如何培養「弱智」女兒入世界名校

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shadeslayer

原帖由 laorenjia 於 14-04-23 發表
本帖最後由 laorenjia 於 14-4-23 09:31 編輯

女兒大學幾個月前發生地下喉管爆炸，整個校園區停電了大半 ...

Wow, a full library every midnight?  do they have work life balance?

eviepa

//有網友喜歡「一勤天下無難事」這句說話，而女兒天生悲觀，則有呢句說話嘅悲觀版：「勤力就可以嘅話就唔叫做難啦」。//


世界事，往往欲速不達，拼命想孩子勤力，拼命催逼孩子勤力，往往孩子就會被逼到不願讀書。我一向有個理論，叫做：「家長常犯的錯誤：因加得減。」

其實想孩子勤力讀書，就要叫他們不要那麼勤力，要把握青春，多點去玩。

我弟弟升中四，我提出了一個他想像不到的懶惰讀書計劃，於是他就天天大玩特玩，只預留小許時間做功課讀書，結果成績突飛猛進，由中三時中下游成績而至最後入了港大。

這是個別例子？不。我在女兒還是讀小學時就鼓吹這一套。就像外資大行先唱好某隻股票，然後才入市一樣。結果，我女兒的讀書表現，和我所預料類似。


我女兒小學時，除了三次呈分試外，所有考試都完全不溫書，空鎗上陣。初中也是只讀小許就去考。

高中，我給她的指引是，英文繼續閱讀；時事照樣留意；繪畫之樂繼續享受；地理世史數學，除功課外，每科每周抽1.5小時溫習、計數。結果，高中三年還是吃喝玩樂，過著享受人生的生活。但，她肯定是全港top 10%最勤力的學生。

judy

除功課外，每科每周抽1.5小時溫習、計數。結果，高中三年還是吃喝玩樂，過著享受人生的生活。但，她肯定是全港top 10%最勤力的學生。

除功課外，每天花1.5小時溫習，真係好勤力。

laorenjia

shadeslayer 發表於 14-4-23 20:32
Wow, a full library every midnight?  do they have work life balance?

It has to do with the fact that only 2 or 3 libraries are still open at midnight. However, her university is famous for being academically vigorous. My daughter took a Korean class and one Monday the professor asked casually what the students had done over the weekend and almost everyone answered "studying". Nevertheless, the students still manage to have a lot of extracurricular activities. My daughter continued her voluntary work and became president of the branch of an international collegiate service organization at her university in her sophomore year. The students do work hard and play hard. Not to mention the holidays between the semesters when you can really let your hair down and do a lot of other things. This is what my daughter put in her updated cv, no. of countries visited during college: 32.

My daughter did hesitate to go to this university but she told me the other day she already started to miss the place although she's still there. The competition is fierce but the students are awesome. They do reach out to help each other. Though sounding a bit negative she said even the students coming from Hong Kong are amazing.

laorenjia

Mr Beast
女兒那一句潛台詞是有些事情，勤力都冇用。

judy

He said "weekly".

每科每星期1.5小時，讀7科，所以每天剛好1.5小時。

eviepa

//高中，我給她的指引是，英文繼續閱讀；時事照樣留意；繪畫之樂繼續享受；地理世史數學，除功課外，每科每周抽1.5小時溫習、計數。//

唔知我D分號用得啱唔啱，每科1.5小時只係指地理、世史、數學三科。

eviepa

judy,

其實妳所講嘅每日1.5小時雖不中亦不遠矣。阿女平均每日用幾多時間嚮讀書嗰度，連佢自己都好難估計。温地理歷史、做數、睇英文書就百分百係做學問。但係上Yahoo睇吓即時新聞、同同學吹吓有關時事嘅水、上畫班、自己劃吓畫、睇吓英文電影、睇吓中文小說就好難介定係唔係做緊學術活動。

無論如何，佢呢三年來有好多時間做喜歡做嘅嘢，從來都唔覺得辛苦。

shadeslayer

原帖由 laorenjia 於 14-04-24 發表
It has to do with the fact that only 2 or 3 libraries are still open at midnight. However, her unive ...

Fair enough. The university terms/semesters are quite short anyway.

This goes to show that selection of schools including university is very important.

laorenjia

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唔記得多謝你問候添，對不起。

laorenjia

Sumyeema1 發表於 14-4-23 12:03
最喜愛老人家講故事

多謝美言。之前csy_ma及一些網友提議過我弄一個博格，好讓文字不會消失。想來想去，自己生性懶散，也就作罷。自己的文字其實一文不值（唔通會有人俾—文睇—睇）。就像女兒所說的，老人院的老人家有人聽佢地講故仔就已經好開心了。

eviepa

//mimi1102  請問你女兒, 怎樣由小一時數學極差, 到今天數學全班第一? 如果之前你有貼已經提過, 麻煩你轉貼給我//

<另類數學培養>
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum ... ead&tid=2696373

laorenjia

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My daughter just sent me a WhatsApp saying she witnessed a naked run in the main library minutes before midnight tonight, a tradition in their university during the dead week （the week before final exams at US universities）. I guess this is one of the ways the students release the pressure.

annie40

少年人有点狂, 才是不枉啊! 星期四晚读书...........上星期四又是读书, 上上星期如上, 如上如上..............究竟人生还有否新意? naked run 又刺激又要顶得住寒冷, 减压完 明天加油.

shadeslayer

原帖由 laorenjia 於 14-05-09 發表
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My daughter just sent me a WhatsApp saying she witnessed a naked run in the ...

Thanks for sharing. Fun.  I hope she did not just 'witnessed' the tradition.

Sms111

等待中......

sissysze

Daddle

講講吓吾講，好吊引喎！不過我認為樓主女兒是假弱智，真資優，学游水或其他活動差不等於學習書本智識差，正如佢女兒說：I went to one of the best school in Hong Kong 就知la! 重系近头1/3添，足以証明la,須知一個人會每方面都叻的,她成績好(自認的)，已经令萬人善慕了!