Hello, Dr.T speaking...

rachaelmum

Dr. T,

您終於閉完關肯"出山", 真是送給我們最好的新年禮物!   

Dr.T

是似"面壁思過"多啲

rachaelmum 寫道:
...您終於閉完關肯"出山...

pamam

Thanks for your prompt response.

His school has arranged a lunch time social game class for him with some other children once a week. It didn't help too much either.

Although he has been recently assessed(by his school ST) as no speech delay(the govt said he is at least 18 mths delayed when he was assessed 2 yrs ago), I still let him to go private ST lessons at school once a week to improve his eye contact and voice volume, and some social skills. But it's very frustrating because nothing seems to work. I know sometimes there is not much we can do, but I just want to make sure I have  tried everything to help him, don't want to regret later that I didn't do enough.


Pamam

Dr.T

個人對某國際學校機構的感覺是他們比較封閉,不太願意接納外界的意見,即使他們所做的不太有效.

其實如果有人能夠觀察小朋友的日常表現,從而給予意見及建議改善的方法,那可能會有用.學校又能否提供這些服務?

pamam 寫道:
...But it's very frustrating because nothing seems to work. I know sometimes there is not much we can do, but I just want to make sure I have  tried everything to help him, don't want to regret later that I didn't do enough.

pamam

Actually, before they accepted my son, my son was assessed by their edu psy, he suggested to arrange some social class regularly for my son with a mix of special needs kids and normal kids from his school, I agreed to pay and asked him to arrange it,  but that never happened. Soon after, that edu psy left the school. And the social game class my son has now in school are all for special needs kids, no normal students and also they don't run it regularly.

Pamam

Dr.T

:evil:  :evil:  :evil:

pamam 寫道:
...he suggested to arrange some social class regularly for my son with a mix of special needs kids and normal kids from his school, I agreed to pay and asked him to arrange it,  but that never happened. ...the social game class my son has now in school are all for special needs kids, no normal students and also they don't run it regularly.

sjmama

The same Edu Psy is now running own business and approaching some other schools to organize such kind of social class.

wewangwang

Pamam,

My son's situation is a bit like yours. My son does not have any good friend in school although he is quite well behaved.He says he only plays alone  during break time. He likes to talk only about his interests and also  mingles with adult. I feel that social skill is an aspect that can hardly be trained. The weekly social play group does not help much.My son  told us  that some classmates once asked him to eat rubber scrap and said it was nutritious. He then told the teacher, put a cross sign over his mouth and continued to do his worksheet.My husband said it was OK as long as he could handle it and protect himself. My son does not like us keep asking if  he is bullied in school. Neither does he feel comfortable if we are over concerned with his school social life. So I now learn to relax. I let him join S.T lesson which include 'Mind reading theory' and hope this can help. I think Dr.T 's advice of 如果有人能夠觀察小朋友的日常表現,從而給予意見及建議改善的方法may work. Also, have you considered joining  蕊展計劃. Once you join and  'open a file', you can have  advice from their  edu. psy at a reasonable rate, regardless of whether you join their weekly training program.

Regards.

wwing

Dr.T
我係一個緊張媽媽,有以下問題想請教.
我個仔二歲就到,只能說十八組字,爸爸,媽媽,姐姐...不可以組句子.有些講的不正,爸爸,姐姐講的比較正,好多時都叫,爸爸,姐姐.會不會詞語方面發展的不好,
例. 電視上沐浴露廣告,會說..姐姐,白白.
     有垃圾自己會扔垃圾桶.
      話XX(他名)係邊個,會指自己個頭.
      想要奶奶,只係指住奶粉.

    煩請指教,謝謝!

  

wwing

Dr.T
不好意思,還未請完..
我個仔一個月未到在健康院耳仔test 時,有一邊耳仔不合格,
之後到私家e生檢查,話耳仔水未干,test pass,
現在都有在e院鼻喉專科排隊做檢查,2004年2次,
2005年一次,e生都話無大問題,但都有在check,
(因為我之前沒有告訴e生,在私家test pass,屋企人話查多次都好),但我都擋心個仔請說話慢.有個大他三個月或細他三個月bb仔都已經請好多說話...搞到我好不安樂,不放心. ..  

謝謝!

稚言治語

唔好嬲唔好嬲，你有我吖嘛﹗(自大狂症發作中﹗ )

gigi2 寫道:
Not really la!  You did social with everyone in the party except me -  :evil:

稚言治語

wwing 寫道:
我都擋心個仔請說話慢.有個大他三個月或細他三個月bb仔都已經請好多說話...搞到我好不安樂,不放心. ..  
謝謝!

姑娘搭咀：

小朋友差不多兩歲應該最少要懂得運用50個詞彙，並開始將兩個詞語連接在一起，例如說：食餅餅、媽媽抱。以你的描述看來，仔仔的語言發展可能有點慢，請盡快安排言語治療師作評估。評估後，治療師除了會告訴你孩子的發展和同齡小朋友的差距外，還會教你一些在家訓練的方法。及早評估，如果得知問題不大可以及早安心；萬一有需要做治療，也是愈早開始效果愈好。

語言發展慢的原因很多，聽覺障礙固然是其中之一。但如果孩子只在一個月大時fail了聽力測試，後期的都沒有問題，那表示聽力有問題的機會較微。

gigi2

好彩個日還有個靚女啋下！ :tongue:

唔好嬲唔好嬲，你有我吖嘛﹗(自大狂症發作中﹗ )

wwing

稚言治語,
多謝妳d回應．．
這二天我個仔仔請說話好像多了一些，但最多只有２０多個詞彙，但他在家中都算百厭，爬高爬低，喜歡玩，想要嘢會用身體語言表達．家中９９和老公話：小朋友請說話有快有慢，只要識轉音就不會是啞巴，我都不知怎辦．．
想問bb的語言發展慢，會影響些什麼？是不是一定要找言語治療師作評估，他月底要去健康院評估，是否健康院姑娘都可以評估到他的進展？

謝謝．

這里的媽媽有無類似遲講說話的ＢＢ，　而家有無什麼打算呢？

alfyma

最近很忙,很少上bk,原來發生了那麼多事,
幸好現在雨過天晴 .
我當初上bk也是因為你

Dr.T

尋日熄電腦前見到個問題,心諗要叫稚姑娘救命,因為實在唔係自己果瓣,點知今朝開機見到原來你已出手...真係多謝晒     

稚言治語 寫道:
[quote]
wwing 寫道:
我都擋心個仔請說話慢.有個大他三個月或細他三個月bb仔都已經請好多說話...搞到我好不安樂,不放心. ..  
謝謝!

姑娘搭咀：
...及早評估，如果得知問題不大可以及早安心；萬一有需要做治療，也是愈早開始效果愈好。...語言發展慢的原因很多，聽覺障礙固然是其中之一。但如果孩子只在一個月大時fail了聽力測試，後期的都沒有問題，那表示聽力有問題的機會較微。[/quote]

Dr.T

多謝關心...

小朋友好嗎

alfyma 寫道:
最近很忙,很少上bk,原來發生了那麼多事,
幸好現在雨過天晴 .
我當初上bk也是因為你

wwing

Dr.T

多謝晒!我會更加多比時間教仔仔請嘢....
  

wewangwang

stellacl,

My son is 文靜+9唔搭8, also difficult to make friends in school. It is hard to change your son's character from active to 文靜.

Better to train our boys to be 9搭8.