I feel frustrated....

oooray

原帖由 msbeauty 於 09-12-9 15:13 發表
Actually I decide to plan my son to study IS, however after observing some of my friends (which is more richer than me, higher demanding towards their children and higher acedmic qualification), ALL o ...

Most probably, I'm poorer than you but i must be luckier than you that i have no richer friends (or more precisely, i have no more friends after having 2 children).

oooray

原帖由 reneeleung 於 09-12-9 15:46 發表
  You are right! I also confused and frustrated after talking with another parents.

There are thousands reasons not going to IS; Here are some examples:
1. Staying in local school u can save >HK$1M,enough for studying University abroad;
2. U can buy a bigger apartment, a new SUV, a new dog, a new 2奶, travelling aboard twice a year....if not letting your children go to IS;
2. "Look at me! I'm rich and still choosing local, not following me loser!" Rich parents say;
3. XXX,YYY,ZZZ are successful cases in local school, so no need to go to IS....
Get frustrated again?

oooray

原帖由 hifing 於 09-12-9 16:24 發表
I think my sister family is kind of well off in HK standard. Her son and daughter are studying in DBS and DGS. The son just got 7A2B in the HKCEE. And most importantly I don't think they are falling i ...

100% Agree. I'm not going to label all rich people (Rich is not sin. I want to be one of them ,too) negatively but such examples are not uncommon around us.

oooray

原帖由 msbeauty 於 09-12-9 16:40 發表
Thanks for your sharing.  Yes, what I mean high demanding is, some of my friends are very care and concerned their studies.  They are willing to pay more on their child, like sending them to dance cla ...

so, have u asked yourself "why do u want your son studying in IS?"
If u cannot persuade and support yourself then maybe u will feel more comfortable with local school.

oooray

原帖由 msbeauty 於 09-12-9 17:56 發表



Yes, I also asked my myself.  But there are many pros and cons.  But I prefer IS than Local.  The major reasons are,

1) I need his English more Fluent
2) I hope he can have creatively and worldwi ...

we are not alone.

oooray

原帖由 蜜蜜 於 09-12-9 19:16 發表


...............oooray........ that's sound more frustrated.

We dedicate all our time to our children while they are growing up. nothing is more important than that...I do enjoy that.

oooray

原帖由 CindyMak 於 09-12-10 01:15 發表
我都無親戚朋友的小朋友在IS讀書，即使parents-in-law 哦左我2年，叫我同佢地轉local school。(大仔今年K2) 其實其他人的說話為自己做成的無聊壓力都幾大架！但我深信自己小朋友在IS至少會有一個快樂童年。講真，佢地之後讀 ...

又唔使佢俾$$$都要哦?我好同情妳...
加油加油努力加油...

oooray

原帖由 thankful 於 09-12-10 22:48 發表
oooray,

Like you, I have 2 kids.  But unlike you, I will end up with 2 richer friends.   Guess who they are?  Yes, they are my kids.  It's because my wife has decided to give all my money to them.  ( ...

Your wife is more effective than MOPIKO in relieving itchy-body. all BK mummies should follow...

oooray

原帖由 CindyMak 於 09-12-12 05:50 發表
oooray, 多謝你的support。唉！佢地覺得我用佢個仔d錢。下年大同細都要轉學校(P1 & K1)，唔知又會哦幾耐。

唔同人有唔同價值觀，有d人覺得唔應該/唔需要放太多錢落小朋友的教育，小朋友依然能夠長大，出來工作。
正如我parent ...

再多口講句:
"佢地覺得我用佢個仔d錢。"
我支持妳冇用。妳老公係唔係企響妳個邊先?
如果佢唔企硬，俾人哦多兩哦，耳仔軟/牆頭草，將來床頭鬧交床尾打交就弊傢伙啦....
唔同人有唔同價值觀，對，但身邊最親o既人o既200%支持好重要!
祝好運!

oooray

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