我真的戇居嗎?

Snakemama

我哋家長為子女選學校果陣（或決定讀邊間後），可否叫D親戚：旁觀者，不得依牙鬆杆！

like_travel

你老公應即時同佢講 " 我老婆同個女既choice 就係right choice !　　”

rkk88

如沒有記錯,女的成績又唔太好,可能去津中會讀得舒服D,記得月前樓主說還想賣樓(讀直資要交學費),現在津中有OFFER便好,2方面:女和大家都好.

mandy_lee

唔係wor 我都低估咗你女成績,  以我所知你女除中文同maths 唔係頭3名外, 其餘科目都是全班第一名啊. 加起來平均分應該幾高下, 點解唔再扣門再好d學校呢.  

khmama

信你個親戚先on居，佢憑咩話人成績下滑呀?攞啲証據嚟睇下啦！亂咁話人低質，佢啲仔女又試下去考下，睇下人地收唔收！

洛婷

rkk88 發表於 12-7-18 18:08
如沒有記錯,女的成績又唔太好,可能去津中會讀得舒服D,記得月前樓主說還想賣樓(讀直資要交學費),現在津中有O ...

我睇過之前既 post  , 好似數學得 8 分 ???

好奇...點扣名校 ???

k_0530_a

原帖由 洛婷 於 12-07-18 發表
我睇過之前既 post  , 好似數學得 8 分 ???

好奇...點扣名校 ???

吾開校名，很難作正確的比較。
但親戚一言，我只會聽完就算。

cy101

不如PM 問下khmama 邊間好d!!!

洛婷

like_travel  100% with special talent  發表於 12 秒前


邊樣特異功能咁犀利 ???

jaci

你叩得的, 你一定覺得好才去. 收得你個女, 亦證明你個女有實力, 女女開頭唔慣, 就教她識新朋友的方法, 其他閒人說什麼, 當收唔到

ohnono

樓主你並唔係戇居，不過我見你一陣又問人中學係咪好容易唔合格，一陣又驚自己學校唔夠好，你係唔夠自信心！唔合格就勤力d囉，學校唔夠好用勤力來搭夠一樣得架。


唔係一定要讀最好的學校先唔戇居，讀到最好的學校都可以好戇居。最緊要量力而為，有沒有見過我之前quote個女仔，派到band 3學校又點，凡事正面看就得。

呢度好多家長的小朋友都唔係讀最top學校，一樣生活得好開心。你看看有家長已經將派位的事拋開，轉而細味小朋友成長的道路。珍惜眼前一刻比甚麼也來得矜貴！

樓主，從廣義的角度來看，小朋友既然又有間不錯的學校，又有個咁好嗲、媽咪，還夫復何求！

Papa_wong

你們及小朋友喜歡的就是正確的选擇。何不快快乐乐地過暑假，-間再好的中學也不等於成功，讀書是條很長的路！

JustAParent

聽你所言，不覺得放棄直資有何問題。但是，大人小朋友心理上可能需要調整一下。人的一切建基於正面的自我評價，自我評價低，自然自卑，覺得人家看不起自己。同學年紀小心直口快，說話未必句句認真，自信心強的小朋友聽了就算，做不到，未來不開心多的是。

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vincher

回復 htts 的帖子

忍不住，拋下一句：
若你繼續介意親朋戚友0既說話，就真的戇居！

vincher

回復 htts 的帖子

放心放心！我仔因沒有同學仔一齊讀中一，開始時有微言，
而家，POUND 「距」都0吾走，0吾肯轉校，好喜歡讀緊0既學校！

oscarmama

通常親戚朋友講完嘢吾洗負責任，拍吓pat pat就走人。
反而係你個女點諗先重要

htts

Dear all,

My girl and I really need to adjust our thought and mindset.  In fact, I lack confidence on my daughter as her performance, attitude, behaviour, etc are not stable.  Sometimes could be OK but then   Like this time, she got 1st place in English in her class but she got terrible marks/grade in the past (single-digit marks).  The class teacher also addressed her big problem was not able to maintain a steady and stable academic result.  No apparent improvement or breakthrough was observed.  Besides, she's that kind of person who is easily affected and influenced by people around her.

My girl is also poor in health which is a major concern to us.  Not going to tell too much about there here as too personal.

We were not happy when hearing "negative comment" by friends/relatives about our decision as we were fear if we had really made a mistake in school choice.  Maybe we should stay calm and trust ourselves.

Thanks for your consolation.

龍舌蘭

嘩, 成篇雞腸, 睇唔明.
再勸妳一次啦,
妳再係o甘做落去, 就真係on 居啦.因為人地一句野就改變立場?  笑話! 即來之則安之.  已經注冊左, 又不可以返轉頭, 諗都無謂,講下去更無辜(對妳囡) hk名校妳囡都佔左其二, 又點會唔叻. 不如俾心機分享下點教女仲好啦.

mamafufu

ohnono 發表於 12-7-18 18:54
唔係一定要讀最好的學校先唔戇居，讀到最好的學校都可以好戇居。最緊要量力而為 ...

super888

係你地自己既女 5係吖乜水個女 駛鬼理佢係度up3up4 阻住哂!