小一面試分享：無奬、無証書、無交個人檔案的結果

iantsang

除了無奬、無証書、無個人檔案之外:

重要係非教友、非原校幼稚園生、本身幼稚園有龍校、用穿著幼稚園校服的學生相、住得唔近、無學術性課外活動、無上面試班、無特別作面試準備、零催谷、無異能、無關係等等。

我們只帶着平常心，拖着我們五年來對她的愛、信念和教育，去面對她第一次的小一面試。


結果: 被取錄了。


雖然不是一些大熱名校，但最重要是跟我們理念一致。

只想道出一件事，請大家好好想想應怎樣去培育您的孩子，這世界沒有永遠正確的方程式，也沒有萬能的興趣班、面試班等。

最後，只有你的孩子本身最能展現家長的栽培和教養。

你的孩子是有生命的，不要用一些奬或証書或技能去代表他，他不只是一個個人檔案。

iantsang

原帖由 ac917 於 11-10-6 14:45 發表
嘩！你既中文post...難得一見！

多謝你既分享，你講得好啱，現時一般用來栽培小朋友既方法，有時會令我地失去方向及失去最重要既意義，但願我都可以好似你地一家咁，可以栽培出咁出色既小朋友。

祝你囡囡再接再厲，等待你地下一個 ...

我真的有二十年沒有寫過中文了，只是最近一些缘份的安排而要每天以中文寫作。

很讃同現時的環境令家長們都透不過氣來，很容易被身邊的人弄得失去方向。

我的女兒真的沒有特別，出色更是遥不可及。我們只用心保護着她的純真罷了。

iantsang

原帖由 ziyi 於 11-10-6 15:20 發表
我囡囡係咁多間都沒有交你題目的東西.

Hi ziyi daddy,

We only applied three and we are in the same situation with all three of them.

Certainly, my daughter cannot be compared to your daughter.  My daughter is just a very simple and innocent girl.  Really not smart at all and lack of the winning characteristics many smart children would share, like your daughter.

We are just fortunate to find a school, which happen to share the similar philosophy with us, and so would appreciate a girl like herself.

The purpose of this sharing, is to remind parents not to just follow others.  And I did not intend to tell parents there are no needs to prepare personal profile.  Yes, there are some schools who really need to see this based on their value system and what they recognize.

Just sharing my personal feelings.  Not a show off and not trying to make any comparisons.  Just hope to bring a message to the parents only.

iantsang

原帖由 spmok1999 於 11-10-6 15:37 發表
...禮貌及德育是從小養成的, 自幼寵壞或過份的保護我相信很難能在短時間重新訓練或教導的, 最大影響力其實主要是從最親蜜的人在日常生活上得到的經驗從而建立個人的特質. ...

Fully agree!

iantsang

原帖由 ziyi 於 11-10-6 15:41 發表
每個小朋友都是獨一,唯一的,講真..我睇唔到有特別分別,除非父母俾很多東西小朋友學,ready for 申請小一.

而我覺得,小朋友用最真的去面試,只需要跟小朋友說清楚要有禮貌就ok.

我的小朋友只有2間offer,1間waiting,1 ...

Hi ziyi daddy,

I guess may be the biggest similarities, are between you and me!  

The most fortunate and thankful thing, is to meet the right one!  

Best wishes to you and your family!  

Ian

iantsang

argh....  forget to mention!  Thanks for reminding me!

She was born near the border line of the cut-off point, i.e. end of August.

Really all these factors are less important.  When the child find the right school, the school would offer them.  It's almost like a romantic love for them to find each other!  

iantsang

原帖由 仕澄母 於 11-10-6 16:39 發表
我仔仔都是三無人仕，但IN三間都REJECT，我都懷疑三無是不是只在面試便可以OK!!＋分鍾便可以決定?坂主你可以話LUCKY,但我十分無奈

Don't give up!  May be your son just hasn't found the right school only.

This is why we had a very careful selection this year.  You can say I have no guts but really my daughter doesn't have the proactive, confident nor aggressiveness to ever survive in any of the elite schools.  So, we didn't apply to any of those.

The interview is just a process of selection.  The importance is to find a school that actually your son would enjoy learning there.  Good luck and I am sure you will find it soon!

iantsang

原帖由 samuel123321 於 11-10-6 16:36 發表
恭喜你，好順利!   不過你漏報家底!（如有得罪,請原諒你是一個全職媽媽做得好好，世界並不是完美)

Sorry did you mean my wife is a full-time housewife?

What I also didn't mention before, is that not just her who are with the kids all the time.  I have also stayed home to work most of the time in the past three years.

And also sorry to our friends, we have not been socializing with you all as much as we would like to.

We just feel it is the most important and precious time that the parents should be around them at this age.

Of course nothing is perfect.  We could make a lot more money if we are both working full-time, but the experience with them, is invaluable.

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iantsang

原帖由 samuel123321 於 11-10-6 16:48 發表
十幾二十分鐘面試,成與敗去決定你育兒是否成功，入到名校的小朋友就代表你叻你成功?

I don't think there are anyone here who have the thought of "success" or "not success" here.  Please don't jump to this conclusion.

It's faith to bring the school and the children together.

And there is nothing to be proud of, if someone would think the admission of their children to a famous school is to be proud of.  Instead, it should be something to feel sad.

iantsang

原帖由 仕澄母 於 11-10-6 16:57 發表
當有千几二千几個小朋友見老師，我真的不覺得半小時內見＋個小朋友，老師会有什麽感覺?例如個個答得OK,有礼貌。如何分高低？

I cannot tell you how these teachers differentiate the children, for each school in particular.

So we applied for the less popular choices (well not by intention to only select less popular ones, but in fact they are not the main stream famous ones which so happen we agree with them), where there are less applicants and they can have more time to observe the children.  This interview, for example, my daughter was not next to us for 1.5 hours.  This is a two-way thing.

Don't be frustrated for now.  The whole process has just started and there are still many months for many uncertainty to come.  Please keep up the spirit as your son would love to see that too!


All the best!

iantsang

原帖由 小曳人 於 11-10-6 17:02 發表
Congratz!
咁快就有結果喇？！

Sorry forget to reply you!  It's faster than many kindergarten application.  The letter was sent within less than 2 weeks.

And many positive information in our first physical encounter with this school.  Unfortunately it will not be relevant to you unless you are planning to be more "productive".

iantsang

Thank you for the "song" sharing!

等 is one of my favorite songs.  I sang it in my first ever singing contest during my primary school years.  

iantsang

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iantsang

原帖由 Sumyeema1 於 11-10-6 17:43 發表
Ian, 多謝你的正能量。

日日寫中文，你 d 中文好快同英文一樣....甘好。

Sumyeema,

知我者，莫若你啦！

真的用心良苦支持BK架！ （希望大臣睇到啦！）

Ian

iantsang

原帖由 hisuki00 於 11-10-6 17:34 發表
iantsang, congratulations!

May I know which 3 schools you have applied for your daughter?
Please PM if necessary.

My son will go for the 'war' next year, but we don't want to push him, or join any i ...

Sorry I try not to provide the list since they are only being picked as we like their style.  It is a personal choice.  So, I wouldn't want to affect your decision.  Please kindly understand.

The development of the children is a lifelong process, it will be tough not to follow others but always remind yourself of the reasons.

All the best!

iantsang

原帖由 samuel123321 於 11-10-6 18:02 發表
我都認同你但漏咗啲野囉

唔好咁完美主義啦！您都話世界唔完美啦！更何況我只是一個平凡人，將就下，得唔得？

iantsang

原帖由 samuel123321 於 11-10-6 18:16 發表
我都係呃吓post

好明顯，我做版務時已發覺！

咁你介唔介意我分割開你D"............"回復？老實講，真有少少...... 不如您下次PM樓主啦。

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iantsang

原帖由 traeh 於 11-10-6 18:20 發表
恭喜超版！你地同囡囡係咪最想入讀呢間？或者最想讀嗰間，幾時先有結果？

Thank you but the one we like the most, probably need to wait until June next year.

But we learn a lot more about this school through the interview process, plus information from the info-session.  So, will have another discussions with our daughter first.

iantsang

原帖由 小曳人 於 11-10-6 17:47 發表


haha~ 無喇無喇，兩個夠哂數喇！
你有無男女校嘅經驗可以分享呀？定係3間都係女校？

aiya, missed you again!  I think you know the reason lar!  

This one is girls-only.  The coming two are majority girls, do you mind?  It's not difficult to guess what kind of schools I will apply.  Just check what are the sisters organizations related to the one I attended.

iantsang

原帖由 pandabonita 於 11-10-6 16:47 發表
congrats ian!

我數過你個post入面有八個'無'字,咁你名附其實做了'八無'la, haha. (sorry, bad joke)

留番俾我老婆第時俾人叫'八無'（伯母）！