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chanwendy

我愛賴屎B 發表於 13-10-2 10:39
認同4月10日媽媽所說！
傾幾分鐘就知理念？心理學家？超人？

你又知人家冇聽簡介會? 你識晒每一個聽簡介會的人咩?  我大女讀緊小二了, 我係由佢 k1 開始就每次開放日都帶佢去玩, 到佢小一開學前, 我同亞女一共去了 5 次開放日, 但簡介會我只聽了 2 次, 已經選定呎間學校, 其餘三次真係純去玩, 讓亞女愛上學校.  如果當初我去了咁多開放日後都得不到 offer, 我諗我唔會咁樣指責校方囉.  

你 in 過其他學校未?  我可以話你知, 大部份學校都係透過嗰十分鐘去選人的, 佢地選的都話要同佢地的教學理念一致的家長.  無錯, 無可否認, 短短十分鐘, 一定會睇錯人或睇漏人, 如果你咁唔好彩, 係被睇漏的其中一個, 我只能說很抱歉及很同情.  亦祝福你搵到一間你睇得上眼而又收你的學校.

btw, 有聽簡介會唔代表好有誠意, 冇聽簡介會的我又唔覺得好冇誠意喎.  但你之前一路指係貪呢間三四線學校冇人識, 覺得競爭細, 先報考.  當中亦唔見得你好有誠意囉.

chanwendy

我愛賴屎B 發表於 13-10-2 10:47
學校說一個月內必定知道收與不收，現10月了，為何要講大話呢？

我沒傷害學校，(反而它傷害我) 事實我問身 ...

你有冇問過學校到底寄晒信未先?  會唔會寄失咗呀?

你身邊冇人識, 可能你身邊人個個都只 target 名校, 咁咪唔識囉.  全港咁多學校, 唔識又有幾出奇啫, 我都係 08/09 先開始留意呢間學校啫.  嶺小轉直資都只係六七年的事, 多人唔識似乎好正常啫.

sandytaitai

我愛賴屎B 發表於 13-10-2 10:26
我會！
如果嶺小一早於9月中發信，我一定立即飛的士去交留位費！(小朋友是15分一族)

放假不准出街玩 ?????!!!!!!!
連C6也說我變態家長 !!!!!!!!

就我所知,嶺小的學生和家長不是這樣的. 或者這就是所謂的理念不同吧 !

chanwendy

sandytaitai 發表於 13-10-2 12:04
放假不准出街玩 ?????!!!!!!!
連C6也說我變態家長 !!!!!!!!

無錯, 以我所知, 我已經算係少出街玩的了, 我地唔係每個 weekend 都出街, 但我女幾乎所有同學仔放假都係出街玩的.

a_for_apple

原帖由 我愛賴屎B 於 13-10-02 發表
本帖最後由 我愛賴屎B 於 13-10-2 10:28 編輯

可能老師就係知道你咁嘅做法，更加覺得大家應該唔係好夾。有經驗嘅老師，5-10分鐘可能會睇漏小朋友，但應該就已經可以分得出合適嘅家長。

點解要咁執著大後備呢？如果你真心覺得間學校適合你小朋友而你又鐘意，點解要咁介意有幾多人識呢間學校？一，二線定三，四線？如果 DBS 嚮 8 月 31 號打俾你話收你，你又會唔會覺得自己係大後備而拒絶？你係咪真心為個仔揀間適合嘅學校？定揀間適合你去同人比較嘅學校呢？

如果你有睇舊年嘅 post，好多人好多 cert, 又醒又叻，都唔一定有 offer, 如果你接受唔到呢個事實，恐怕你呢一年都過得不易。

放鬆啲啦！小朋友仲細，咁樣佢好慘！

a_for_apple

原帖由 我愛賴屎B 於 13-10-02 發表
本帖最後由 我愛賴屎B 於 13-10-2 10:49 編輯

好明顯嶺小唔係你杯茶，收咗可能最後都唔讀，不如算吧！唔駛太執著

ricebb

我愛賴屎B 發表於 13-10-2 10:39
認同4月10日媽媽所說！
傾幾分鐘就知理念？心理學家？超人？

明白你的心情, 我相信你真的好用心培育你囝囝, 對面試亦做了很多準備, 所以希望學校會收也是好正常的. 可能你呢年競爭真的很大, 所以未必如你預期, 也不能怪學校只用十分鐘去判斷, 1000人考, 每人10分鐘, 都要1萬分鐘 (166小時), 老師校長工作量可想而知!  , 我猜你也不是只考一間, 這何嘗不是以學校做後備呢? 直資學校的遊戲規則就是如此, 不用太唔開心或氣餒, 小朋友可能有更好的offer在等他, 上天自有安排的.

上面的家長說得對, 嶺小家長比較和平樸實, 沒有鉤心鬥角, 大部份也能做到勝不驕, 敗不餒, 也不會要死讀書, 讀死書, 希望理念相同的家長都得到offer
考小學係辛苦的過程,  無論最終是否同一間學校, 都祝各位小朋友入讀適合的學校

sakesakee

原帖由 ricebb 於 13-10-02 發表
明白你的心情, 我相信你真的好用心培育你囝囝, 對面試亦做了很多準備, 所以希望學校會收也是好正常的. 可 ...

好贊同。
一間學校見小朋友之餘亦見埋家長, 點解呢, 讀書既係小朋友。
但如果只係睇小朋友既成績, 只會睇到面嗰層, 見埋家長, 會知道家長為咩而比小朋友入呢間學校, 先知小朋友適合之餘, 家長亦是。
無錯面試得幾分鐘的確係睇唔到啲乜, 但又或者家長們緊張自已小朋友而透露左平時係點注重小朋友既學術, 呢啲我諗唔係嶺小要既野。
我覺得嶺小係一間好包容既學校, 我囡無百般武藝, 証書都只係啲做義工或參加啲公開表演而已, 正如有家長話佢係間以學生為本既學校。
希望所有小朋友都搵到適合佢地既學校。

Darrenderek

回復 我愛賴屎B 的帖子

sigh...

If I were you, I would not take the offer, if any, from this School.  You will definitely be a wrong match.

You got "hurt" just because of the delay in the release of the admission result?

You didn't hurt others even if you keep trampling on the dignity of teachers/students/parents/etc. by classifying this school as 3rd/4th class?

In fact, based on your comments and responses, I personally would classify your type as a 5th class parent without any trace of "品".

As a matter of fact, I am quite impressed that the School didn't give you any offer.  They did a good job!

A lof of friends of mine have never heard of "弘立" either, so...? I bet you would say this is a different case.  Yes, it is different.  The biggest difference lies in people's integrity and atitude.  

p.s. just a friendly reminder, based on what you said about your son, it's really not worth mentioning.  It's just very common nowadays.  In fact, your son may not be as smart as you think.  Parents here are just trying to be humble and kind to you.  But, there is a limit in everything and I would like to reveal to you this brutal reality.  Please pardon my frankness.

My adivce: Pease make a re-assessment of your profile and move on.

Darrenderek

回復 我愛賴屎B 的帖子

Come on! Unless the session is deemed to be compulsary, no school would give extra marks to the candidates simply because they have attended the info session.  The benefit of attending the session is to let you understand the school better so that you may be able to answer their questions better, from the interview perspective.

So, as i said, just move on.  The Earth keeps spinning as always.

chanwendy

我愛賴屎B 發表於 13-10-3 13:40
你不可否定我，鄰居侄女無去OPEN DAY，就是第一批收了她！
當日在場的人不可能全部認識，至少可以證明學校 ...

正如我之前所講, 去開放日唔代表有誠意, 反之冇去亦唔代表冇誠意.  如果有去開放日的就要收, 咁多多位都唔夠啦, 開放日亦唔係唯一認識學校的途徑, 人家唔去開放日都可以從其他途徑得知呢間學校的情況, 從而判斷是否佢杯茶.  而學校重點亦不在於家長有冇去開放日啦.  學校收與唔收, 係取決於面試時的表現, 家長的態度.

Darrenderek

回復 我愛賴屎B 的帖子

You may try Chan's Creative, Lam Man Chan, Funful, etc.

There are only 56 seats in P1.  As many parents have pointed out, there may be about 1000 applicants this year.  let's say the school needs to give the offer letter to 168 candidates (3 times the total no. of seats; i am being conversative here, the actual no. should be less) all along in order to fill up the spaces.

168/1000 = 16.8%.

Around 80% of candidates will still be rejected.  

Lingnan is actually much more selective than you might expect.

bbq2008

這個世界可其多奇怪媽媽，連小朋友玩的「專利」也奪去！我想她的孩子真是苦了！希望這位媽媽早日回頭，讓孩子過回美好童年生活！

miriam

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sandytaitai

     The school was very helpful last year when I didn't get the confirmation letter . And they were kind enough to tell me the result over the phone after the so-called deadline for notification .
     There is no use holding grudge .........do something , find out the answer , and move on .
     If by now you still havent been told the result ......you have every right to ask . Chances are ..........you most probably won't register even if your little  boy's accepted , given how much grievances you have  towards Lingnan .
     Shouldn't you re-position yourself , give a big dose of positive energy which you and your son desperately need at times like this and be prepared for the upcoming  battles ahead of you ? Dwelling on the open day issue won't bring any differences , will it ?
     From what I heard , getting in a fairly well-received district school won't be easy this year !!!!!!!