有冇後悔比仔女讀IS?

babyoush

原帖由 filicity 於 09-9-28 08:55 發表
其實最緊要係你個小朋友適合邊種教學模式,例如如果佢係模仿形就最適合傳統學校,而認知形就應該讀國際學校.當然經濟能力都要考慮啦!
我個女已經係QBS讀咗兩年,之前係Woodland讀,我同老公都非常满意,而個女又極開心.而 ...

我2個女都係讀woodland, 真係好開心包括我自己, 不過問題就係大女話鍾意local不過佢係認知型, 做野好主動, 細女係模仿型但模仿得嚟佢又唔鍾意墨守成規, 因為佢好怕重複同一樣野, 點算......唉~

oooray

原帖由 babyoush 於 09-9-28 13:14 發表


我2個女都係讀woodland, 真係好開心包括我自己, 不過問題就係大女話鍾意local不過佢係認知型, 做野好主動, 細女係模仿型但模仿得嚟佢又唔鍾意墨守成規, 因為佢好怕重複同一樣野, 點算......唉~ ...

其實妳揀得Woodland是否已經心中有數，已決定用腳對香港教育制度投下神聖一票?
小朋友仲細，今天妳用父母o既智慧幫佢擇，萬一擇錯，仲可以再用父母o既智慧(仲有剩o既話)修正修正再修正；
如果妳今天放手俾佢自己揀，明天，後天妳又會唔會覺得佢揀得唔o岩心水"手痕"(咪話後悔咁嚴重)又幫佢調教o下?
當然，如果對Local School平靚正o既service仲有信心，另作别論。
以上只是小人偏見，唔o岩心水莫見怪。

babyoush

原帖由 oooray 於 09-9-28 14:02 發表

其實妳揀得Woodland是否已經心中有數，已決定用腳對香港教育制度投下神聖一票?
小朋友仲細，今天妳用父母o既智慧幫佢擇，萬一擇錯，仲可以再用父母o既智慧(仲有剩o既話)修正修正再修正；
如果妳今天放手俾佢自己揀，明天，後天妳 ...

係架, 其實由未大肚個時就已經投咗票架啦, 不過小朋友開始大, 唔理佢感受又好似有點兒....

oooray

原帖由 babyoush 於 09-9-28 14:10 發表


係架, 其實由未大肚個時就已經投咗票架啦, 不過小朋友開始大, 唔理佢感受又好似有點兒....

我對仔女個個禮拜都叫我去Toysrus,Disney, Ocean Park….咁邊個理我感受?

almom

原帖由 babyoush 於 09-9-28 14:10 發表


係架, 其實由未大肚個時就已經投咗票架啦, 不過小朋友開始大, 唔理佢感受又好似有點兒....

There are things that children would never have a choice.
We parents are the people that decide what is best for them according to our values and believe.
What if your child says I am not going to school and want to work at 16? Are you still going to respect her choice?

May be I am stubborn. But my children know that there are things that they need to follow my decisions. For one, they have no choice of which school they are going to for primary and secondary school. They also have no choice but have to complete at least their undergraduate degree. They do have a choice of which country and which university to go to (as long as I can afford) tough. After that, if they want to be a rock star or a construction worker, it is their choice.

[ 本帖最後由 almom 於 09-9-28 16:20 編輯 ]

蜜蜜

原帖由 babyoush 於 09-9-28 14:10 發表


係架, 其實由未大肚個時就已經投咗票架啦, 不過小朋友開始大, 唔理佢感受又好似有點兒....

我覺得作為家長, 可以俾你揀我一定俾但不可揀的你點都冇得揀. 如果唔係做選民就唔駛18歲啦! 你小朋友同你講阿媽我今日唔食飯淨食朱古力得唔得? 大熱天時要著羽絨得唔得? 唔係樣樣事都可俾佢話事, 影嚮深遠的事係要父母幫小小年紀的佢作決定的, 呢個係做父母的責任, 將來佢唔好好讀書你亦冇得話係你自己揀o既呢d咁不負責任的說話. 父母應為佢哋舖好平坦的道路, 但最終點行就關付佢哋點樣成長了. 如果真係要俾仔女咁大自由, 咁你諗清楚讀傳統學校適合你家庭嗎? 你將來可唔可以俾你小朋友選擇唔做功課唔溫書? 但我俾阿女讀IS, 因為我想俾阿女選擇放學後想做D乜學D乜同去邊度玩.

babyoush

我明白啦, 好多謝你地o既意見, 我諗我會比大女讀IS, 細女讀Local, 因為細女比較反叛, 太自由我諗會危險d, 謝謝各位~!

oooray

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-9-29 14:11 發表
If your younger daughter is 較反叛, it should be even better or more suitable for her to study in IS. Don't think that studying in IS means 太自由. The only 自由 refers to the creativity and imaginati ...

100% agree with wisekid2007.
I was struggling before sending my elder daughter to IS because I could not persuade myself by any reasons (even financial reasons) if I am sending one to IS and one to local.

WYmom

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-9-29 14:11 發表
If your younger daughter is 較反叛, it should be even better or more suitable for her to study in IS. Don't think that studying in IS means 太自由. The only 自由 refers to the creativity and imaginati ...

Yes, agree very much.  One of my kid is also like this, local schools limit her creativity, all exams require model answers only, no marks for non-model answers, which is very frustrating and discouraging.  IS encourages kids to think in different ways, to give different answers, to think out of the box.

almom

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-9-29 14:11 發表
If your younger daughter is 較反叛, it should be even better or more suitable for her to study in IS. Don't think that studying in IS means 太自由. The only 自由 refers to the creativity and imaginati ...

Agree!
In fact, I cannot think of any kind of kids that are not suitable to IS education.

蜜蜜

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-9-29 14:11 發表
If your younger daughter is 較反叛, it should be even better or more suitable for her to study in IS. Don't think that studying in IS means 太自由. The only 自由 refers to the creativity and imaginati ...

totally agree, if the child is 較反叛, i don't think u can tighten her by any "discipline" thing in local schools, 'cos they are just copying the "role model" they believe in and that absolutely not suitable to educate child with 較反叛 character and can be very dangerous. in another words of 較反叛, you can always enhance it as 有主見, so IS teaching method will guide her to more creativity and lead her to think independently, she will be more benefit on it. otherwise, the more u force her, the more rebellion she will be.

birdbird

原帖由 oooray 於 09-9-28 14:02 發表

其實妳揀得Woodland是否已經心中有數，已決定用腳對香港教育制度投下神聖一票?
小朋友仲細，今天妳用父母o既智慧幫佢擇，萬一擇錯，仲可以再用父母o既智慧(仲有剩o既話)修正修正再修正；
如果妳今天放手俾佢自己揀，明天，後天妳 ...

有時我覺得香港d家長太過民主,
揀學校係大件事, 大人作決定前都要做 research & 睇埋小朋友的 personality, 而好多時個決定都幾難做. 但係呢d大事, 有d家長竟然會讓一個只得5-6歲的人仔去揀. 佢地揀時, 憑咩做 decision? 直覺, 感覺?

oooray

原帖由 birdbird 於 09-9-29 21:03 發表


有時我覺得香港d家長太過民主,
揀學校係大件事, 大人作決定前都要做 research & 睇埋小朋友的 personality, 而好多時個決定都幾難做. 但係呢d大事, 有d家長竟然會讓一個只得5-6歲的人仔去揀. 佢地揀時, 憑咩做 dec ...

i guess it is not because of democracy. just because most people are avoiding making critical decisions. it is a gene of human being, including u and me...

danielboy

我反而有興趣知道一個讀緊幼稚園嘅小朋友點解會話鍾意local school多d呢?對家長嚟講, IS同local school主要係教學模式上嘅決擇,但一個幼兒又憑咩呢?

nintendo

原帖由 danielboy 於 09-9-30 10:40 發表
我反而有興趣知道一個讀緊幼稚園嘅小朋友點解會話鍾意local school多d呢?對家長嚟講, IS同local school主要係教學模式上嘅決擇,但一個幼兒又憑咩呢?

大人都要周圍問, 周圍打聽, 先敢做決定

babyoush

原帖由 蜜蜜 於 09-9-29 19:17 發表


totally agree, if the child is 較反叛, i don't think u can tighten her by any "discipline" thing in local schools, 'cos they are just copying the "role model" they believe in and that absolutely not ...

我又唔覺佢有主見喎, 因為問親佢野佢都睇家姐頭, 家姐講乜佢講乜, 但係叫佢做野或者同佢講野, 次次都要叫幾次, 仲要扭扭拎拎唔願做咁囉, 咁應該點呀??

ViannDadi

hello weiwei01,

May I know which DSS is your daughter studing now ?

原帖由 weiwei01 於 09-9-28 00:16 發表


我個case係RC（插班p.2）同幾間直資都收左呀女，我地好想佢去RC，但唔知點解，佢好中意一間直資學校，就係基於你既諗法，我地俾佢揀  。而家開左學約兩個月，佢好開心，就算我地有時講笑話叫佢轉校，佢既答案係：「俾多一個機會我，學期尾 ...