorder he could be. A home is shelter, he could be safely and happily stay in. Please allow him somehow about 30 mins everyday to do whatever he likes to do, no matter how strange it could be. It should be a place for him to be happy primarily, not a place for him to be judged or monitored. He might be a delayed kid to be born, but dont let him to a kid being exploited to be born.