SC畢業生家長一起走過癲婆的日子

chingyu

0203Ma,
Reading the heartbreaking news about China, it's so retentless and absurd, our people are so helpless.  Poor...  how can I stay calm?!

Yes, I also feel strange how come we have to go back the school for two consecutive days.  It better set up a campsite there!

danielboy

亞仔放term break
我無得休息
日日俾佢激
除非有奇蹟

0203Ma

Danielboy,
仲有雅興吟詩作對, 都未算谷底!  乖啦! 日子好快過架O者!
0203Ma

chingyu

danielboy,

車佢過來踩單車發洩佢精力啦.....

Meanwhile, 訓練佢洗衫,煮飯,打掃..........etc........


0203Ma,
danielboy已經　
十一月有測驗, 我兩都快無好日子..........







chingyu

[ 本帖最後由 chingyu 於 11-10-18 08:36 編輯 ]

danielboy

0203Ma,
吟詩係我減壓的方法之一,我都需要發洩下架!

chingyu,
佢已經個個星期六受踩單車訓練兩小時,究竟有咩可以令佢唔駁嘴唔搞對抗呢?

chingyu

danielboy,

我識教你, 我唔駛上bk呻啦....

心情好的時候會想想... 唔駁咀可能佢思想有問題或者說話有問題, 感謝天父讓我們小孩仍可以駁咀, 化作正能量的看法, 怨氣會小些......

今早我家小姐, 因漏帶Arts堂工作袋, 要飛"的"返學校呢.....不過, 我都提自己, 唔好因這些瑣事而再長氣罵她.... 乾脆扣零用錢或stickers算了...

橋唔怕舊, 最緊要受..... actually I used my signatures to replace stickers, ask her to accumulate certain amount to redeem special gifts (haha... all these gifts are daily necessity... but it's good motivation to her...)  We adults also like incentive... it's the engine to push one forward.....

But don't try to tackle all the problems in one day...  say... this week mainly tackle the problem of "attitude"...........  u tell him.... once he is able to use another expression to response you politely and gently, you will give him the stickers (signatures) and certainly you will deduct it if his behaviour turns bad.  Grasp every chance to praise him and give him more stickers (signatures).......

When teaching Sunday school, some kids always like to say poopoo, wee wee in the class....  since I keep reminding myself that we only can use our loving heart to handle our kids, I will be friend with him, reminding him not to say the number "4, 4 = poo poo"....English word "six, six = eating poo"... or PTH "liu liu = 6, 6 = wee wee"..... also grasp every chance to praise him once he can control himself and tell us more meaningful words.... when other kids asked me what's the number and the English letter, I told them it's the secret between us....  once he feels my caring to him, he will be much more co-operative indeed.........


Last Sunday I met RC princesses again....  since my daughter is also very weak in Chinese, I requested them to tell me a story in PTH or "written" Cantonese.... certainly they didn't follow me at the beginning.... then, I told them I had to go back home to study if they were not willing to learn while playing....  coz we were on a long way to an outdoor playground, they couldn't stop telling me the stories in PTH once they started.........


HEY!!!!  I believe you also have lots of tricks.... please do share some................. we really have to help each other.  Otherwise, we will be getting old faster... (I'm looking at the mirror now... sigh....... )




chingyu



   

原帖由 danielboy 於 11-10-19 14:49 發表
0203Ma,
吟詩係我減壓的方法之一,我都需要發洩下架!

chingyu,
佢已經個個星期六受踩單車訓練兩小時,究竟有咩可以令佢唔駁嘴唔搞對抗呢?

[ 本帖最後由 chingyu 於 11-10-25 09:15 編輯 ]

danielboy

我邊有tricks吖,不過尋日同個Singapore朋友見面,佢俾左d正能量我.佢有兩個仔,大仔好乖,永遠follow instructions,所以成績好,細仔駁嘴王,反粄,成績差,學校投訴多,但我朋友認為細仔係個survivor,相信將來成就會比亞哥好,當然佢有好多supporting arguments我聽左都十分同意嘅.兩個既然喺同一環境長大,所以我相信駁嘴係天生,今日老公先同我分析,佢話Mr. T駁嘴仲一定要駁贏係遺傳自我,
所以我同Mr.T真係....唉.

我已經成日讚佢喇,跟緊Mr. T個兒童精神科醫生仲叫我只有俾貼紙,唔好罰貼紙添,做唔到唔俾就算,我試下啦.

Mr. T尋日掘個陷阱俾我踩
T : Can you think of 3 bad things about me?
M : 脾氣差同駁嘴,無第三樣喇你咁乖.
T: 有嘅,諗下啦
M : 唔專心做野慢.
T : (即變臉扮慘)嘩!洗唔洗踩得咁盡,傷害我弱小心靈

痴痴地架!

[ 本帖最後由 danielboy 於 11-10-25 14:06 編輯 ]

chingyu

hahaha...... u see....... how sweet!!!!  We really need to be grateful.   雖然有時激到好嬲, 有時見到佢地又好鬼有趣, 希望越大越好啦....有思想先可以駁咀呢.... 我都是駁咀王 ...不過, 人老左當然懂得用其他手法啦... 同埋, 亞媽都老了, 唔敢駁得佢太"行"....haha.....

0203Ma

danielboy, chingyu,
你地真係好叻, 我D EQ 俾佢地磨滅得七七八八.  有時都忍唔住對佢地咆哮
MR T & MS A 真好, 仲可以滿足於 stickers.
依幾日係我個仔考試.  有一朝, 見佢好乖O係度寫字, 對我黎講簡直係奇景.  咁我好感動咁行過去O係佢後面, 用個下爬頂住佢頭頂睇O下佢寫乜啦?  你係咪expect 佢會緩緩昂高頭母子四目交投好溫馨家O麻! 佢唔係架, 佢即時坐低, 向上一頂, 頂! 我差D夾倒條脷!  唉!
我老公曾經問過佢, 你唔鍚媽咪咩?  佢答:鍚!  不過我好鍾意玩佢, 好好玩呀!

[ 本帖最後由 0203Ma 於 11-10-27 14:59 編輯 ]

0203Ma

我個仔一年班時咪作過句:媽媽一邊洗澡, 一邊看書O既.
另外要作: ....有......和.......
他作: 我家有爸爸和擦膠
我說: 不是這樣, 通常要同類型的, 例如爸爸和媽媽
佢改作:我家有入口和出口
now 佢三年班啦, 最近佢要作:..........彷彿...........又像.........
佢作: 晚上我看見小偷, 彷彿在屋入面, 又像在屋外.   
唔知佢乜野思維! 毫無進步!

danielboy

0203Ma,
今日悶悶地入來,真係開心,有你個仔d笑料.我精神晒.
不過我EQ唔高呀!我無咆哮你信咩?唔好唔記得呢個chatroom叫咩呀!我地一齊做癲婆啦!

chingyu

0203Ma,

Yeah!  We got full spirit with your encourgement.  Thanks for bringing us so much happiness.  


四目交投好溫馨 - Exactly!  I also didn't have this intimate feeling as my normal expectation on many occasions.  

Chinese composition - Ms A has the same problem as Mr. A.  Not logical and reasonable at all!!!!!  Really don't understand how come they can think something so unrelated.  Certainly Mr. A is a winner in this game.  

danielboy

Mr.T上星期五放學時留低咗一袋嘢喺校車，我打俾姨姨留voicemail，尋日姨姨call番我，我唔得閒聽所以老公聽咗，嘩！俾個姨姨投訴咗佢十分鐘...話Mr.T寸咀,我老公聽完仲笑笑口話「有其母必有其子」，但我覺得Mr.T好率直諗到乜就講，照計無心寸人，都唔識點教佢，佢對慣d同學個個都係好直，簡直係頭大無腦嗰隻，所以撞着小氣或敏感c9就handle得好差。

chingyu

開始要重點教他們說話的藝術和優雅的談吐了.....不過, 我都是持續進修中........

danielboy

亞仔今日無學返，焗住陪佢食西餐，大少話要食鵝肝，即係想我俾人劏$$$

chingyu

I saw many RC students today in Tsing Yi and also near St. M.

Just an exception for Year 5?


Few weeks ago, I had a great dinner with RC moms in the following restaurant.  $1000/head excluded wine.  Food is really delicious but the environment is not good enough.  
http://www.openrice.com/restaurant/sr2.htm?shopid=48306

danielboy

chingyu,尋日同今日係3 way conference呀，你見到那些RC student應該係去conference的,Mr. T's appointment 係7：00，所以尋人上午做完home learning及練琴咪出街玩囉，夜晚Mr T都要換校服返學校。多謝你介紹的restaurant，我機會都想同老公去試下，因我的確係鍾意fine dining，buffet我反為極之麻麻，你真知我心意，不過$1000 per head 都唔少嘢，一定要好特別嘅日子先得。

danielboy

仲有，想請問直屬同聯繫中學分別喺邊？因有個朋友選target某小學，以為有正屬中學可以直升煩少次，誰知原來只是聯繫中學，因local school system 我自問不甚了解，係咪直屬就可保留85%學位俾自己小學嘅學生，聯繫就只可保留25%？如果係的話，直屬都不等如直升對嗎？

chingyu

danielboy,

直屬指同屬一個辦學團體，一間直屬小學只有一間直屬中學。直屬中學在扣除校方自行分配的中一學位或重讀生後，會預留85%中一學位予直屬小學的畢業生(派位組別為第一或第二組別)。

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聯繫指同屬一個辦學團體或官立學校，而每間聯繫中學通常會多過一間聯繫小學。聯繫中學須預留25%中一學位予其聯繫小學的畢業生(派位組別為第一或第二組別)。
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直屬中學經校方扣除重讀生及自行分配學位數目後，可為直屬小學最多保留餘額百分之八十五的學位。一個就讀於直屬學校的小六學生，如果他/她以直屬中學作為第一選擇學校，而他/她的派位組別為第一或第二組別時，該生便有資格獲派保留學位（註：中學亦可選擇全收三個組別的學生），然而是否獲派則需視乎有關中學能提供的學位，按派位組別及隨機編號依次分配。聯繫學校制度和直屬學校制度大致相同，惟保留學額則為百分之二十五。
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For safety sake, it had better choose 一條龍學校.

That's why I picked auntie's mother school instead of your mother school..........

「一條龍」小六學生可選擇直升所屬中學或申請其他中學的自行分配學位。所有「一條龍」內的小六學生均可選擇直升所屬中學而毋須經過篩選。若學生決定申請其他中學的自行分配學位而結果不獲取錄，他們只可參加統一派位而不能保留直升所屬中學的權利。

原帖由 danielboy 於 11-11-4 10:33 發表
仲有，想請問直屬同聯繫中學分別喺邊？因有個朋友選target某小學，以為有正屬中學可以直升煩少次，誰知原來只是聯繫中學，因local school system 我自問不甚了解，係咪直屬就可保留85%學位俾自己小學嘅學生，聯繫就只可保留25%？如果 ...

[ 本帖最後由 chingyu 於 11-11-6 17:06 編輯 ]

danielboy

chingyu,
唔該晒.其實呢段野我都曾經睇過,睇到我頭暈,第一第二組別派位我都唔多知up乜,可能我從未玩過呢個遊戲,一大堆 terms對於我簡直係nightmare.我朋友個小朋友係男仔,我亞媽母校同我母校點考慮呢?我朋友仔仔K2,呢個stage呢度個個亞媽都go through 過,所以我明白佢都好煩嘅.

仲有樣野想問你意見,因你諗野較我理性,最近Mr. T鍾意左跳舞,靜靜雞send email 俾sports coordinator話想學hip hop,本來我完全唔知架,但原來要parent's consent, 前日個sports coordinator send 左張form俾我簽. 死啦,跳hip hop 有無問題呢?點解我一向咁open minded今次會有保留呢?其實我都係跳舞架,可能我係跳古典芭蕾舞,我鍾意d較classic嘅野,唉!唔通我好out?應唔應該support個仔呢? Hip Hop係咪壞人跳架?