聖心明天 Interview la

iantsang

hangyodon 發表於 12-1-10 17:30
真係100個人要講同一句說話? SH真係容不下其他意見嗎?

What lead you to think that?  I didn't feel anyone forcing anyone to say the same thing.  Those are just different opinions, of course some parents may go the distance to care about the welfare of others and would remind them not to make a wrong choice.  That's all.

As I said, it is really up to anyone to think how the arrangement was but also, for those who know the background, they also have the rights to say what they feel.  I think that's fair, right?



Frankly I have no time to take care of EK as I used to be.  So don't take me wrong as I must protect what happened last Saturday.  If there are someone to blame for it, it should be me.  But certainly by experience, there will be members who will be attracted by my involvement in a thread so I just like to take this opportunity to share more on how it is like to experience the kindergarten interview stage.  It is not just for a single kindergarten as I mentioned before, but as parents, all of us will need to learn how to communicate when there are different views.  

iantsang

hangyodon 發表於 12-1-10 17:30
真係100個人要講同一句說話? SH真係容不下其他意見嗎?

Just my friendly reminder: the way you phrase your query may probably lead to why you had bad experience with other parents in the past.  It i could be viewed as an offensive statement to others.

Something for you to take note of.  All the best!

w_y

真心勸大家, 理念不同, 千萬不可因名氣或龍校就讓子女入讀.

以下是SHCK 的辦學理念, 讓大家看看或重溫, 我好肯定SH 唔係得把口, 而係真正著力實踐她們的理念.

宗旨
本園效法耶穌基督十字架上無私的愛，秉承會祖聖瑪大肋納嘉諾撒的仁愛謙遜精神、致力彼此互助互愛，培養幼兒全人發展，建立正確的價值觀。締造愉快的學習環境，讓幼兒健康快樂地成長，從而建立自信、自律，懂得欣賞事物、以禮待人、關懷弱小，並能主動學習，積極面對挑戰，解決困難，以達致敬主愛人的精神。

使命
校園顯主愛、幼苗悉心栽、會祖仁愛內、致力育良才。

總目標
1.在「靈」方面，透過宗教活動，讓幼兒認識天主及實踐愛主愛人的精神。

2.在「德」方面，培養幼兒明辨是非，懂得欣賞別人、以禮待人及關懷弱小。

3.在「智」方面，培養幼兒主動學習的態度和解決問題的能力，及建立幼兒的邏輯思維和語文基礎。

4.在「體」方面，發展幼兒的感官機能、大小肌肉、專注和觀察能力，並培養幼兒健康的生活方式與自律的能力，建立保護自己安全的意識。

5.在「群」方面，提供互動的機會，培養幼兒懂得與人合作，以發展社交能力，建立自信及樂觀積極的態度，並懂得尊重不同文化。

6.在「美」方面，豐富幼兒的感知經驗，鼓勵幼兒表達個人的思想、感受及欣賞四周事物，並培養幼兒的創意及想像力。

w_y

紅色Highlight 係我覺得非常重要, 想請大家注意, 原文是沒有的.

當中亦提到, 明辨是非, 有些事情唔會有一百種講法, 而係黑白分明.  
有些善意的建議, 我覺得是真心為學校, 當然不妨提出. 後面亦提到, 欣賞別人, 呢點, 確係越來越難在EK 見到.  

hangyodon

iantsang 發表於 12-1-10 17:41
What lead you to think that?  I didn't feel anyone forcing anyone to say the same thing.  Those are  ...

Thanks for your comments

brrbaby2007

hangyodon 發表於 12-1-10 18:16
Thanks for your comments

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Yipapa

SH has one arrangement that I think is the best.   They give the admission result through Internet (by application no).  No need to check mail box like an idiot....

hangyodon

brrbaby2007 發表於 12-1-10 18:26
由始至終我覺得唔需要protect甚麼，因為學校好唔好唔會因人唱好或唱衰

而人地表達自己意見就預設人地prot ...

Thanks for the reminder :)I didn't blame the school. I think the arrangement is ok but could have been better

lovelinda

Ian，忍唔住要俾個你!

lovelinda

brrbaby, 有野同你講, check pm!!

helloqueen01

其實聖心的安排都不是好差,真正雖要等候只是在interview room出面,都只是十分鐘左右,沿路都係慢行,又唔迫又有嘢睇,我個女見到啲佢唔識嘅嘢仲問我係セ嘢,見到假羊又去摸下,好快就落到去,但真係比我想像中多樓梯(雖然報名時已寫明),我担心反而係呢樣,小朋友有時玩到顛會唔小心义錯腳嘛.
我咁講不是我個女In得好,相反佢in得一啲都唔好,又踢檯(比佢激死我,平時都唔會咁做),又怕醜,應該不會收佢,但平心而論,安排得差嘅學校我到領教過,無可能一樣嘢符合哂所有人的要求,希望大家唔好咁在意.
大家都係上嚟噏下啫,和和氣氣!

janettsui

咁多家長讚好, 聖心應該真係一間好學校,
可惜我同囡囡都體驗/感受唔到

由交表到面試, 我非常欣賞咁多家長義工既參與
但聖心係無開放日, 簡介會or參觀學校時間
只有面試時才真真正正入到課室, 見到老師, 卻得少於5分鐘時間
而且only得問與答既環節, 囡囡唔識"青瓜", 老師完全冇作任何引導

雖然現今學位競爭激烈,
但我仍覺得揀學校係雙向, 學校揀學生, 同時亦係家長揀學校

家長同小朋友要努力裝備好去面試
而學校亦需要表現佢地既特點吸引家長選擇佢尼間學校

無可否認, 我對聖心係失望,
失望唔係因為佢問青瓜囡囡唔識答, 亦唔係因為要等半小時,
而係無任何機會讓家長or小朋友同老師或校長傾談/參觀學校環境/了解教學理念及課程安排
如此單向既安排, 我個人感覺好唔良好

我明白每間學校都有佢地既做法, 但無可能無比較,
學校係靠比較收生, 揀個d表現相對最出色既小朋友
而家長亦靠學校整個面試安排從而去了解及比較邊間學校適合自己小朋友

同囡囡經歷左咁多個面試, 比較各間心儀既學校,
相形見絀下, 聖心明顯唔係我地杯茶,
如有幸收左囡囡, 我地亦唔會俾留位費

祝各位喜愛尼杯茶既, 能夠如願以償
而已經飲緊既, 小朋友有個愉快既校園生活

sheffield

回復 小K 的帖子

是的。我是一個非常要求紀律的媽媽…我好鍾意d interview唔開playground比小朋友玩，咁就可以容易揀到d可以坐定定的小朋友和揀到d有方法讓孩子坐定定嘅家長…問心講，我都希望亞女的同學仔是能坐定定能守紀律的小朋友…

mylovelyBB

回復 helloqueen01 的帖子

我都有同感，覺得排45分鐘雖然係耐左d，不過幸好條隊係一路慢慢向前行，而沿途又有唔同嘅嘢睇，所以囡囡都無太大嘅問題，反而係覺得學校嘅樓梯真係多左d，小朋友上落時真係要好小心。

同我地面試個老師好後生好nice，囡囡係比較慢熱既小朋友，老師亦耐心咁等、引導佢答問題，反而係我自己心急左d去 push 阿囡去答。

面試其實都好講運氣，亦好睇小朋友合唔合老師眼緣、小朋友係咪學校鍾意嘅個類型.............，所以我都同自己講還是平常心地等result 吧。

sansquare

嘩!! 估唔到shck's post 咁hit 追到追唔切

我見有人講open playground 常同大家分享

之前去過一間有open playground 俾小朋友warm up 不過就見到發生小意外(碰撞之類) 其中一個小朋友好似撞親頭喊得好大聲, 雙方家長embrassed

我諗佢地唔係好知發生的經過. 各自氹返小朋友. 試諗下如果發生咁的事係你地身上, 唔同要complaint 點解kinder 要open playground ?? 其實我覺得小朋友好可憐 因為佢哋仲末interview架

我覺得今年competition 好激烈 間間都千幾二千人apply  加上白果黨vs集郵黨, 唔多唔少都影響咗情緒

所以多咗 complaint  

小K

回復 sheffield 的帖子

我同你志同道合，我都係好傳統觀念的媽媽，好想個女入一些傳統而但亦有活動教學的學校，我自己覺得SH比到我所需求的。女仔要真的學坐定定，詩文有禮貌，有規有舉。當然這些不是只依賴學校，自己身教以及在家怎樣培育她也是很重要！
我也是由幼稚園到中學都是讀教會學校，無可否認，教會培養小朋友德育品格是一流的！

stinkyrabbit111

事先申報, i am not one of shck parents, let me share my thoughts here
其實每年有關open 唔 open playground, 家長都有唔同意見, 其實最終, 大家的preference都係傾向對自己小朋友有利的方向, eg, 小朋友quite, 要warm up, 坐唔定, 有個playground entertain吓會好d, 不過有d 小朋友會玩到crazy, 之後又可能concentrate唔到, or just hurt themselves...

不過呢d係我地家長control到的, 我之前apply each school, 都有做research , 哈哈, 真係多謝ek!!!!!(有d人可能話無時間, 不過我覺得為自己小朋友,係需要的, if you really care..睇少d電視each day都係返度), research之前幾年interview的experience, 學校location...以shck為example, 大家應該都知佢location, 學校地理, even the size of the school (maybe?)..果日幾千人interview..大家應該expect有delay, playground幾年interview都係無開的, 之前我expect到, 大家都應respect學校的choice, 所以當年我地waiting時帶了一d新玩具, 新books keep住entertain佢, 又有小食, 唔會bored; 所以家長, 知道小朋友temperament, 應該有special way of handling 佢地, 可能我小朋友自細都好唔定, 我好有experience handle 呢d situation, haha..

anyway, good luck to everyone who had participated, anyway the interview is finished, just relax and put this interview thing aside and have an enjoyable upcoming CNY!!!

lumcmk

we've also attended the interview last sat. i understand it's really tough to arrange the interview given the applications reach over thousands.

really appreciate the school could arrange the interview 1 more day next year so that we can have a bit more time to let the teacher know our kids' potential (although someone could comment that the teacher could know you in the first sight).

for the upcoming increasing of birth rate, this kind of controversy is hard to end. Really hope the KG could consider this point (I know it would induce the workload of school and those parent voluntees, but that's the trend inevitably).

PS : both my gal and I did not well perform the interview (didn't know the cucumber, just reiterating as green pepper), but I would appreciate the teacher's caring attitude and the warm campus environment.

just a friendly comment, no intention to offend, thx.

snoopybk

第2年同小朋友考聖心,好唔明點解兩年來interview後都有咁多狠批. 難道學校固意為難家長, 為難小朋友？平心而言,我很欣賞義工家長的耐性及有禮,從家長身上,我可以肯定這校的學生是優秀的,指的不一定是學識,而是修養, 品德等.

我會認為,不同學校有不同理念,方向及處事方式, 為何硬要學校跟自己的要求才滿意？我不想冒犯任何人,只想幫一所有堅持的學校說句公道話.

brrbaby2007

janettsui 發表於 12-1-11 12:10
咁多家長讚好, 聖心應該真係一間好學校,
可惜我同囡囡都體驗/感受唔到

呢位媽媽亦令我諗起不少學校是沒有open day, 甚至連見到老師個影都唔得。SPK/SPN就是一個好例子，大家都冇投訴的，因為一早知道學校的安排亦明白要搞open day不是簡單事，所以只得用自己的方法去準備和了解。我自己最怕的就是group interview，因為原來有d學校老師竟然只問你個名就轉問第2個， 足足排左個幾鐘但只問名就算，作為家長唔火先奇。有d邊玩邊問的interview, 竟然又遇到黑心家長搞喊你b而老師視而不見，另外又見老師和家長打招呼，之后interview時同果d家長傾好耐，冇乜時間剩俾果group家長interview。有時覺得interview都睇到好多人生百態。