可憐天下父母心/收唔到聖誕禮物的入來sun下喇!

FineWeather

今年仔仔女女未派到心儀小學的家長入來sun下,吹下水喇!我係過來人,仔仔去年入小一時困難重重, 收了好多waiting list, rejection letters, 當時失眠,失落,失望...好無助. 你地有無呢種感覺?

不過我想話比大家知, 千萬不要鑽牛角尖, 理性分析, 不是所有名校都適合所有小朋友. 不要以為入了名校仔仔女女便即時鯉躍龍門, 其實工作才剛開始呢!

名校要求嚴格, 小一上學期已用小二的書, 又要一樣樂器, 一樣體育,  對後進生不會有很多支援, 所以好多名校畢業出來但並非最top的學生對學校都無歸屬感, 亦不以母校為榮.

作為父母, 當然會盡力給子女最好的, 名校的高要求給家長帶來無止境的壓力, 財力和時間付出少一點也會自責, 子女在學校的競爭, 慢慢成為家庭與家庭間的競爭, 講起黎好似嚴重左d, 不過我肯定有部份家長和我有同感...

唔好客氣, 暢所欲言, 報學校呢味野真係好累人. :tongue:

autumn

Relax yourself  la!!

wideworld

Fineweather, it depends on which famous school.

名校要求嚴格, 小一上學期已用小二的書, like a DBSPD this year, I know a lot of boys got admission are not from those famous kindergarten with just fair english standard BUT THEY ARE ACTIVE.

名校的高要求給家長帶來無止境的壓力, 財力和時間付出少一點也會自責. Who will reject the offer in those famous school if they got a place?

子女在學校的競爭, 慢慢成為家庭與家庭間的競爭,
don't you think that competition starts already when your child was young? Have your child join playgroup, learn various subject, activities..........
The world around us is like that. Everybody believe in brand name and eager to have one.