重重打擊後, 失去方向, 沒想到仔仔沒一間小學能進入2nd In

atirw

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 12-11-07 發表
老友, 可能就係靚仔累事!一陣d女仔無心機讀書點算??

係呀，通常都係d女仔拖著佢，連高佢一班的師姐都拖著佢手仔一齊放學，重請阿仔去生日會。

babybear

原帖由 atirw 於 12-11-07 發表
其實我個仔真係超級靚仔，又拿品學兼優，但真係一間offer都無！但你地講衰個d佢又中灑，多嘴，識無耐又係比 ...

可能就係因為外表好smart, 啲學校心諗呢個靚仔一定係搶手貨，大把學校爭住收，為免比咗offer佢，佢又reject，倒不如比offer其他冇咁搶手嘅考生。

moemama

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Same here!  so lost now!!!

flopsybunnies

三個小孩! 樓主加油!

nofrills

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Let me put it this way.

Lets say your kid's K3 class has 30 kids and you find that 5-6 kids are more presentable or 'looks smarter' than the rest. Multiply that by a 100 times to make the base 3000 kids. Are you still so confident that you can pick the top 500-600 kids ?

Lets assume you were able to picked the top 600 kids, you now have to further narrow it down to 300 for 2nd interview and then reject the other half. Can you really say the kids you picked are really that much more 'better' than the rejected ones.

This is what I meant by half the kids having comparable ability.

Add on the need to finish screening 3000 kids in a couple of days with multiple teachers and limited time. You must admit that any kid could be lost in the crowd because of many many reason.

These interview results are not a measure of your kid's true potential. Although I know that it will be hard for parents who receive nothing but rejections to accept  the current outcome.

hoihoima

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How many of that 3000 kids will go to the same school for interview?  

I originally also thought that the ability of the kids should be comparable.  However, after observing the class in K3, we were amazed that the spectrum can be so wide.  

To me, there are many factors that would impact the performance of an interview, e.g. academic ability, presentation, discipline, interaction with teachers and other candidates, attitude, language ability, creativity, confidence, the kid's mood during the interview, etc.  Of course luck is a very crucial element in this game, as it always is in our life.

HKTHK

I am with hoihoima here.  Ability of kids in PN may not differ that much.  But there can be a very large gap by K3.  I have seen kids in K3 who can read English chapter books and also ones who can barely blend phonemes together.  I have seen kids who can sequence the events in a story and retell with their own twist and I have also seen ones who have no idea what the story is about.  I have also seen kids who can do multiplication and ones who can barely do 3+3.  It may not be an indication of true potential, BUT the gap can be very very large.  I suspect both innate abilities and also upbringing contributes to the differences.

HKTHK

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No, am just a parent

四隻貓

HKTHK 發表於 12-11-8 00:56
I am with hoihoima here.  Ability of kids in PN may not differ that much.  But there can be a very l ...

樓上有朋友話5歲孩子的能力差不多, 我自己觀察下, 其實在學術上已經可以有好大分別.
例子就如HKTHK 所見的, 有的K3已掌握phonics 的技巧, 能看chapter book ( 老鼠記者, Magic Tree house....) , 能自己看和理解中英文題目, 能計進位加減數, 更有不少已學會乘數.
當然, 學校未必會只看學術, 也會重視孩子的禮貌, 合群, 大小肌肉, 聽從指示能力....
但我同意HKTHK 所講, 小朋友在K3, 很多方面已有一定分別.

nofrills

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I am not saying that every K3 kid has about the same ability. They don't.

All I am saying is that when you see a few "outstanding" kids in a single K3 class, there will be a lot more kids just like them else where because there are many many other K3 classes all over HK.

sylviakk

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别把学校的面试成绩当成是对你孩子正确评价。我的孩子我也一直觉得很优秀，也像你一样给他自由发展的空间，参加各种活动，孩子各方面都感觉很好。当时幼儿园校长对我们孩子评价非常高，认为绝对没有去参加面试班的必要，但是面试的时候仍然成绩不理想。没有入围心仪的直资学校。结果收到一间没有计划内的私校的位置。期初我也是非常难过，甚至批评自己的孩子，但是我后来想，如果学校本身的面试是喜欢选某一类的小朋友，那么，自己的孩子进去了也会很辛苦。而且面试其实和那个老师问问题的方式也有关系，如果不能够顺利的在面试中沟通，那么上课的时候也非常有可能孩子听不明白老师的指令。相信上天有他的安排，无论什么样的安排，对你的孩子的将来都是一个经历。官津学校也一样有好成绩的孩子，只要你可以一直关心着自己的孩子，参与他的成长，将来一样可以有出色的成绩。相信自己的孩子。祝福你们。

HaYi

我都覺得K2尾K3的每個人能力及成熟度有好大分別,   我自問個仔當時Kinder Academic 都是不錯, read english charpter book too, 他是中仔, 但可惜思想是幼稚的一類, 佢當時K3的朋友, 一開始DB 1st interview 已告訴我個仔佢實去到DB 2nd in , 我仔雖都去左 1st in, 不過好矇矓, 都唔知係咩...  不過人人都最後會有合的選擇, 只是出現的時機可能較後..

KAP

KAP

加油！

easybring

dannyyau302 發表於 12-11-6 18:32
到六月尾大把私校等你添，放心啦! 競爭在於某個時機啫，天意早有安排，不需過份擔憂及自責。話唔定统一派位 ...

"六月尾大把私校等你添" << 今年唔敢講. 望統一抽到頭3獎都ok啦.

easybring

考學校都好睇運氣, 學校都唔可以分到最叻果批申請人出黎, 都係大概ok.  所以叻既小朋友都可能唔好彩, 考唔到學校. 6月係可以再執位. 加油.

Gelcemy

flopsybunnies 發表於 12-11-7 20:51
三個小孩! 樓主加油!

係, 每當想起二年及四年後再要打仗一次, 都咪話唔驚

Gelcemy

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多謝鼓勵, 現在心情平伏了不少, 真的