有冇人家有關資優兒??

veronna

Sorry, 詞不達意添, 嚇親你添. DR. TANG係幫亞仔做TEST果個鄧博士, 唔係醫生黎架. 亞仔冇做共振, 只不過係test 結果佢左腦(言語) 及右腦(操作)分數有好大差別, 所以好多野

HelenMrs.Lau

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veronna 寫道:
Sorry, 詞不達意添, 嚇親你添. DR. TANG係幫亞仔做TEST果個鄧博士, 唔係醫生黎架. 亞仔冇做共振, 只不過係test 結果佢左腦(言語) 及右腦(操作)分數有好大差別, 所以好多野

hinhei

我不知你講的是否我講的彭生,不過佢係做兒童評做的.......
因我個仔的表姐以前係佢度做嘢,若你要電話等,PM我,我幫你問啦!

HelenMrs.Lau 寫道:
DEAR veronna :
你曾提過彭生(教育心理學家)，請問怎樣可以聯絡到呢      謝謝！！！！
ＦＲＯＭ：ＨＥＬＥＮ

mickeywinnie3

hi!  各位家長:
我都唔知我小朋友係唔係資優兒, 但斑主任叫我帶佢cheak

smalle

u can join the gifted group on yahoo....if u finish this topic, u know where to go .

HelenMrs.Lau

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mickeywinnie3 寫道:
hi!  各位家長:
我都唔知我小朋友係唔係資優兒, 但斑主任叫我帶佢cheak

mickeywinnie3

smalle ,
我唔知呀??  可否話我聽呀!!!!

smalle

mickeywinnie go to join that group la...u can read more informations
http://hk.groups.yahoo.com/group/yourgiftedgroup

mickeywinnie3

smalle ,
thank a lot!!
mickeywinnie

CCT

我想大部份小朋友記性都好,在大人指導下更smart.
我朋友個女剛2.5yrs,已識全部"春曉", "床前明月光, . . ","白日依山 . . .", "燕詩 - 樑上有雙燕 .. . .",部分"满江紅", and etc .....
but make an appointment to test children should be good, parents no need to wonder anymore. If yes, pay more effort, if no, pay more and more effort on them 吧!

Tiffiny

唔好意思，我近排好唔開心，比我o係度宣洩下好嗎？

我個仔已經十一歲，由歲半開始就由我一手一腳湊大，是關佢真係好難湊，bb時已經成日唔訓覺，攪到係人都怕左佢，適逢我地要去澳洲坐移民監，所以自己湊翻! 到兩年幾後入左籍，咁o岩老爺病到七彩，兩個月做左兩次手術，無人照顧佢，咁我就同老公返香港照顧佢喇!仔仔當時三歲幾，亦剛好可以讀幼稚園，點知惡夢就開始。

由k1開始，次次見家長我都比老師鬧到喊，話我個仔雖現成績好，但上堂好唔專心，好多事，攪亂晒秩序，成日出位，咁我當時已經好唔開心，因為我自問由細到大都知佢難教，所以我好比心機同佢傾計，講道理，我唔係無負責任，反而係用晒我所有時間同精神去教佢，咁我真係唔知仲可以點。

到後來小一，去健康院檢查，我同醫生講我個仔的情況，我話唔知佢係咪過度活潑症，我真係好辛苦，於是醫生轉介左我個仔去做評估，點知結果話係資優，我果時仲擔心，因為當時"馮漢柱"唔再做，而佢學校又講明唔會有乜跟進，自己經濟又唔好，要顧埋老爺頭家，每個月幫佢交租都要5，6千蚊，仲邊有閒錢比個仔用，想翻出去做野，個仔又話唔要姊姊，要媽媽湊，自己又怕個仔比人教仲死，如是者每次見家長都比老師話，連同平日大大小小o既投訴，真係令我覺得無晒出路。

一直捱到個仔小三，老爺過左身，經濟壓力小左，思前想後，覺得係咁落去唔係辦法，於是同老公相量，不如帶翻個仔返澳洲讀書，希望比到一個適合佢o既地方佢成長。基本上老公非常同意，但佢放棄唔到香港o既事業，所以最後，我自己一個人帶左個仔返澳洲，到步後，果邊學校話呀仔可以跳班，於是比佢由小三跳到小五，由於兩地教育唔同，接受小朋友學習態度都有好大分別，呀仔讀得好開心，我亦從未試過耳根可以咁清靜，但兩年後，老公依然放棄唔到佢o既事業，因為真係發展得好好，加上個仔主動要求我，話想返香港同daddy一齊，佢當時同我講：[媽咪，一個family無左daddy就唔可以叫做family!]，咁我話：[仔呀，返香港讀書你會好辛苦o架喎!] 咁呀仔就答我：[媽咪我唔怕辛苦，我最多比心機d喇!]

就係咁，等呀仔學期尾，我地就返左香港，而當時我真係唔知應該點幫個仔搵學校，佢o係澳洲已經讀完小六，返香港點好呢？ 主流學校一定唔o岩佢，咁o岩又有d新理直資學校出現，咁我咪惟有幫佢試囉! 到最後終於有一間收左佢插班讀中一，但我心知佢成績一定唔會好，因為佢只得香港小三程度，即使英文唔太落後，但中，數都好難追，雖然話係資優，但唔等如係超人，所以我都心裡有數。

唉! 點知惡夢又開始，兩個星期就收到三個不同老師的投數，又係唔專心，態度唔好，攪爛同學物件咁，我問個仔點解會咁，佢話控制唔到自己，我同佢講媽咪真係知點幫佢好! 我成日同佢傾計，日日問佢學校有無事發生，佢都話無野，問佢係咪唔明上堂老師講乜，佢又話明，真係攪到我頭都大晒，好彩d老師好明白事理，當我解釋左個仔o既情況，佢地全部都話：[ 哦! 原來佢咁細個，咁我地明喇!不過佢都要留意下d態度，成績都係其次!]

我已經同佢班主任講左，話佢因為之前跳左兩班，返o黎又係插班，年紀又細，佢12月出世，而家先得11歲，我話可唔可以比佢留班，比多個機會佢，咁老師話只可以轉達比校長知，要由校長決定，但係我真係好擔心佢d操行，真係好怕校長唔會考慮我o既要求，比人踢走，就唔知點好。

我好有挫敗感，覺得自己好無用，教到個仔咁，又帶佢走黎走去，係咪我o既錯？

faith

Dear Tiffiny:
        我現在也為兒子的問題煩惱，雖不肯定他是否資優。
      如果你不介意，可否把你在這兒發表的文章再copy到
      http://hk.groups.yahoo.com/group/yourgiftedgroup/
      與大家分享，而且我也剛貼上有關我兒子的問題，雖然可能
     無人回應，但寫出來總可以抒發下...... )，不過見到你的辛苦，
    我也很害怕，將來可能發生的事。
   
     faith
     

Tiffiny

Dear faith,

其實真係好懷疑當日有無評估錯，真係好辛苦，人地唔知仲以為我地做呀媽好開心，湊著呢d細路，真係有苦自己知，成日比人以為我地無家教，咁多年黎我咩野難聽o既說話都聽過，只有"good"一聲吞左算數，惟有時時鼓勵自己唔好放棄，比d心機，好在老公明白同支持。

講真我係好驚，唔知個仔幾時先肯定性，教佢真係死好多細胞，但係唔通唔理佢咩？但係每次老師打比我，真係會好想死，好想搵個窿捐落去，最慘自己唔係無盡力，真係乜都試過，你話仲可以點？ 唉...........................

smalle

辛苦大家啦,

faith , 我諗園囡好可能是HSP,
昨天佢參加了一合個供開天才大賽, 是學校推薦的, 她輸了,得不到奘杯,即場大哭, 還把奘牌丟到垃圾桶....擾攘了成半個鐘,週圍D人都望住我地, 真係好失禮....以後都唔知比唔比佢參加比賽好.

HelenMrs.Lau

dear Tiffiny,
舊年做過兩次評估，我阿女都係certified gifted，衣家讀緊主流小學3年級，成績好但操行差，終日比老師投訴，同你仔仔一樣。
其實我都覺得國際學校o既活動教學對阿女會好d，但因為經濟問題為有放棄！
我都一日比老師話到面懵懵∼∼∼真係嘔血！

Tiffiny

Dear HelenMrs.Lau,

真係好慘，成日驚有電話。其實你有無留意過你女女通常比人投訴d乜？講真我係覺得我個仔太好奇，乜都想知，想睇，但係成日o係唔適當時候做，好似老師話佢出位，細個時先生就話佢太鐘意幫人，攪到上唔到堂，而家就太八掛，成日睇人d筆袋，最慘佢唔可以專心，一有風吹草動就第一個有反應，咪比人鬧最多囉，但係講極都係咁，真係無晒佢辦法。我係度諗緊係咪我要去上course，學下點教佢好。

至於國際學校，一來學費太貴，可以供樓咁滯，而且我有朋友d仔女讀緊，一樣有問題，並唔係我地諗得咁好，所以我無考慮。其實我覺得最緊要教識我仔仔守規矩，你知啦，第日出黎做野，無人會就你，你唔識同人相處，蝕抵就係自己。

我發洩左已舒服了很多，起碼你會明我感受。

gigi2

Tiffany,

In case you want to talk with Dr. Leung and the following are his contact details:

Tel no.: 2136 1591
Email : [email protected]

For your information, Dr. Leung’s son is also gifted whose IQ is over 147 which beyond all current IQ tests can be detected .

If you want to have another choice, you may try Dr. Kwok who got double doctorates in HK and USA respectively for child psychology:

HK Institute of Children's Mental Health

I want to stress that I'm not selling any service for the above.   But I believe the cost charged by Dr. Kwok will be cheaper as the former one with more exposures and a celebrity in the market.

cchp

gigi2

你是否曾找Dr Leung or Dr Kwok做評估，可否詳述一下評估過程及收費等?

gigi2

We did not try any service from Dr. Leung but an assessment was made by Dr. Kwok at his Centre 2 months ago.  Well, it was the International standard test of Autism used by Dr. Kwok.  Based on the testing, parents would be asked numerous questions by Dr. Kwok for understanding the children's behaviours.  As a result, he would rate and count the figures at last in order to find out the level of autism or nothing.   Dr. Kwok would observe the children performance during the test.  The whole process lasted for 1.5 hours.  However, you have to take into account that the ages of your children which might have different ways of assessment as my girl was only 2 yrs 8 mths at the moment of testing.  The charges from Dr. Kwok for my case is HK$900.

You may browse his website to see the provision of his services to children as well as family.  Both Dr. Leung and Dr. Kwok will provide the IQ assessments to young kids.

cchp

gigi2

Thanks for your info