5歲或10歲的媽咪請進!

AaronMummy

看來也不大問題吧! 放心好了。

Hellomummy

lamba 寫道:
Hi,各位
我個五歲, 除了你地所講既毛病都有齊外, 仲有一樣令我非常擔心既就是佢思想好似好早熟!

同屋企附近一個大幾歲既男仔玩時, 竟然有D好似少女既矜持咁. 仲同其他細路講話該男仔好靚仔,是她男朋友,第日想同佢結婚. 好似故事書入面既公主同皇子咁wor !

真係比佢激死!

請問你地D囡囡會唔會好似我個咁?

我個女早1年多已有所講情況, 現在已進展到傾電話和收情信了! 我已經極少俾佢睇電視等, 現在的人真先進!

Hellomummy

pls chk pm

lamba

hellomummy,

how old is your daughter ?

Hellomummy

sorry, the last message is for "程媽媽"

Hellomummy

lamba,

she is now 5 yr 4 mths

Hellomummy

Umi

其實傳統學校適唔適合心散既小朋友呢 ??

Hellomummy

In my opinion, I think "No".

In a long run, these kind of children would be isolated by the class and lose interest on learning.

I think "short-attention demand" with game-oriented learning mode would suit them more. Moreover, they need lot of encouragement for completing tasks.

What do you think?

Xanthe

Bluestar:
你放心喎，佢面試個陣時就會係2個樣！ :wink:

Bluestar

Xanthe,

佢面試時表現會怎樣，都會嚇死/擔心死亞媽。佢簡直以搗蛋為榮，以激死我為樂。

Xanthe

Hellomummy 寫道:
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lamba 寫道:
Hi,各位
我個五歲, 除了你地所講既毛病都有齊外, 仲有一樣令我非常擔心既就是佢思想好似好早熟!

同屋企附近一個大幾歲既男仔玩時, 竟然有D好似少女既矜持咁. 仲同其他細路講話該男仔好靚仔,是她男朋友,第日想同佢結婚. 好似故事書入面既公主同皇子咁wor !

真係比佢激死!

請問你地D囡囡會唔會好似我個咁?

我個女早1年多已有所講情況, 現在已進展到傾電話和收情信了! 我已經極少俾佢睇電視等, 現在的人真先進!

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係呀，我有個friend個囡話當佢坐係男仔隔離時，個心就"boo, boo"咁跳！   

Xanthe

Bluestar 寫道:
Xanthe,
佢面試時表現會怎樣，都會嚇死/擔心死亞媽。佢簡直以搗蛋為榮，以激死我為樂。

Bluestar,
可能佢見到你生蝦咁跳時，佢覺得你好緊張佢。不如你試下當你好擔心/好鬼嬲時，行開一陣，等心情回覆好d，然後回到佢身邊，當冇事發生，睇下咁會唔會好d？

Little_Sandy

Hi,

我囝囝八月尾五歲, 又係口水多羅羅, 鍾意同人講條件, 每事問, 問到人地答吾出為止, 而家都係為佢選校煩緊.

Bluestar

Xanthe,

係呀! 鬧完佢，重要見到佢得戚+陰陰笑，火起上來打佢pet pet，佢嗌完救命講完sorry，又來得戚+陰陰笑。結果我d火又大d。(佢重會襲擊條滕條，撕爛=>無得打。)
我都有試過，佢naughty完唔啋佢，佢就會緊張少少，但轉個頭，講完sorry，又來得戚+陰陰笑。死未!
(其實有時我地也想笑- 係俾佢激到哭笑不得，但為了不想鼓勵他naughty，只好忍笑扮嬲。)

Hellomummy

程媽媽:

你10歲的孩子是仔定女?

你同佢關係如何? 多唔多同你傾心事?

佢有無暗戀同學之類跡象? 如有, 你會點?

Hellomummy

THRY

My son is 5 years and 6 months, last week I found that he took out and played his penis during watching TV.  I was very surprised but never give any reaction.  ANY RECOMMENDATION?

jazzmama

好正常啫.
我仔仔K3 上堂時玩呀 (不過隔住褲), 結果老師告訴我.
其實, 不用太惡, 話佢知咁樣係無禮貌,
同埋會庝庝, 他會明白的.
當然, 問問他為何要TOOK OUT 啦 !!

Hellomummy

Have you ever read any materials/ VCD regarding sex education? you have to try lar~~

I also have this problem before (both children), I often use a mild tone to tell them like this:(must immediately, don't say afterwards, that would make them even guilty)

(For the first few times only)

"I can see you're touching and playing with your sex organ, sex organ is an important organ on our body and it's used for "排泄" and "繁殖", i know you may feel good like that but it is not hygiene and impolite when somebody see it. (stop then, don't talk and talk too much and make him feeling guilty) Come on, let's play cards together/ watch cartoon now (anything else to side-track)

(For the nth times.....)

Only say, "Don't play like that, it's not for playing, dirty....." (simplified form)

In times, my son stopped that for years already after this treatment (at least in front of me), but if situation go on, should ask father to talk with him for proper sex message.

Please try!

Hellomummy

THRY

Hellomummy,

Thank you for your valuable advice.

I must try immediately.

THRY

Hellomummy

You are welcome! I'm happy if it could help!