考入ESF同中六合彩差不多，是嗎？

FennieMan

原帖由 JPRabbit 於 14-03-17 發表
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多謝你的分享! 想請問一下 你覺得esf 學生 也會在學校學到禮貌 尊重別人 孝順父母  ...

作為ESF嘅家長，我唔覺得我小朋友有任何徳育上嘅問題！我想問你點解會覺得ESF嘅學生，喺學校學唔到禮貌 尊重別人 孝順父母 等等的德育？ 因為學校冇教？學生太曳？定你親身經歷過？如果你覺得德育甘重要，而local kindy 又較優勝! 即ESF 唔啱你！

JPRabbit

himching 發表於 14-3-17 20:52
關於討論德育好易搵交嗌嘅題目。個人一直認為教好小朋友德育係家長責任，而唔係學校責任。同是否IS 定係LS  ...

其實我一向知道及認同德育是家長責任和家教一部份, 只是我想知道學生在校內會否也學到這些是因為我小女係一個strong will child 及有一點反叛,有時教極都唔聽, 如果有多一個渠道去教育她可能會好d, 當然我唔會依賴學校去教.  我亦同意學校能夠提供一個安全及愉快學習環境是最重要的

JPRabbit

FennieMan 發表於 14-3-17 23:59
作為ESF嘅家長，我唔覺得我小朋友有任何徳育上嘅問題！我想問你點解會覺得ESF嘅學生，喺學校學唔到禮貌 尊 ...

這位家長無須太敏感, 我提出的是一個問題而不是評論.因小女有點反叛不太聽話,我自問不是一個懂得教小朋友的家長正在學習中,所以也希望學校在這方面也有一點教育,有與沒有也只不過是我選擇學校的其中一個因素而已

oooray

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社會福利署；及坊間也有不少牟利與非牟利的中心；絕對能提供各種服務；改善家長如何教導子女及灌輸正確之生理及心理知識。

harold621

I also agree that the child well educated or not, mostly depends on family, but not shool. So it is not the key difference between LS and IS to compare. As an IS parent, you have to know exactly what you want in the path of education of your child. If you still have so many uncertain questions about ESF, i suggest you put your child to LS, in case you won't regret and keep challenging yourself in future.

shin08

原帖由 JPRabbit 於 14-03-18 發表
這位家長無須太敏感, 我提出的是一個問題而不是評論.因小女有點反叛不太聽話,我自問不是一個懂得教小朋友的 ...

如果你小朋友原本已反叛唔聽教，在iS或LS也一樣！不會改變佢原來既性格！分別不大。既然你自己話自己唔識教，我建議你俾佢讀LS, 起碼嚴啲，免得將來反叛就將負任推去IS!

peak1011

jolalee 發表於 14-3-17 22:02
I agree that we should not depend on the school to teach our children ethics & manners, but the scho ...

我又不太覺得能從個別小朋友看到學校在德育上的風格.....

例如我兒子的學校 (ESF)，有些小朋友真的很文靜，很害羞，膽小，不太活躍。有些非常活躍，很愛冒險，無時停，多口......我見過百厭星，也看到很多有禮貌的小紳士。總括來說，在我的standard裡，我沒有看到態度很差的小朋友，有禮貌的，當然我會有很深印象。不過，每個家長的standard都不一樣。

我個人感覺是，如果一所學校有大致上同一類的學生的話，很大原因是他們根本刻意選擇哪一類的學生，跟學校德育上的風格不太有關係....

很簡單地，朋友兒子從一間很多人認為學生很乖、有宗教背景的學校，轉到ESF，我不覺得他的兒子有很大變化。老實說，他的兒子不算很乖，但也不是沒禮貌那種.....而現實中，這類學生應該是每間學校的大多數吧！

oooray

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香港地成績掛帥；谷成績的新派/舊派名校多的是；教德育而出名；除左正生書院；仲有冇第間?

HelloNBaby

原帖由 ckwliu 於 14-03-18 發表
唔知點解有啲家長經常覺得IS就冇德育？學生活潑=冇禮貌？第二間IS我唔知，不過我小朋友而家呢間ESF比佢以前 ...

你好，我亦有打算將我小朋友送到ESF! 他就是比較害羞、文靜、內向那種！我希望透過ESF的活動教學、另一種學習模式，能夠令佢多參予！可否分享下你的體驗嗎？

oooray

你個仔好似下學年先K1,咁快同佢定型?

jolalee

peak1011 發表於 14-3-18 14:51
我又不太覺得能從個別小朋友看到學校在德育上的風格.....

例如我兒子的學校 (ESF)，有些小朋友真的很文靜 ...

True, just like there are many shades of green, some closer to yellow, some closer to blue. 的確不能從個別小朋友看到學校在德育上的風格, or even notice them if one compares the characters between kids within the same school. When you put a large group of children from a few distinct schools in the same room, on the other hand, and if you pay close attention to them, you would spot the similarities & differences. I take my boy down to the playroom on a regular basis, and monitor how they play. The colors are distinctive, and young children I know for a few years slowly transform from their original shades to something closer to the characteristics of their distinctive school, for worse AND for better.

The point is, there is no perfect school as every parent's idea of perfection is different; PLUS, each school probably has a few criteria that you like but won't fit your ideal 100%. I just hope that when parents choose schools, we do look closely at all aspects: academics, the type of curriculum, school characteristics, language, location, and especially at one's own child. For example I am a fan of M style learning, but deep down knows very well that my child fits B style of learning better in the long run. In the end I must pick what is best for my child so that his own persona flourishes. I hope this analysis help parents who are still picking & choosing.


p.s.  My child is currently in the ESF system as well.

harold621

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YES, I AM ANOTHER IS PARENT.

iamsiuming

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shadeslayer

我看，其實係 lS 較尊重孩子個性。

HelloNBaby

原帖由 iamsiuming 於 14-03-18 發表
我個仔而家讀梗ESF year 1 , 首先, 佢唔係讀ESF 的幼稚園, 也無能力買NR, 只是來自一個普通的家庭,也没有兄 ...

Agree!!

himching

大家不要咁開心, 以為中咗六合彩, 有樓主提出好嚴肅嘅IS Drug problem. 請三思好唔好落注買ESF.

Drug dealing problems in HKIS & ESF schools
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum ... 9&fromuid=27328

mena

喇沙書院都有毒品問題, 甘又係唔係叫人唔好讀, 每間學校裏有成千個學生, 一定存在些壞分子, 點解又要一竹打哂成船人呢.
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum ... ead&tid=2271956