Hello, Dr.T speaking...

MeMa

Dr. T,
新一年最高興見到的是你.
對的! 不要放棄做應做的事, 就如父母一樣, 永遠不會因別人目光,背後言論.....而放棄自己的孩子.

Dr.T

對呀...真是慚愧

三人行,必有我師-多謝教導 :wink:

MeMa 寫道:
...不要放棄做應做的事, 就如父母一樣, 永遠不會因別人目光,背後言論.....而放棄自己的孩子.

Justin2002

Dr. T,

真開心又見到你, 專家始終是專家, 我們這等沒受過正式訓練極其量也只可以分享一些經驗之談, 絕對不及你的專業意見!

Justin2002

sjmama

Wow! Dr. T welcome back!     

Dr.T

你們是接受24小時貼身訓練的呀,還有誰比大家更了解孩子...我只是讀多幾年書,濫竽充數及死剩把口罷了  

Justin2002 寫道:
...我們這等沒受過正式訓練極其量也只可以分享一些經驗之談, 絕對不及你的專業意見!

Dr.T

係囉...話走唔走喺度賴死...

sjmama 寫道:
...welcome back!     

sjmama

Dr.T 寫道:
你們是接受24小時貼身訓練的呀,還有誰比大家更了解孩子...我只是讀多幾年書,濫竽充數及死剩把口罷了  

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Justin2002 寫道:
...我們這等沒受過正式訓練極其量也只可以分享一些經驗之談, 絕對不及你的專業意見!

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正因為我們24小時貼身照顧,常常不自覺走進死胡同,很需要像你或稚姑娘這樣有愛心的專家意見,就像明燈指示我們呢!

gigi2

When I know you have left, I even can't have motivation to drop some words here....After knowing you come back, I seem cannot say any words but just feel.........................................................
..........................................peaceful, pleasant, joyful, cheerful and HOORAY!       

[quote]唉唉唉...姣婆守不了寡...最多兩星期    眼見大家那麼多問題,過去兩星期只看不動手實在很痛苦...始終暫時能給予家長一個互動公開平台問問題的地方不多(其他地方多數都是水靜河飛,一個問題多個月也沒有人回應,即使是聲稱有"專家"坐鎮的討論區,專家們從來也沒有出現),自己識多少少自然覺得有需要出手.你們說得對,都無謂因為一?無聊人單單打打而放棄做應做的事(其實唔知點解我一出聲後個題目都取消?)...至多以後見到都同自已講"時運高,見唔到"  

Dr.T

    

對我來說令我有此感覺的人是我太太

gigi2 寫道:
...just feel.........................................................
..........................................peaceful, pleasant, joyful, cheerful and HOORAY!       

gigi2

Next gathering hope to see your wife too!   

Dr.T

佢好怕"生保"場合架,唔似我咁面懵懵周圍去諸事八卦

gigi2 寫道:
Next gathering hope to see your wife too!   

wewangwang

DR. T

既然大家咁有緣,無謂搞分手咁傷感D野啦.

Dr.T

點只...簡直愛恨交纏(同BK)    

wewangwang 寫道:
既然大家咁有緣,無謂搞分手咁傷感D野啦.

reginang

hello Dr. T
我都好耐冇係度留言喇,祝你新一年事事順利 !!!!
我認為做人最緊要開心啫,你係度大家都覺得好安慰  

pamam

Dr. T,

really happy to see you here again. Hope to get some advice from you.

As I said in other postings, my son is Asperger, going to be 7 soon, in mainstream international school(ESF), he has improved in many aspects except his social skills, we have put him to Heep Hong social group, where most kids are Chinese speaking so I don't see much progress, which is understandable. Then I let him joined watchdog social group, that is English speaking one, but still didn't make a difference.

My son is very talkative...he likes to talk only about his interests(his interest would shift every few months), he can play with older children because they treat him like a baby, his peers laugh and reject him. I am very worried that he would become a target for bullying........he is a bit clumsy and cannot protect himself very well. I just wonder if there is anything I can do now, my primary concern is to improve his social skills............at least not to stand out as so weird. Any advice please?


Pamam  

gigi2

Not really la!  You did social with everyone in the party except me -  :evil:

[quote]唔似我咁面懵懵周圍去諸事八卦

Dr.T

個人認為最多每周一/兩次的社交訓練功效始終有限,因為要將抽象的社交技巧由一個人工化環境轉移到另一個生活環境是最高難度的訓練...可能要從學校方面入手-照計他都應該是Year 2 or 3,學校本身有沒有跟進?有沒有由輔導員主持的社交小組可以參加?那應會比在校外的訓練有效...

pamam 寫道:
...My son is very talkative...he likes to talk only about his interests(his interest would shift every few months), he can play with older children because they treat him like a baby, his peers laugh and reject him. I am very worried that he would become a target for bullying........he is a bit clumsy and cannot protect himself very well. I just wonder if there is anything I can do now, my primary concern is to improve his social skills............at least not to stand out as so weird. Any advice please?

Dr.T

哎吔...一時走漏眼潻

gigi2 寫道:
Not really la!  You did social with everyone in the party except me -  :evil:

Dr.T

今鋪真係