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Re: 番禺會所華仁小學
千尋 寫道: 
Dear all parents in Wah Yan, 
 
Going through the discussions so far in this thread, it seems to me that many Wah Yan parents here are eager for the marks.  Some of which may be even focusing on the 2 marks that his boy lost but forgetting the 98 marks he got.  Indeed, being a parent, we should appreciate and praise our boys who had been working hard to attempt the test rather than taking their efforts for granted. 
 
In my opinion, getting 100 marks is nothing to be proud of.  On the contrary, getting fewer marks is nothing or worth to be sad.  The most important attribute is to appreciate that your boy has been spending his effort in the test and recognize his strength and weakness as to ascertain that he still has room to improve.  Receiving 100 marks in such an early stage may not necessarily be a gift for a P. 1 boy as such a small boy may likely conceive a wrong signal that he is so incredible, so proud of, etc.  Learning is a long path in one's life just like an athlete to participate in a Marathon game.  Learning how to learn and understanding one's deficiency are far more important than getting 100 marks. 
 
For those boys getting high marks in English is nothing to be proud of as the quality, content and requirements of the test paper are so poor.  The teachers' expectation on students' English proficiency is so low!  One point is certain that there's a big room to improve students' English standard and teaching approach in Wah Yan. 
 
From the bottom of my heart, I need to express my view that our minds should be opened and alert and should not be dimmed by the illusive high marks getting by your boys. 
 
A P. 3 parent.  
 
千尋, 
 
相信所有父母都好清楚有時小朋友的壓力係嚟自家長, 
雖然分數唔代表一切, 
但始終這都是一個指標。 
就算係平時做既功課都一樣有個分數, 
同埋要佢知道個分數已經係個無法改變的結果, 
最重要係個過程(包括玩遊戲)。 
 
我老公都問過我如果亞仔啲成績唔好,我會點? 
我話我可以接受亞仔蠢,但唔可以接受佢懶。 
所以我每次都會同佢檢討分數(不論係高分或低分), 
等佢知道佢認真既時候可以攞甲,亂嚟既時候得乙。 
當然我都會讚賞佢既努力,但亦要不斷提醒佢做事要認真,唔好馬虎了事。同埋等佢知道佢既唔小心係會白費自己既努力。 
 
我相信所有父母都好清楚自己小朋友既能力, 
因為每個小朋友都有着唔同既性格同特質, 
我對亞仔個着眼點係佢既唔小心,而唔係嗰兩分。 
 
 
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