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tin_tin

稚言治語,

Thanks for your info. The definition is very clear now

JOANNA722

各位媽咪
這幾日較忙, 未得閒多謝你地既鼓勵, 其實我唔係好唔開, 只係一時感慨啫!  由初初很怕個s位, 到現在恨不得佢快d入去, 希望佢快d學有所成!!

經我家姐力邀下, 我決定月尾去旅行, 佢話去7日, 我話去3日, 最後決定去5日, 講到尾, 唔放心個仔, 我d舊同學, 我老公都叫我去旅行輕鬆下, 我係咪真係過份緊張呢!  定係你地都係好緊張??

呢幾日佢除鞋發癲會扭計好似消失左, 成日變

hinhinmummy

JOANNA

我都係甘緊張, 我不會放鬆自己去旅行, 因為時間實在過左去就返不到轉頭...

mickeyma

Me too.
Or we could bring them together.

mamee

Joanna

我就贊成你去旅行.
我覺得我地唔係鐵人, 我地一樣會有情緒. 橡筋拉得太緊, 就好應該放鬆下. 況且你又唔會個個月去, 最多咪一年去兩次. Charge完電(去完旅行)返黎再努力.

可能因為我地(你, 我同陸美媽)係全職媽咪, 可以相對仔仔既時間多少少, 被激到出煙既機會亦多少少, 所以就贊成去旅行嘞  

mamee

陸美爸

尋日放學返到屋企樓下, 有一條樓梯要上, 仔仔主動自己行, 嘗試雙手唔扶任何野, 見佢的左腳踏上第一級, 腳震震地再提起第起右腳踏埋上第一級, 如是者行左兩級...當時我同老公都開心到不得了......

到今朝返學, 學校既嬸嬸無端端講起, 覺得仔仔行路行得唔係幾好, 唔夠穩陣, 唔通退步左

joanna,
去旅行好呀! 緊張/擔心就一定會架, 但去玩下輕鬆下, 對你及對仔仔都有好處呢...

陸美媽

mickeyma

可能因為我地(你, 我同陸美媽)係全職媽咪, 可以相對仔仔既時間多少少, 被激到出煙既機會亦多少少, 所以就贊成去旅行嘞

It might be true as I feel I do not have enough time to accompany my two children after working whole day outside.  If I will go for travelling, I will tie them in my waist...     (sorry Chinenglish>> )
Otherwise, I will miss them or worry them to death..

HelenMrs.Lau

陸美媽：
我隻仔近排上樓梯進步左，已經扶住牆，一步一級。但落樓梯就平衡唔到，我要下下拖實隻仔，費事阿仔〔中〕落樓梯 :  :  : 你試下同仔仔玩多D雙腳跳哩個動作丫，一路聽歌，一路跳。甘樣會訓練到D腳力同平衡力

mickeyma

Helen,
雙腳跳

My son still do not know how to do that though he knows how to ride bicycle. Any suggestion???

Yesterday, We visited Dr. Chan in YauMaTei again.
He commented situation of Yu was not bad. And asked us to do following training on him in following aspects which I want to share with you. He commented this would be useful when kids went from one stage to another stage in speech:
1) show him every rooms at home(kitchen, sleeping room, toilet...) and ask him : what is it? to see whether he knows how to name objects.  -- This part, I guess Yu has no problem.
2) ask him the function of the objects: such as what is the usage of cup..  Yu need to be trained in this aspect.
3) ask him who is doing what to check his  knowledge of verb.  .. Yu know most of the verb., but need to teach more
4)  ask him to pass the message to another people in another room such as : ask daddy to get up, or ask sister to go out for lunch...   This part Yu is ok.
5)  ask him to pass message to another person, but need that person to take action: such as : ask daddy to give a piece of paper to mummy....   This part Yu is not ok.

Kawai,  might be useful for you the above inf. for training target?  :  

We were advised to meet the I seat teacher in coming Saturday. Hope it is a good start for YU.

陸美爸

helen,

其實我仔仔連扶住/拖住上落樓梯都未掂架, 雖然每日學校都要行兩層樓梯, 但都好似行得唔係好穩咁...我都覺得可能佢d平衡力唔夠好......

我想問屋企無彈床, 有咩方法可以教佢雙腳離地咁跳呢？

陸美媽

hoho1105

陸美媽:
梳化 & 床,租或買隻"反斗靈貓"比佢睇吓,希望佢有樣學樣.

JOANNA722

各位
其實我諗我去旅行一定會好掛住佢, 又担心 呢樣又担心果樣, 我都覺得自己好煩, 不過今次好難得, 我成家人一齊, 又細到大都未試過, 好怕今次唔去, 啊爸啊媽再老d(佢兩個都係藥煲)過幾年先去的話, 佢兩過都唔肯去了, 所以我先去咋!

陸美媽
我個仔都係近月 先識雙腳離地跳&叻左好多, 因為佢去做o.t.時有彈床跳, 返到屋企係我張床勁跳, 出街開心時又跳; 早輛我見玩具反斗城單張上有彈床買, 我好想買, 因單張上寫住佰多元唔係好貴, 但我無去睇過, 所以唔知實質現貨係點樣, 我問過我o.t.佢話係床跳效果一樣, 不過有d家長唔鍾意細路係床跳, 所以買彈床, 但好"左訂"所以最後我無買.....
   你引佢係你張床到跳下ar...

mamee

Joanna

去旅行~去馬啦.
一家人一齊去旅行, 多美好. 我自己就無呢個機會, 我爸爸一早就走左, 呀媽近年亦變了個小藥煲(外表OK, 內裡就已經要打糖尿病針). 可能自己都開始老, 舊年又多事發生, 身邊有好幾個親戚有事, 最後生果個得40幾, 有個60頭, 有2個就救得番.
仔仔同你係一生一世嘛. 你只係離開5日, 唔好太擔心.

mamee

Hei媽

mamee/joanna

講起及時行樂,人真係話唔埋. 尋晚送走咗大伯(老公的大哥),剛剛50,太快了,由1月底到昨天, 一想起老爺也是過不到50,真害怕奶奶能否撐下去,她尋晚也有去看他仍不敢將真相告訴她,今天家姐們仍如常跟她打majong,逐步逐步跟她說. 真難過. 大伯已經無機會聽仔仔叫仔,希望ma ma,婆婆,公公好快可以聽到.

之前成日唸唔想囝囝同他的爸爸命運一樣(細細個無爸爸),但今天竟發生在別人的爸爸上. 係咪自己想得多累咗人.

今天,老公要面對親人離開,又要面對仔仔問題,真係好痛.所以一家人平平安安快快樂樂最緊要.  

joanna珍惜此機會,開心去也.

sorry,希望無影響大家心情.

珍惜大家現在所擁有的.  謝

hinhinmummy

hei 媽

take care. 我舅父去時都係40幾
:cry:
joanna

sorry

可能我詞不達意, 我的意思係我不會去旅行, 要去都會帶軒軒去, 不係不贊誠你去, 因為每個人的情況不同, 你可以日日對住仔仔, 但我每日得一兩個鐘, 如果再去埋旅行, 佢的時間又小左.

我都知日日對住個極頑皮的仔仔, 個人都會din, 去玩下啦.  玩完返黎再努力過.

gigi2

My thought is same as hinhinmummy but I even much more worse is not to attend if possible for any social gathering at night in order to be with them.

Hei ma,
I understand your feelings as sometimes I also think in the same way.  But If something that we cannot control, it does not help to our real life for thinking too much.  Just count your every day and treasure what you have got on your hands right now.







[quote]我的意思係我不會去旅行, 要去都會帶軒軒去, 不係不贊誠你去, 因為每個人的情況不同, 你可以日日對住仔仔, 但我每日得一兩個鐘, 如果再去埋旅行, 佢的時間又小左.

mickeyma

Same as me... I even did not go for company's annual dinner last year...
But I think full time mummy actually is not so easy!
Sometimes I think being a full time mummy is more difficult than a working mummy even. As we can get some adjustment on the work somehow...
Joanna,
I also think you should go for travelling... especially with your parents... I had a big regret as well that I have missed the chance to go for travelling with my father as he was passed away 7 years ago....He was a very hardworking daddy and worked after retirement still until fainted on the site. Since then, I tried to go for travelling once per year with my mother alone except last year when my son's problem came out.  We are planning the trip during this coming summer holidays... but with both kids..

We do need to treasure what we have now...
[quote]
gigi2 寫道:
My thought is same as hinhinmummy but I even much more worse is not to attend if possible for any social gathering at night in order to be with them.

678

自從我懷疑個仔係有問題時(個時佢得6個月大),  我都已經謝絕好多出外的活動.  都冇咩心機去玩了, 日日都好擔心, 晚晚同佢玩執豆.  個女細時我反而成日都出去玩, 仲晚上報 d course 讀下添.
我個仔都好鐘意係床跳架, 家姐跳教佢既.

hinhinmummy
我鐘情你女間primary, 因為佢係口碑的又唔洗比學費的難入名官校.政府最富貴嘛!   係活動教學, 中學的派位多去皇仁, 佢係男女校, 我個仔有著落. (最可惜只係佢舊咋),   不明白點解你話好易,仲有得插班, 但我女係dragon年出生, 諗到時都好難有得插了.....
上次你跟我說下午先係精英, 但聽聞是上午係喎, 因06年所有下午校的多數要搬離該區.

678

hei媽
好sorry 你大伯去了. 咁後生, 哎... 老公的心情真係好痛苦,
多d開解.

hinhinmummy

678

嘩, 你d消息還靈通過我wor, 我都不知06年下午班要搬.

上午班係無精英班的, 呢點我好sure, 因為我個女都係入top50, 而無分精英班的.