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因著望子成龍的心,
因著自我的好奇心,
因著父母的虛榮心,
決定給孩子一試那所-
嚮付盛名的直資名校咯!
雖然在交報名表前!也曾掙扎猶疑!
但在同學仔媽咪的催促下,
(在此可要多謝一下那位家長對我的一番話:
因為她,明知孩子都不是該校的一杯茶,
但還是給他安排這次面試的機會(I tried that school as well, not because of 虛榮心, but because my responsibility as a parent. I always remind myself, I'm the gate keeper of my kids, should grasp every potentially good opportunity for them. The results rest on the God, but the process rests on me. I'm the opportunities catcher. To me, I've no choice but to catch the opportunity, whenever there is a hope for my kid, similar to your 望子成龍的心),.
當中也真有不少得著的啊)
還是花了一個半小時,為孩子交回報名報!
沒錯,只是為了交一份報名表,
我呆等了一個半小時!
呆等中途也曾想過放棄,
特別在看著自己與其他家長一同站在操場外發呆之際,
望著那條前方的長龍,
望著每名家長臉上的茫然,
三番四次,我問自己值得嗎?
很有想掉頭就走的意思 (I've a number of occasions feeling like this, but as my kid's gate keeper, my brain reminds me I have to insist, have to grasp those opportunities, and let the God decides the results. I do agree, the process is full of dilemma. I walked through those long steps of that school for some times, I once felt the process is so lonely, with only minimal hope of success, slight hope of good matching with my kid. But my brain still reminds me to insist, simply hoping that chance would turn out to be a good matching with my kids. Hope vanishes one after another, but I still have to insist, simply because I'm my kids' frontier & gate keeper. Though I don't want to create failure & pressure, but I have to create opportunities for my kids -- a dilemma that I can't escape.).
還好,等了二十分鐘後,我與各家長如獲大赦的,
給引領到二樓課室內繼續等待!
Thanks 010 for your touching sharing.
原文章由 010 於 07-10-25 10:40 硐表
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因著望子成龍的心,
因著自我的好奇心,
因著父母的虛榮心,
決定給孩子一試那所-
嚮付盛名的直資名校咯!
雖然在交報名表前!也曾掙扎猶疑!
但在同學仔媽咪的催促下,
(在此可要多謝一下那位家長對我的一番話:
因為她,明知孩子都 ...
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