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I also have to struggle between whether she has to focus on her study and pursue her talent in badminton. The really is that only a very few can handle both. If she has to excel in the badminton field, she has to receive training for 6 days a week, each time for 3-4 hours. In this situation, hoe can she perform well in her study(if I target the 3 most prestigious universities in HK) ? So the coach always pushes me to choose either pursue "study" or "badminton". For me, of course "study" is the priority but my daughter is very naive, she wants to handle both. However, she is not the one with good discipline and determination to manage these two challenge tasks.
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两者兼得的关键在于孩子有否强大的意志和discipline. 这点你和孩子要非常清晰!
真心关怀孩子的coach 唔会逼父母二择其一, 反而应该鼓励 女女更用功地读书: 如果读书成绩下滑, 我就唔派你出线嘞! D 国际赛周街有, 边去得甘多!
阿Sir! 请要搅清楚, 我生个女出呢, 唔系帮你拿奖牌的, 你全天侯打badminton都未达标, 就叫我个女十五六岁,一定要'任择其一' 想靠害乎?? 如果我是你, 一定会愈逼我就愈走得快!
刚看完'Racing Secret' by Tailor Hamilton, 讲Armstrong 和环法单车的食药黑幕, 其中提到一群一级单车手, 有本事有读书的, 遇到人生交叉点, 话未食就唔食, 退出回家开始人生的另一个chapter, 永远当一个干净的人, 其余的没读好书, 唔做单车手就唔知做物好, 唯有吸毒, 换血, 运毒, 惨过做道友!
如有空可以睇吓呢本'运动员堕落史', 讲比阿女知道人性的黑暗面, 人生苦短, 一定要有選择!
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