好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

陸美爸

hinhinmummy,

你女女又叻, 軒軒又識講咁多野, 真鄧你開心呢

陸美媽

gigi2

Dear all,

I've got something very trouble with my family now and maybe unable to chat with you here for certain time.  Please pray for me!

hinhinmummy

gigi2

一切都有天父引領, 萬事都有解決的辦法, take care, 攪掂晒就上黎再傾過.

陸美媽

阿女....唉....都不知點教.

訓覺

mickeyma

Same as me. Last night, I stop doing training with my son and sat next to my daughter,watching her doing homework. She only started to do homework from 8:00pm after dinner.. and till 11:00..at night.. I was so angry and I did not entertain her anymore, I went to do training with my son and got my son to the bed. She finished homework 11:00pm and took out English book, standing in front of table, used 5 minutes to prepare tomorrow's dictation...  Sometimes, I really do not know how to handle her...  From 4:00pm to 8:00pm, she will not do homework.... only reading her books, talking to her dolls.. drawing...


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hinhinmummy 寫道:
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我最怕對付呢d甘既軟皮蛇, 我無對付佢, 我真係無佢符, 次次都不肯溫書, 但考出黎成績又ok, 我真係不知點好啦.

mickeyma

Gigi2,
Pray for you!

神是我所依

祂陪我走過，變幻無定的風雨，
無限善美未能看透，回望漸見主美意。
祂慈愛牽引，每步伴在我路旁，
奇妙大愛治療破碎，
神是我所依，神是我拯救！
就在落漠絕望祂指引我去路，
在牢籠裏可作自由人。
世態變化不息，但聖經真實長存，
憑著信，內裏享平安！

gigi2 寫道:
Dear all,

I've got something very trouble with my family now and maybe unable to chat with you here for certain time.  Please pray for me!

HelenMrs.Lau

GIGI2，
衷心祝福你 GOD BLESS YOU 雖然我唔係教徒

HelenMrs.Lau

tin_tin 寫道:
早幾日咪話仔仔唔識答問題ge, 今朝爸爸問佢"你叫咩名呀?", 佢識講自己個名呀! 爸爸即刻向我報喜!  :  

好消息喎

sjmama

Dear Mickeyma,

The song you quoted for Gigi also comforted me.

Yesterday, my son' OT alerted me that she oberved my daughter had some SI problem which might be autistic features.
The OT's comments really scared me stiff. Although a doctor had told me in January that my daughter's development was "unbalanced", I still hoped that she would catch up very soon, or at least she won't fall into the autistic spectrum.
I was so depressed since yesterday and don't know how to take care of two autistic children.

mickeyma 寫道:

神是我所依

祂陪我走過，變幻無定的風雨，
無限善美未能看透，回望漸見主美意。
祂慈愛牽引，每步伴在我路旁，
奇妙大愛治療破碎，
神是我所依，神是我拯救！
就在落漠絕望祂指引我去路，
在牢籠裏可作自由人。
世態變化不息，但聖經真實長存，
憑著信，內裏享平安！

Dr.T

Dear sjmama,

I vaguely remember that you've mentioned your daughter before, kindly refresh my memory how old is she now and what did the doctor say when she was evaluated last time.

sjmama 寫道:
...Yesterday, my son' OT alerted me that she oberved my daughter had some SI problem which might be autistic features...

mickeyma

sjmama,

I can fully understand your feeling. It took me several months to get myself back to relatively normal life after doctor commented my son had global delay and A feature on last July. But thanks
God, we have survived and struggled to what we are standing now... Many tears shed, many fear swallowed. And with the bless of God and the comfort of all BK mums here, we get through.

But as I remember your daughter is very young. I do not know whether it is too early to make judgement on her... Don't worry too much. Even she has some problem, it might be trainned up easier as she is still very young and has many magic potential in her brain...
Don't be upset, if you like, I can PM you my phone nr., we can talk.   

mamee

正當大家煩緊點教小朋友雙腳跳之際, 我就煩緊點教仔仔單腳跳.
我果個係3月仔, 人地同班同年11月既小朋友已經可以係有人協助下單腳跳(仲係女仔黎). 我仔仔就仲未得, 真係要同佢玩多d至得.

Hei媽
節哀順變. 我自己, 一早就看破世情   我真係信好多事係整定, 有命運架.

Helen
最後見完st, 有乜說話講?

tin_tin
諗諗下, 如果3歲仔理解又無問題, 可以學下:
1. 大中細, 上下, 前後
2. 顏色
3. 數目字(1-5先, 要教埋排次序, 同埋要識數量~呢個慢慢黎)
4. 教剪紙~用大約1吋既紙條開始學剪, 小心睇實! 學識之後可以係紙上面晝直線分開一格格, 要仔仔跟住線條剪
5. 玩下夾仔
6. 簡單砌圖(仔仔叻的話, 當然可以玩難d)
7. 1吋大小既正方積木. 首先放"品"字, 得之後再加多3粒係低. 都ok既話, 就玩"自己放". 四五粒隨意放, 之後叫仔仔放番一樣既. 再難d=我仔仔玩緊, 用唔同顏色積木玩.
8. 解開(大粒)衫鈕同學扣鈕

大概諗到咁多. 3歲..呀仔仲做過乜呢

mamee

mrsphcheung

Dear sjmama,
"I was so depressed since yesterday and don't know how to take care of two autistic children."

I suffer from depression and sleeplessness for almost one year after my son was diagnosed as autism by a private psychiatrist, but was later diagnosed as development delay by government doctors.

Just leave the cross to Jesus.  As your daughter is still young, she may benefit most from various therapies.

We, mums, are the most important persons in bringing up our children.  We must strengthen our body and mind so as to cope with our children's development problems.      

JOANNA722

kakab105
有半日托都好好, 如果全日, 佢要適應時, 老師都好辛苦捉佢捉成日, 可能托托下, 見佢定左有得轉全日.

hinhinmummy
軒軒而家鬼感叻!!!  我都唔知要等到幾時 望住個月曆佢一日一日長大, 個心好想佢快D講, 耐何無得急.

sjmama

Dear Dr. T,
Thank you very much!
My daughter is now 2yr11mths. She did an initial assessment in January  when she was 2yr9mths. The doctor said her development was very unbalanced: very good in cognitive skill (she's good in reading, spelling, drawing etc.), but weak in social skill and emotional control (the OT said she's weak in gross motor too). Since her brother is autism, the doctor urged us to keep an eye on her development.

The OT told us that she observed my daughter had self-spinning twice during the one hour session, each one doesn't last long, about 5 spinning.  But it is a common self-stimulation activities for autistic children. Besides, it seemed she had tactile defensiveness. Both are SI problems.

sjmama

Dear mickeyma,
Thank you very much! Let me settle myself first.

JOANNA722

mamee
你係屋企畫個或用膠紙貼個'跳飛機' 出來, 等佢跳過來取野食, 初初少格d你又扶下佢, 慢慢提昇難度, 睇下得唔得.

mamee

kakab105
有暫托返, 當然好. 我相信暫托3個月好過係出面學校半年. 況且你仔仔仲細. 我個仔2歲時, 其實都係咁.

Joanna
軒軒真係進步左好多係真既. 不過你仔仔同軒軒差半年(係嗎), 差半年可以差好遠. 同埋我地呢d仔既發展好難講, 可能一開口就開晒聲呢.

sjmama
好似無同你傾過計. 我自己第一個反應會想問, 咁eye contact同語言發展呢, 又發展成點? 我自己總覺得如果eye contact係好, 個小朋友就唔會差得去邊.
況且點都好, 係事實的話都改變唔到. 只可以努力向前看, 邊方面弱就做邊樣訓練. 希望你快d可以收拾番心情.

mamee

mamee

Joanna

一定唔會係地下畫跳飛機, 我驚老公放工返黎殺c我! 佢好唔鍾意污濁, 仲話畫落木地板上面, 實聽無糧出 不過都會試下玩, 睇下有乜方法吧.

mamee

Dr.T

Dear sjmama,

1. Very few people have a "balanced" cognitive profile. What can be measured from a 2/3 years old is rather limited and I would not take that comment too serious.

2. Self-spinning is also quite common in infant/toddler, twice in one hour might only because she was bored.

The bottomline is whether your daughter can relate with age peers appropriately? If yes then forget those "labels" and don't let them bother you too much. The more you have those names in mind, the more you can locate all kinds of symptoms from your girl.

sjmama 寫道:
1. My daughter is now 2yr11mths. She did an initial assessment in January  when she was 2yr9mths. The doctor said her development was very unbalanced...
2. The OT told us that she observed my daughter had self-spinning twice during the one hour session, each one doesn't last long, about 5 spinning.  But it is a common self-stimulation activities for autistic children...

justjust

gigi2,

Deal with the issues at home first.  You've got all the support you need here.