仔仔aged 1.5, 一星期返四日playgroup是否太辛苦?

mamath

找到兩間做得好的playgroup, 每間至少一星期2堂, 車/路程亦不算遠. 與其讓小朋友整天對著工人或老人家free play, 不如安排多一些playgroup?

minirat

我覺得ok
其實幸苦的是大人（接送小朋友），不是小朋友
小朋友去playgroup對他們來講系去玩
不過上堂接觸其他人多左，病的機會相對地都會多d
我之前都俾仔仔上個一個星期一次的playgroup
我覺得作用真的不大，我寧願自己帶他出街，或去公園玩
甚至平時系屋企一面玩，一面叫他野，都有效過一個星期一次的playgroup
我仔仔現在20個月大上緊Montessori，一個星期3日
我老爺帶他返學，路程都唔遠，不過都需要搭車
我都唔好意思幸苦老人家，都一度想放棄，不過我老公話ok

sum_chan

原帖由 minirat 於 13-03-12 發表
我覺得ok
其實幸苦的是大人（接送小朋友），不是小朋友
小朋友去playgroup對他們來講系去玩

請問你小朋友有冇返n 班？還是只上Montessori playgroup?

sum_chan

更正：嚟緊會唔會返n 班？會唔會同時返Montessori playgroup?

minirat

sum_chan 發表於 13-3-12 17:02
請問你小朋友有冇返n 班？還是只上Montessori playgroup?

我會俾他返N，今年9月先入學。
Montessori playgroup應該會上到入PN為止

minirat

sum_chan 發表於 13-3-12 17:05
更正：嚟緊會唔會返n 班？會唔會同時返Montessori playgroup?

應該唔會
唔想他上甘多班
因為仲細
同埋我老爺奶奶凑，接送都幸苦
上PN都會比較易病，再上montessori班，機會相對加倍
所以暫時唔考慮
你小朋友都上緊Montessori？

minirat

bbqueendom 發表於 13-3-12 17:10
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小朋友未必辛苦,怕就只係怕老人家帶佢去會辛苦(如果果日天氣潮濕,地面滑,天氣太熱,太 ...

非常同意！
所以我都有少少想放棄
因為我仔仔又成日要人抱
我老爺帶他返學都好幸苦
同意如果自己是FTM，我絕對會帶他日日返學
埋當出街玩

sum_chan

我仔而家16 個月，打算18個月比佢返下Montessori。所以想睇下其他mama 的practice 係點。你小朋友初初返Montessori 有冇唔慣？

minirat

sum_chan 發表於 13-3-12 17:27
我仔而家16 個月，打算18個月比佢返下Montessori。所以想睇下其他mama 的practice 係點。你小朋友初初返Mon ...

Montessori需要自己返學（入課室）
開頭一兩日無事，跟住其他小朋友入去玩
之後就開始喊，要老師抱，唔肯落地！
一日喊成堂，之後就喊半堂，20分鐘，慢慢減少
前後喊左一個星期左右
他算比較獨立，平時都少喊
你打算俾他返邊間Montessori？

minirat

bbqueendom 發表於 13-3-12 17:28
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我99唔係推bb車,係用揹帶,而家阿b歲半好重la,都怕99辛苦,所以希望快d返n班,自己帶佢 ...

明白。我都期待來緊N班可以自己帶他返學，所以我prefer上午班。因為下午班我做唔到接送，上午至少早上可以送他返學，放學就老爺奶奶接。

sum_chan

我唸住報bambino 因近屋企。其實我都好驚阿仔喊到唔收聲。。

sum_chan

May i know if your son join bambino, Minirat? Is yours good?

minirat

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Yes, my boy is attending Bambino.  I think it's reasonably good.  Honestly I do not have much expectations from playgroups, especially the fact that the progress for Montessori is known to be slow.  I do see some improvements in my boy recently after attending 4 months.  Every child will have a different experience.  My boy is an independent boy by nature, so I do not see huge improvements in him but I do learn from other parents that their children gain a lot from the same school.  You could maybe experience it yourself.  Where do you stay?  Best Concept is at TST too.  I heard their teachers are more experienced than Bambino.  Having said that, Best Concept is previously famous with the teacher, Ms Ellen, and she is the pioneer of Bambino.  My son is attending her classes now.  I think most kids will cry like hell fo the first few lessons.  Separation training is easier when they are younger.  If you don't train him now, he will still experience it when he starts attending PN class later.

mamath

minirat 發表於 13-3-12 16:55
我覺得ok
其實幸苦的是大人（接送小朋友），不是小朋友
小朋友去playgroup對他們來講系去玩

Thank you and all for your response.  My son is used to playgroup and indeed went through frequent sickness period.  So it is not a concern.

My thinking is to exhaust my son's energy by going to playgroups.  He is a fast walker and i can feel how bored he is when we are out for work.  I have indeed tried many playgroups (including nottingham you once commented) and wish to stay focus on either one or two.  They are both not cheap and therefore I asked.

I didn't join Montessori as the location is not convenient to us.

drlyuen

我囡囡1.5歲時一星期返12堂playgroup，星期一至六上下午各一堂，佢不知幾開心。

mamath

drlyuen 發表於 13-3-12 18:33
我囡囡1.5歲時一星期返12堂playgroup，星期一至六上下午各一堂，佢不知幾開心。 ...

咁勁?!!  Are they very close to your house?

drlyuen

不，要周圍去，銅鑼灣，堅島，鴨脷洲，中上環，天后，北角。不過我囡囡真係比其他小朋友學得快啲，未到兩歲已經講complete sentence.