Searching the Best School in the World Donated to thankful

iamfine

原文章由 thankful 於 08-7-11 16:50 發表
My friend, you are in deep poo poo! (Sorry, I can't use the word "sxxt".  There is a campaign against it out there!)  You read Financial times.  You are showing off your financial knowledge!  If I wer ...

Thanks for the advice.  To save myself, I admit that I also read THE SUN.

iamfine

原文章由 thankful 於 08-7-11 17:03 發表
The Sun?  Page 3?  My God, you are showing off that you still have a drive!  You are dead, man, you are dead!

I am a decent man and there are ladies here. Mind your words. ;)

Fate

Dear All Actively Participating & Quietly Reading Parents

There have been a lot going on since my last Response within such a short time, I trust you all appreciate I need time to first read ALL these feedbacks, then digest their meaning and to finally provide a Repsonse.

Although my younger child started having a Diarrhea this evening & I've to prepare my boys to return shcool next week, I aim to provide a Response by this Sunday (2100 hrs) HK TIME THE LATEST.

Could I suggest all those Actively Participating Parents to Take a Break from this thread for the next two days, have a Relaxing Mind and a Happy Mood to spend some Great Time with your children for the weekend.

You've come to this world because of Your Child NOT me.
S/he Deserves More of Your Time & Energy.

After all, for those considering they've learnt something Positive (either through me or others or their OWN) need time to sit down and plan how they are to put their Learning into Practising; and

For those considering my thread is a Joke, also need time to think about what is next to a....assess.

If anyone is still Egaer to continue providing Positive feedebacks over the weekend, please do feel free to do so.

Indeed, this is a Democratic World, and although I may not be a Gentleman, I'll NOT and can NOT Dictate What  One should do and How they Should Do things etc., provided that they behaving in a Gentleman Manner.

Gosh....it's 2110 hrs here , have to go, to take boys to bed and talk about..

See you lot soon.

Cheers
Fate
Tomorrow is a Better Day - when you let IT Go

Twolovelyboys

Its been an interesting week this week,

More exciting than watching the "Dallas" saga on "WHo shot JR Ewing" over 20 years ago (for those of you old enough toremembered).

Only an hour before I finish work. Not sure what the weather is like in HK but it will be sunny here in the UK this saturday and sunday.

I think everyone should calm down and take a break, enjoy the weekend with the kids and carry on the discussion, arguement or what ever you guys want to call it next week.

Signing out!!!!

一條毛

Thankful,

I don't know this guy, but I think we may meet this type of person from time to time.

一條毛

原文章由 thankful 於 08-7-11 10:16 發表
Hi, 一條毛,

Do you know this guy Fate?

Thankful  

一條毛

Mighty,

1. Civil servants' kids do not have lower tuition fee in ESF. However, civil servants can apply for Local Education Allowance if they send their kids to schools which need to pay tiution fee, including all international schools, DSS and private schools. The amount is 75% of school fee or about $30000 per annum whichever is the lower.

2. I want my son to escape the big lucky draw for primary school and I want him to learn more Chinese esp. PTH and expose more to Asian Value. Also, my son is very interested in science (He wanted to be a Palaeontologist last year, but he wanted to be a Biologist early this year. However, he wants to be an Astronomer now.) Therefore, I think SIS is most suitable for him.

一條毛

原文章由 Mighty 於 08-7-11 13:54 發表
一条毛 - I read through your input with int ...

[ 本文章最後由 一條毛 於 08-7-11 23:40 編輯 ]

Mighty

Hi

(1) HK$30,000 is definitely a big relief.  Pity that I am not a civil servant .

(2) Definitely SIS is a good school.  I think you made a good choice.

Good luck and have a nice weekend.

Fate

My Dearest thankful, iamfine & Mighty

I'm really, truly, deeply and whoeheartedly sorry that I'm













NOT going to be Straight Forward this time either, as I've to say the following first.

















WARNING
The following content may contain words that are acceptable to Inmature Children but unacceptable to Sensible Parents, Matured Children are therefore advised to exercise Discretion if their Inmature Parents be allowed to read alone.  The content may also contain Mean, Meaningful or Meaningless Remarks, as well as comments of Humurous Nature, Sensible Parents are therefore advised NOT to read when eating or drinking, as this could lead to you being choked and admitted into a hospital, then suffering a Dramatic/Traumatic Life Experience, due to hospital's "Insisting Losing Patients' Datas" policy.

Quick Users' Guide
"?" = Words of Bad Taste or Indecent Nature, e.g. "S??t"

(iamfine) = Quote from iamfine, e.g. "S??t" (iamfine)

______ = In Old Teaaching, this means "Just don't ask, Memorise it, Squeeze it into your tiny Brain if you've one." In New Thinking, this means "Is this interested you? What do you make of this?" - Food For Thought.

e.g. The Wall St to CRASH in any two given weeks before the END of this year, forcing USA into the Greatest Depression & causing Turnmoil in Global Financial Markets.

Dear All Patiently Quietly Reading Respectful, the Majority, Parents,

7 Days after first started this thread, I'm afraid it has come to the time to say Goodbye, but since Life is about Appreciating, how could I just simply leave without thanking all those giving their Valuable Inputs?

So, in no particular order, and, sorry if I've NOT given everyone a prize, I'm now presenting the Awards to the following Parents.

First, "One Hair".  

You're "Spot On"!
I was indeed in the Police (though NOT with the SB PHQ)

BTW, wah! $20,000 - how did they do it? I could NOT even trick my younger boy to give me $1 when I pretending to be a robber, because he stated his dad did not have money as he never visited a bank! (I use Internet banking)

So, "One Hair", you've won yourself ,

"The Most Spot On Parent" Award!!

So, "we may see (you) this type of person from time to time"? ("One Hair")

Then, to xenonlit & owenmami, you two have been amusing by giving one line answer about the Best School, Tactfully and Respecfully reminding all Parents, "There is NO Best School" in this world, as well as giving me the opportunity to express the SAME view when Responding.  And RichMPoorM, you also reminding us the Most Relevant Point, "The Parents Matter Most".

As such, you three deserve the prize of,

"The Most Straight Forward Parent" Award!

Mum99, Undoubtedly, your SAY NO CAMPAIGN has raised the debate (if not the Heat) to a New Level, but I've to admit this is the first time I've seen this type of Campaign in BK, so, I've decided to present you,

"The Most Innovative Parent" Award!

(thankful, good efforts in copy cat the Campaign idea!)

papa2ooo, you've been called as a Dancer, sorry, I mean, the Bouncer, but, I believe you're the Producer of a Humurous Remark,

"chingyu, be careful.........he may throw a few dictionaries at you"

Reminding all Parents another Practical use of a dictionary if circumstance so requires! (I once did that for a spider)

For this, you deserve to win,

The "Most Humurous Parent" Award!

(Some of you may suspect Mum 99 & papa2ooo have won prizes because of them showing support for me. But if you lot think like this, I just can NOT help it but say,








you lot are Absolutely Right!! There is always Favorism in this world!  I make Mistakes just like any other Human!

Daydream, where're you now. You've made a Big Hit - by hitting all the ESF Parents, so you deserve,

"The One Hit Wonder" Award!

(Just like any other One Hit Wonder Singer/Film Star)

Here comes a very important Award.  This Award demands Exceptional High Level of IQ, EQ, Respect & Tact and this Award,

"The Most Respectful & Tactful" Award

Has to go to whoelse but the Right Honourable, currenty in UK, the







Twolovelyboys

Every Parnet, I personally believe, should give Twolovelyboys a Standing Ovation!!  Not only because you've been reading Patiently, have come to maintain Order, but mainly because you've done it in the Most Balance Way and the Most Respectable Manner.  

(The bit I admire most was you NOT "copy & paste" my previous thread about the "Best School", though it's Pity that another parent just could NOT withholding herself by rushing to do it, which has indeed spoiled your Good Intention)

Sorry, if I have miss out any parents, please accept the fact that,

NOONE IS PERFECT

I'm indeed Imperfect, but I assure the Majority I'll ensure the following Most Eager Parents NOT to miss out,

thankful, iamfree & Mighty.

Now, move onto the Part 2.

Cheers
Fate
A Great Journey comes from meeting Great People

[ 本文章最後由 Fate 於 08-7-13 20:22 編輯 ]

Fate

Dear the Majority

Many of you must have been wondering why there are a few pepole would have behaved in such a Negative Way, and indeed some of you'd expressed Grave concerns (also Support) by sending me PM & E Mail.

But, as usual, I take the Positive Approach, which is again FREE.  The "Gang of Three" some of you called them, thankful, iamfree & Mighty, are actually doing us, the Majority, a Great Favour.

This Gang, sorry, Group of Three are Offensive, I mean, Offering their Upmost Efforts in performing their Part Time FREE Post as the Cute, I mean Cult Leader, thankful; Deputy Cult Leader, iamfree and the Assistant Cult Leader, Mighty, by which they have all given up their Humanity, sorry, I mean, Hungarian Passports.

Seriously, I feel that we've to give them the Benefits of Doubts. They're actually doing something that us, the Majority, also the "Average" (One Hair), may not understand.

They've Sacrificed  themselves by taking up the Full Time Post in ACTING the ROLES of as,

"??" (thankful)
"S??t" (iamfree)
"Misery" (Mighty)

And  their hardwork and endless inputs have finally paid off, a panel of Judges, yes, this time, you lot are being JUDGED for a change - but for the Good Intentions.  The panel is to decide which Award should be given to whom.

First, thanksful, for his part as "??" (thankful)  in the "Best School Drama".

"You put me in a very difficult situation" (thankful), you're Absolultely Shinning all the times, although you've NO previous experience in Opening up a thread yourself, you have displayed Amusing Acting Skill, showing "??" possessing:

-  Unmatched Desperation in seeking Audience's Attention by asking N Nasty Questions, Complete Ignoring others' Reasonable Answers/Agruments & Total Cheekiness in Asnwering others' Questions;

- Total Understaning of Chairman Mao's Theory of,

"The Friends of My Enemy are Automatically my Enemies too"

Making their lives as Hard as Possible;

- 1st Class Skill in Presenting Agruement on Misleading Grounds, Twisting Most Points in Own Favour & Intentionally Playing with Words; and

- Master Skills in eating "??", sorry, I mean, effectively using words like "??",  "Dr??e" in a Totally Inappropriate Environment (after reading the P.3 of the Sun, www.thesun.co.uk)

The panel has truly been impressed by "??"'s SSS,

Shameless, Systematic, Stabbing (of others)!

And also by thankful's Substandard, sorry, I mean, Substance.

But, the panel is also Stunned by the Performance of iamfree, acting as "S??t" in the same drama.  He's real "WOW! COOL!" (iamfree)

They've found him, although NOONE has responded to his thread, titled "Wedding During the Quake - Most Unusual Wedding Photo" since published on 3 June 08,  iamfree never gave up and has performed the Role Superbly by demonstrating "S??t" has

- Undisputed Quality as a Cunning, I mean, Cult Leader;

- Impressive Skill in checking several dictionaries at the same time;

- Master Magical Skill in Changing "Unacceptable" Words to "Acceptable";

- sometimes Lost Temper;

- Great Love for eating "S??t", I mean using the word, effecting arguing the word, "S??t" and

- Self Improvement Drive by readig both "Sun" & "FT" to ensure you're above "Average".

The panel is particularly made Speechless by your BBB,

Blunt Barbaric Bashing (on others)!

After taking all the considerations, the panel has finally decided that thankful in his role as  "??" has won,




"The Best Male Actor (Cyber Bullying Category)"!

And, iamfree in his role as "S??t" has won,

"The Best Supporting Male Actor (Cyber Bullying Category)"!  

Now come to the part played by Mighty as "Misery" in the same drama.  The panel is completely in love with this Character because "Misery" has demonstrated :

- Desperation in seeking Audience's Attention by Rushing to be the First one to response AND with Negatvie Spoiling Remarks;

- Complete Contradiction by accusing others of Spoiling when only trying to find the Best School for their child, and yet youself trying to find the Best Lunch Box for your girl by Opening a Thread, "Lunch Box Ideas for Primary Students";

- Readiness to deny anything that is Correct, such as the Mighty does not mean the Mighty God, even though you're Religious;

- Complete Contrast in Behaviours,  you're so Kind, Polite & HUMBLE when seeking others advice through your threads, "Sunday School in English" & "House Valuation";

- Instant Switching Side to the Side that's in the Upper Hand & Immediately Switching to English when others are NOT using Chinese;

- Unmatch Enthusiasm in Showing Off, even though twolovelyboys found my past thread about my views on "The Best School", she did the Respectable Act of ONLY pointing others the way by providing the link, and you're just COPY & PASTE with Great Satisfaction, and the best bit, you're so proud in Teasing, "End of the story, yes?"

- Total Ignorance of yourself kept critising me using the word "FREE", when at the same time kept critising others chasing after the word, "S??t"; and

- Total Surprise of using "Go to He??" as an example in the wrong contest & being so Unforviging, even though you're Religious as evident in your post, "Sunday School in English" when asking your holy brothers & sisters.

As such, there is NO other Female Actor coming close to your : AAA

Astonishing Aggressive Attack (on others)!

So, without any doubt, you've won yourself, through the Role of "Misery",

"The Best Feamle Actor (Cyber Bullying Category"!!


You Three have Perfectly Presenting us the Perfect Image of the Lowest Person that,

"Hate People Rich, Hate People Poor"

And the prize is?

It's really difficult because I can NOT give "investment tips" (thankful) , can NOT "Give a "S??t"(iamfree), so I can only give you lot,









THIS THREAD FOR FREE!!!

(You Lot have been doing THIS anyway! I just Rubber Stamp it, making it OFFICIAL only, Happy?)


Now, move onto the Part 3, the Tragedy.

Cheers
Fate
The Day you think you're the Greatest,
The Day it's your Saddest

[ 本文章最後由 Fate 於 08-7-13 20:02 編輯 ]

Fate

Dear Patient The Majority,

Now, come to my Hidden Agenda or what's that word for movie, I mean motive again, thankful, sorry, the Best Male Actor (Cyber Bullying Category) for his Role as "P??" ?

Cyber Bullying

This has NEVER BEEN SO REAL and SO CLOSE.

For the last whole week, the Majority must have witnessed and felt first hand, the Brutal Facts of Life, unfolding bit by bit, hours by hours, happening right in front of your very eyes, when you sometimes even could NOT control yourself from the Excitment.

(Remember how you rushed to the computer and log onto the BK site?)

But, let me now tell you a Tragedy happened in USA, which I heard from a TV news reported in Australia about 2 months ago.

Being so angry her teenager daughter was being Bullied by her classmate,  a US mother carefully orchestrated a Revenge.  

She did NOT go to the Principal to lodge a complaint, NOT using her mouth;

She did NOT go to the outside of the school ground; NOT using her fists;

Instead, this mother went to sit in front of a computer, using her Brain.

And gradually & quietly working her way to the teenager girl Bullier. The Mother finally won the Trust of the teenager girl Builler by being her Lover - yes, the Revenge Seeking Mother had materminded the Worst Attack on the Bullier,

Pretending to be a Cute teenage boy

Saying all these nice things in the cyber world, winning the Trust and then the Heart of the teenage girl Bullier.

And then the Revenge stroke.

The Perfect Teenger Boy Lover, that is, the Mother, DUMPED the teenager girl Bullier.

And said the Meaniest and Groundless Things to her.  

And do you know what happend to the Heart Broken, Self Estem Shattered teenage girl Bullier?





Yes.  She Killed Herself.

And the Perfect Planner, mother?




She was arrested & then subsequently charged.

After this Tradegy, I'v decided, by USING ALL MEANS, to expose this Real Big Cyber Bullying Issue.

This thread is another approach to remind you all to spend LESS time in the Cyber World, to keep an eye on how to ensure your Children NOT to spend too much time in this Cyber World either, avoid them being a Victim of Crimes!

Interaction is much better with Real People Face to Face.  And it's less likely for some to Be Nasty, to Bully others when they can NOT hide behind their Virtual Identity.

So, in this Cyber World, how could  one tell if,

Fate is NOT = Mum99 = papa2ooo = Everyone in BK?

Equally, how do you know thankful is NOT = iamfree = Mighty etc.

In fact, how  do you know I am NOT = thankful, trying to Seek All the Attention, and in the process of doing do, WINNING all your Trust, and then Cheat your Money?

Remember, from later today (Date of Joining :08-07-13) I could change my name to Fat, and thankful could be teaseful, iamfree could be iamfuss and Mighty could be Misery etc.

Remember what "One Hair" has stated when him describing his "Static Life Experience" , highlighting he "I came across Daydream and his difference identities"?

I'm aware of there is at least one BK "DAD", in the past, had won the Trust of some BK Mums and got their home nos.. He then rang the Mums in the middle of the nights and started talking something strange. The Danger is always there.

Now, let's all sit down and ask :

Why there are Bullying Children at Most if not all Schools?

Why there are Bullying Adults at Most if not all offices?

And how we as Responsible Parents could do to ensure our children  NOT to become a Bullier, or a Victim of a Bullier?

Now move onto my Part 4, the Final Part,

What have we Learnt?

Cheers
Fate
Together We Build a Safer, Happier, Cleaner & More Caring Community

[ 本文章最後由 Fate 於 08-7-13 20:05 編輯 ]

Fate

Dear Still Reading Parents,

So, after all these Dramatic and Traumatic times, what have we all learnt?

Just in case you've Read this thread in a different way (like me in Writing) - from the End first!  Would it be one or all of the following four from the Positive Contributing Parents:-

1) NO One school is the BEST for Everyone.

2) There are only Better Matched schools to suit our child's need at a particular moment of time;

3) Nothing more important than us, the Parents' Active & Positive Involvement in our child's development; and

4) Are we the Best Ourselves?  If not, why keep pushing our children to be one, pushing them too soon, too hard and into the wrong area?

I've made it clear to my boys, if anything you two want to be Best In, I prefer them to be :-

1) The Happiest;
2) The Healthiest;
3) The Kindest; or
4) The Most Honest etc.

Have you also learnt something from one of the following avenues:

1) My previous thread about the Best School;

2) My Part 3 of this thread about "Cyber Bullying"; and

3) Arguing Parents

For the last 7 days, I've learnt a lot about Myself, and Others, be it the Supporting or Opposing parents, and in particular about Life itself.

I've not "Complete Waste of time" (thankful or iamfree or both?), if there is one single parent "out there"(Mum 99) now understands one of the following about Learning,

1) Learning should NOT be restricted in a Classroom/School Environment;

2) Every One is A Teacher, be them the Good or the Bad;

(sometime, Enemies make you Learn More as them pushing you Harder)

3) Every Incident/Situation/Circumstance is a Golden Learning Opportunity, enabling us to Be a Bit Wiser and Happier; and

4) The Best Education comes from Parents - where do all these school Bullies coming from?

Is it Fair to expect an Overstretched, Underpaid, ever tied up by never ending government & school policies, forever chasing syllabus Teacher with 25+ children trapped in a overcrowded if not smelly tiny classroom to give her Best to your One Particular Child in the Limited Time Frame, when there are several misbehaved if not screaming children in the class the Teacher can NOT touch?

Try to have a breakfast with 5 children AT THE SAME TIME?  Or better still, try to get all of them to bath or to bed?  

It'll be like a WAR ZONE!!

Your Child with the Same Teacher for a year (or two if demoted!) The Same Principal  for about 3-5 years, given the current contract system - a Parent is for at least 40 Years AND have one of two children only (due to Financial AND Physical reasons)

Who do you think is in a Much Better position in giving our child the Best?  

Us or the Teacher/School?

The Best School is AT HOME,
The Best Teacher is US, the Parents. (Do it for FREE!!)
And the Best Gifts to our child is Our Time and Patience.

And the Only Persons have the SAME Agenda as the child are Their Parents.

It's been a Great 7-day journey for me, mentally travelling all the way from Australia to be with you lot in HK, and I can NOT leave without Saying a BIG BIG "Thank You" to, first,








bbjan

Your feedback,

"I like yr New Age Style Writing"

has made my day.

Not only becasue you like my style, but because you've understood the Importance of "Thinking and Acting Creatively" in taking up the ever Changing Global Challenges.  I've no doubt you're one of those parents well preparing their child to effectly deal with the coming Challenges in Life.

And, of course, chingyu.

You may not be Big in size, Not having a Big Head like some of those never stop arguing, but you defintely have a BIG HEART.  

Even our two familes just met from a distance, only for a short time & it only happened once, you've Stood Up for me, for what you Believe In.  

To you,

There is always Good or Bad.
There is always Right or Wrong.  
There is a Bottlom Line & should NEVER be Crossed.


Thank You.


A BIG thank you to all those Quietly Supporting me Parents!

Remember,

Only You, Yourself  & Not Others could find the Best Way Forward for Yourself and your Child/ren.

And My Way Forward is to DONATE this Thread to thankful, iamfree & Mighty, I'm sure they've a lot to say - though this time the Majority love to see their REAL CHARACTERS and NOT their Award Winning Roles as "??", "S??t" or "Misery".  In Life, we all have a choice to be a Gentleman/Lady.

And I've demonstrated, beyond all reasonable doubts, to those Negative People what Positive People Can do BETTER than them if the Positive People want to play, after all, I was the King of Complaint and was once at top 1% of the Police for Achievement.  

On Behalf of ALL Positive People, I'm here to remind Negative People,

"using Others into Corner is only pushing YOURSELF into Corner."

I've reminded my boys the need to be Kind to others, not only because it's Right to do so, but also because you NEVER know someone you help today could save your Life 20-30 years later.

Thanks for all your Attention.  So, you lot now know why I want the MAXIMUM ATTENTION?

And I trust your Attention is now back to your Much Loved Child/ren, to whom we all owe a Happy Childhood.

Like every good/bad thing in Life, there is always an Ending.  Let's make this a Happy One, a Productive One.

Take good care of yourself. And your Child/ren.

Bye.


***************THE END****************

(I started writing this Response since 0800 hrs this morning and it's now 1530 hrs, for the last 7 1/2 hours, I sat in front of my notebook, even eating breakfast & lunch on top of it! Trust you therefore understand this is a REAL Goodbye - I will NOT response in this thread IN PUBLIC anymore as I really have to start writing my book - I've a deadline to meet)

Cheers
Fate
Bad may sometimes in the Upper Hand,
Good will Always WIN in the End

[ 本文章最後由 Fate 於 08-7-13 20:31 編輯 ]

一條毛

Fate,

Can you give out your book FREE after it is published?

一條毛

原文章由 Fate 於 08-7-13 13:23 發表
Dear Still Reading Parents,

So, after all these Dramatic and Traumatic times, what have we all learnt?

Just in case you've Read this thread in a different way (like me in Writing) - from the End fir ...

Mighty

I was struggling to write or not.  Not to : because I think it is a waste of time of mine and others'.  To write : I really feel sorry for you this time to spend your precious Sunday on writing this and not on your children when especially one of them is not feeling well.  

My threads :
Lunch box ideas : I'd never said 'the best lunch box' as there is none but I was only asking for ideas.   There is give and take of course.  So I am thinking of translating one very good website from Japanese to Chinese so to share with others who are also lookiing for ideas.
Bank's evaluation : if you write facts and genuinely ask for advice, you will get it... unlike this thread is going nowhere.  I got a very good advice from a member who wrote me a pm and gave me a very good referral.  I called the banker the next day and I got the propety evaluated at my buying price.   See, this is how it works.

I dont know why you always associate the word mighty with mighty god.  Mighty - to me - means strong and powerful.  Sunday school - yes, I am planning to take my daughter to Sunday school and buddhist lessons too (when she is a bit older), so that she can explore the different beliefs herself and choose one that she likes.

一條毛

Mum 99,

Are you the 'Worm inside Fate's stomach'? If not, please don't put words into Fate's mouth. May be Fate is very willing to give out his book for free since I got the impression that he wants to save the world.

一條毛

原文章由 Mum99 於 08-7-13 22:41 發表
As long as youWORK for
FREE!

No Wonder you got the The Most "Spat" On Parent Award,  Mean to Others, Kind to Self.

Gosh, Cyber Bullying, have to run for my life!

Mum 99


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