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阿女"慢吞吞"型, my girl same type as well!!
Do you observe exceptional situations in daily life?
Her eating habit is 慢吞吞 at home, but is very "normal" when eating Japanese food
Also my girl has concentration issues, as the understanding of instructions has barrier, then her action will slow down.
Teachers who understand this kind of kid, will not label them as "lazy" or "unmotivated", but will help them to cope with learning through giving structured and clear instructions. Teachers do not understnad them will put them into a catergory of "slow", "bad learning attitude"
My coping skills:
1) I accept this is part of her learning characteristics, do not compare her with othre "quick kids" (actually, my son is very quick in doing all kinds of learning)
2) Believe that she can learn meaningfulling in certain ways that suitable for her, which need parents and teachers' collective efforts.
3) Understand that she will face stress when most of the class are "quick" and teachers may be frustrated at her "slowness".
4) Talk to the class teacher, made her understand the situations, share with her my strategies at home that work for her, e.g. repeat instructions, clear and short instructions
5) Sometimes teacher use very complicated sentences to ask kid questions, of course kids will not respond as they are kids, not mini adults.
So, first of all, as a mom, we should completely stand by child's side, to support , to understand. Because, all others will use a "standard" to understand these children, to compare these kids with all other kids at the class. These kids actually facing stress that they cannot verbalize at their young age.
I am being a mum with two kids with a totally different styles of learning. I understand very well how the teachers or peers or parents respond to these two kids differently in a really diverse ways. Smart kids allways receive all kinds of "advantages" and all kinds of school resources. "Slow kids" always being labelled as "lazy", "not right", but how many teachers are willing to take some time to understand and to listen to these kids' difficulties!!!
原帖由 Yanamami 於 11-11-1 22:14 發表 
阿女"慢吞吞"型, 睇怕我要欣賞下佢"慢活"既態度. 佢一定比我長命.... |
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發表於 11-10-27 08:32
所以我都唔知有什麼問題. 
Only the people around/ I got frustrated.
