讀國際學校的性價比

codeblue

nkd 發表於 18-11-30 07:35
大部分學生是成績中游，學校不會給壓力的。老師找我談的都是關於我仔行為問題。正常學校是關心德育，學生 ...

有時我都 wonder 讀 LS 係咪真係可以咁灑脫，首先每日功課量係咪可以少到讓小朋友有大量時間玩？明天要默書，今天駛唔駛刻意花時間溫習？如果下星期測驗考試，週末的親子活動係咪可以如常進行，唔需要額外進補？

就假設有學校真係可以咁超然物外，最終佢升中派位的表現又會唔會受到負面影響呢？

LittleOsMummy

nkd 發表於 18-11-30 07:35
大部分學生是成績中游，學校不會給壓力的。老師找我談的都是關於我仔行為問題。正常學校是關心德育，學生 ...

可惜而家好多學校都係為成績為爭排名，家長唔想迫個細路都冇計因為學校會...

Jane1983

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有既，前提係小朋友都聰明、讀到書和快手快腳。同埋父母心態擺得好，唔太追逐名次，喪谷體藝。
如果成績唔掂，好難超然物外。

nkd

codeblue 發表於 18-11-30 08:19
有時我都 wonder 讀 LS 係咪真係可以咁灑脫，首先每日功課量係咪可以少到讓小朋友有大量時間玩？明天要默 ...

灑脫，首先睇自己。一路有IS家長提醒，不要抱LS家長心態讀IS。你用IS心態讀LS，就沒什麼不灑脫了。不像以前，會考篩走大半，考完AL又篩淨幾個入三大。現在個個都升班的。只有立心升名校、插名校的才追逐分數名次。

本地學校，課程統一，師資來源一樣，差異就在同學。除了英文科和課外活動之外，名校和普通學校在其他科其實差不多，無必要太上心。

\\每日功課量係咪可以少到讓小朋友有大量時間玩？\\
沒有掌握方法，會處理不好功課。例如不懂phonics，不常讀課外書，不會背誦技巧。
我仔只選定兩種興趣在學校玩，已好忙，但居然會追看小說，看百科，追劇。有興趣就有時間。

\\明天要默書，今天駛唔駛刻意花時間溫習？如果下星期測驗考試，週末的親子活動係咪可以如常進行，唔需要額外進補？\\
合格不進補、無事不開刀。

\\最終佢升中派位的表現又會唔會受到負面影響呢？\\
最負面也不會輟學，不用過慮。eviepa比我解說得好，你找找他的文章看。

Iwtbr

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thanks for sharing! yes, i agree a good academic background will not erase all difficulties in life, but at least its a ticket to make life easier...a bit easier.as you said you will send children to local school (should be your elite mother school right?), is it because to let them acquire a sound foundation of both Chinese and English? Will you also bring them to IS and boarding later?

sushiroll

Iwtbr 發表於 18-11-30 12:39
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thanks for sharing! yes, i agree a good academic background will not erase al ...

     

Moonlight819

nkd 發表於 18-11-30 11:24
灑脫，首先睇自己。一路有IS家長提醒，不要抱LS家長心態讀IS。你用IS心態讀LS，就沒什麼不灑脫了。不像以 ...

身邊朋友也有子女讀LS, 你説的實際上不太可能，日日有十樣八樣功課，總要完成吧！難道由得子女記缺點？！個個禮拜也有默書，會計入考試分，由得它不及格，總要溫吧！（你子女天才看一次便識的除外）一年幾次的測考一定要溫吧！我見他們子女weekend很少好像我們的可以常常外出family day,不溫習weekend也要補習呢！

木子兔媽媽

1. 正常人性是向目標進發, 所以有名次, 合格, banding + specific 準則 (eg 功課交足率, 默書...), 正常人一定會prep. 事實是, IS係（初)小學階段只有eg banding 1-4 + 無乜範圍嘅assessment + 近乎100% passing rate, 就製造了’無乜考試壓力’嘅情況.

2. 又去番 IS vs 中文, 如果家長極度有心, 小朋友係可以保持LS中文程度.

3. 坦白多一次, 如果LS可以英文好少少, 功課唔好為刁鑽同難而set, 校規可以容納SEN多一點, assessment 唔好咁死板, 成績唔攪人同人鬥, 其實LS都好好..........

nkd

Moonlight819 發表於 18-11-30 22:30
身邊朋友也有子女讀LS, 你説的實際上不太可能，日日有十樣八樣功課，總要完成吧！難道由得子女記缺點？！ ...

小學只是中英數常4主科，沒有欠交功課，也不是交差hea做。默書測驗考試，沒有脫離功課範圍，托賴跟得上，每個週末都有外出 family day。

mandy_ng207

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I am quite surprised that you actually favored local schools for the foundation years. I am a post-80s and I am not sure if we’re in the same generation? I graduated from a “traditional elite girls school” but I didn’t really enjoyed learning. It was quite common for the parents to push their child to achieve higher grades, exams had been nightmares for most, and Saturdays had been reserved for extra exercises and revisions to keep up the academic standard. I guess you were maybe a genius to start with and your parents were not obsessed with grades? The high achievers in local schools that I know do not really enjoy learning and it’s a pity that most of them stopped learning after they’ve graduated from universities or obtained their professional qualifications. My impression is that the local schools are just looking for those who can finish homework fast and memorize textbooks well but they don’t give room to those who wish to learn deeply. So I don’t believe in the local schools’ way in nurturing a child...

小寶貝兒

LittleOsMummy 發表於 18-11-15 08:43
同我一樣，我覺得我讀廿幾年書都係咁簡直係浪費，如果我係讀真正有興趣嘅科目我嘅人生應該會完全唔一樣！
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冇錯!! 我囡轉校後, 我慢慢覺得, 如果我細個能夠接受囡而家既教育, 我既學業成就絕對不止如此! 雖然我而家都好ENJOY現在既生活, 但總有一種未能盡展所長既感慨~

希望囡囡將來能夠比父母飛得更高, 看得更遠~

Fish777

小寶貝兒 發表於 18-12-1 21:59
冇錯!! 我囡轉校後, 我慢慢覺得, 如果我細個能夠接受囡而家既教育, 我既學業成就絕對不止如此! 雖然我而家 ...

同意，未讀過IS幼稚園和小學，只跳讀IS中學的，不會真正感受到IS有多好。

Moonlight819

小寶貝兒 發表於 18-12-1 21:59
冇錯!! 我囡轉校後, 我慢慢覺得, 如果我細個能夠接受囡而家既教育, 我既學業成就絕對不止如此! 雖然我而家 ...

也是我的心聲！所以現在一開始已給囝仔讀IS!

sushiroll

mandy_ng207 發表於 18-12-1 15:18
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I am quite surprised that you actually favored local schools for the foundati ...

      

sushiroll

Fish777 發表於 18-12-1 22:49
同意，未讀過IS幼稚園和小學，只跳讀IS中學的，不會真正感受到IS有多好。
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I am quite curious about this point, can you share more about it please?

deco99

sushiroll 發表於 18-12-2 06:09
I am not a genius haha, I would not say that both of my parents are obsessed with grades but I was a ...

Your experience proves that if a child is truly talented, he/she can excel in either IS or LS.

But not every child can handle the pressure of LS. I think IS is an easy mode for both young children and parents regarding admissions and exams.

Dear-Valerie

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木子兔媽媽

利申: 小時草根, 70後, 現在母校近寶校
少部分讀書好就捱到
一部分能力/家境更差, 返學等於托兒
(好記得某同學講佢想殺佢老豆)...

sushiroll

deco99 發表於 18-12-2 08:18
Your experience proves that if a child is truly talented, he/she can excel in either IS or LS.

Bu ...

Yes, I agree that it is important to choose a school that is suitable for a child's needs and personality.