05年入讀主流小學的障礙兒童家長~請進!!

bandband

我都諗住係咁,總好過連試都唔試既... 我醒啩...     

AGNESNG 寫道:
試o下先o羅! 一見唔對路就好收油la. (你醒o架啦

mrsphcheung

Dear Stella,
You are right.  剛開學好忙好忙好忙, 所以近來少上o黎...  I go home very very late in this month e.g. I had my late dinner at 9:00 p.m. last week.  

I feel that my son is very insufficient in terms of academic performance, attention, communication skill and social skill.  Just hope that he can get well-equipped for P.1 in 2007.  My son always asks me when he can go to P.1.  I just cheat him that he will go to another school to study P.1 preparatory class before going to P.1.  As he is not really very 心水清, he accepts my lie.      

bandband

STELLA,

其實今日我都收到稚言治語既PM,佢都認為一星期三次太多喇,我都係PREFER佢一星期一次,但我大佬企硬話要一星期三次,仲要每堂個半鐘,唉...所以我都求番個中間位,俾我大佬試吓先,如果有唔對路我至減少堂數,始終我唔能夠肯定一星期三堂真係成效不大嘛!只係作為一個母親,真係擔心個仔太辛苦捱唔住...

查實我個仔並唔係日日都係放學番屋企就昏迷,只係我眼見依家個仔已經好辛苦,無乜時間休息同玩,同埋佢都仲响學校生活適應期,所以我唔敢太迫佢,佢真係攰到瞓低,我都唔想叫醒佢,寧願佢啲功課我第二日補番俾老師,都總好過啲壓力嚇怕咗個仔,搞到佢又逃避甚至又放棄自己(個職業治療師咁樣話佢),乜都唔願學啦...依家至緊要都係培養番佢學習情緒,至少我同老師都易教好多,幸好佢學校啲老師同班主任個個都好體諒佢,又肯用心去搵方法教佢功課,否則,真係單憑我一個人既力量,我真係教佢唔掂.

放心啦!我明白大家既心意,我亦知我係一個極度硬頸過度主見既人,只要我知自己做緊啲乜,我相信,我會好好教養到囝囝既~!

我依家都PLAN緊個新TIME TABLE俾個仔,始終依家連我都未完全適應到,搞到家吓都有啲亂(時間編排),所以真係要諗個好既時間表,等我同個仔又易做到,仔仔又有時間去玩去學習去休息,咁到時我地都更加容易適應小學生活.

今日個仔都好乖呀~!我用糖果利誘佢,佢都好乖好用心咁練琴,之後頭先我帶佢去學琴,個老師話佢今日好醒目好乖,自己填哂啲音符,完全唔駛老師幫,所以老師都叫我買啲嘢奬勵吓佢,我諗住聽日帶佢去買小玩具,等個仔開心吓!

stellacl 寫道:
bandband,

我其實一開始已經講我同意joey媽媽同埋kmwun講, 每星期一次言語治療應該已足夠, 加上小學有其他功課要做, 而且現階段亦係適應期...不過點都好, 你既決定, 我一定尊重 & 支持, 希望仔仔有好發展 !

我明白你既諗法, 係呢度既媽咪都係同路人, 不會有紛爭or誤會, 只會有互相鼓勵 & 互相支持, 係咪     

另外, 你仔仔可能未適應小學生活, 如果比佢一返屋企就 小休一粒鐘 (or 2粒鐘然後慢慢減), 再wake him up去做功課 & 食飯, 會唔會好d ? 始終一食完飯就訓到第2朝都唔係辦法架 其他媽咪有無好提議 ?

mrsphcheung

Dear Stella,
Me too.

You are right.  I must talk to my son's teacher about the matter of P.1 allocation first.  My son is very curious about which primary schools his classmates will study.  

My office hour is 7:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.  I often work at home when my son goes to bed.  無收工時間, always唔夠訓, 面青青, 唔搽粉&唇膏唔見得人.  Most of the people (except those extremely efficient 高人 & bad sheep) in my field are working like this.  呻完啦!!!

想問下點解靜係我地呢個topic, 需要用 cursor move 去右邊小小, 先可以睇晒成個 page d內容既     點解其他topic唔會甘既 ???   

你地有這情況出現嗎 ? 定係我個monitor太細 ?

bandband

依家我已經覺得好多功課喇~~~!!!我個仔寫字太慢,學又慢,頭先我淨係教佢寫個GOOD字,都已經用咗我成粒鐘~~!!!星期二默書仲要考八句英文咁多,真係未必教得哂~!聽朝我諗住叫個仔做完其他科目啲功課先,到晏晝出完街玩,番到屋企至再教多兩三個英文字,就算默書識唔哂,至少都寫都兩三個英文嘛!起碼佢都有學到嘢又有努力過~~~!!

至於治療嗰邊,我照俾大佬試吓一星期三次先啦,當了大家既心事啦...

我個仔都係一時時架咋~~~!!!頭先如果唔係有糖利誘佢,我相信佢連一粒音都唔願彈得啱俾我聽,又是話自己係周杰倫响度亂Q咁彈~~~!!!今日都算唔錯架喇~~~!!!始終都要又氹又迫咁教個仔,個仔先至乖乖地去學去練...我同你都努力啦...我今日都忙咗一日LU~~~!!!     

stellacl 寫道:
bandband,

1.  每星期3次...做任何類型既訓練都會攰啦, 何況每次個半鐘喎, 加上你仔仔呢排玩渴睡...我就唔多睇好喇...不過每星期一次就真係唔少得lor.

2.  比小朋友訓多d係好架, 如果佢可以早到1-2個鐘起身, 都重可以朝早做到功課, 反正而家d功課量未算多, 遲d就難講...

3.  嘻嘻...認識你一段時間, 都深信呢個係事實 ...做父母既有邊個唔緊張自己仔女架, 尤其係我地呢類仔女, 我相信你一定做得到 !

4.  時間表...我而家都set緊, 你一個都好, 我有2個, 經過3星期自己湊佢地, 我發覺有需要plan時間表, 我自己都有d亂...

5.  你就好啦, 我今日先啱啱話完個仔唔肯練琴, 搞到爸爸都忍唔住鬧佢... :evil:

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bandband 寫道:
STELLA,

1.  ...都認為一星期三次太多喇,我都係PREFER佢一星期一次,但我大佬企硬話要一星期三次,仲要每堂個半鐘,

2.  ...佢真係攰到瞓低,我都唔想叫醒佢,寧願佢啲功課我第二日補番俾老師

3.  ...我亦知我係一個極度硬頸過度主見既人,...我會好好教養到囝囝既~!

4.  我依家都PLAN緊個新TIME TABLE俾個仔,

5.  今日個仔好乖好用心咁練琴...

bandband

查實大家仲未答我問題,究竟學校收咗政府兩皮嘢之後,你地學校有咩支援俾個仔?因為我要同囝囝學校社工傾,如果真係無乜,我打算唔去申請,費時塞錢俾學校白賺...

kmwun

10月2號同16號。今日個場俾人包左，原本補係9號，不過因為俊希要返蕊展，大家就佢16號至上。

bandband 寫道:
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AGNESNG 寫道:
Joeymama, Kmwun, Bandband & ALAL

囝囝上完溜冰堂未呀? 仲有幾多呀?

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kmwun

bandband

但係我覺得唔申請就一定無，申請左都有個機會呀！

bandband 寫道:
查實大家仲未答我問題,究竟學校收咗政府兩皮嘢之後,你地學校有咩支援俾個仔?因為我要同囝囝學校社工傾,如果真係無乜,我打算唔去申請,費時塞錢俾學校白賺...

bandband

咁我想知大家現時係有乜支援嘛,因為就係早兩日個學校社工打嚟,佢乜叉都話無,話就算收到舊錢,學校頂多幫我個仔調去特殊班而已...完全同舊錢唔'la'更,我見佢九唔答八,所以叫佢問清楚學校,係咪真係收到舊錢都唔用先?!,所以我咪趁佢未打嚟廢up前,我想知清楚大家咁多間學校家吓收咗政府錢之後,究竟有咗啲咩支援俾你,等我到時可以大吓間學校同社工,等佢做嘢嘛~~~!!^^:[size=xx-large]我唔係一定唔要呀~~~~~~~!!!咁無理由人地講到明舊錢一蚊都唔用落我個仔度,我都照申請照送錢俾人白逗架?????     

kmwun 寫道:
bandband

但係我覺得唔申請就一定無，申請左都有個機會呀！

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bandband 寫道:
查實大家仲未答我問題,究竟學校收咗政府兩皮嘢之後,你地學校有咩支援俾個仔?因為我要同囝囝學校社工傾,如果真係無乜,我打算唔去申請,費時塞錢俾學校白賺...

[/quote][size=xx-large]請各位留意問題(我問緊乜)...!!!

大家請睇睇自己點答我啲問題;

1.啱啱我係想問---
[size=small]我去麥當勞買嘢食,我問收銀員:"如果我有廿蚊,我可以買到啲乜嘢?"
[size=medium]收銀員答我:"乜都唔會有,剩係俾位你坐咋,唔會有嘢食!"
為咗同呢間餐廳個經理理論,我見隔離隊啲朋友又係俾廿蚊已經有個餐有埋嘢飲,仲坐低响度食添!咁我咪走埋去問佢地點解會有同埋廿蚊有啲乜嘢食...

但朋友竟然答:"塞咗錢就可能有,唔塞錢就一定無"

(咁如果係咁,我都可以食其他嘢嚟醫肚既...做乜明明無嘢食,都俾廿蚊m記???)


問題二: [size=medium]我一星期食足三餐自助餐,每餐個半鐘,食到連工都唔番兩日,咁我會唔會食得多得滯甚至連工都無得做?一星期食兩次好?定係食一星期食一次已經夠?

朋友們竟然答:"[size=medium]你唔好咁抗拒食嘢啦!唔食嘢你會害死咗你自己架!

我都無話唔食,我都認為自助餐一星期食一次已經夠,其他時間我會一日三餐正常均衡飲食嘛....只係一星期三餐自助餐太多...想問吓大家意見啫...

大家有無發現大家仲有啲九唔答八之嫌... 駛唔駛做個訓練先~~~!!! 我明白大家心意!但係真係唔該各位俾心機睇我講乜問乜,正路少少答我啲問題...        好似大家一個講緊中文,一個聽唔明,答咗其他唔la更答案,唔止一個人出現咁既問題喇,如有得罪,希望大家見諒和明白....     

mrsphcheung

Dear Stella,
唉! 我而家似丫烏, 母夜叉!!!  

Dear Bandband,
唔使勞氣!  Many principals are 講一套, 做一套.  I know some well-known 融合小學 which don't use the money or just use part of the money on our children.  Some principals just use the money for purchasing books, computer aids, teaching aids, etc.  有機會塞錢俾學校白賺. 濫用資源是教育界的大問題, if there is 無投訴, 教統局也無法跟進.  家長只有自求多福, 希望遇到好老師&好校長.  因為如此, 我要求囝囝很高, 希望個仔不用依賴學校, .  

wewangwang

bandband

其實各位都說一星期一次training 都夠.

我反而想問, 是否3堂都是言語治療, or 一堂ST, 一堂OT, 一堂小組 等等.......如果是train 不同範疇的話又不同講法,不過3堂真是太多,仲要去北角,請假又影響學業,有冇同你大佬傾過.如果 是3堂不同,可隔次上不同TRAINING,但ST 就KEEP 住一星期一次.

另外,個言語治療師可評估咁多野 (自閉傾向, 過度活躍,
學習障礙,空間感弱.....)??? 好少呀wor   

Mrs.cheung,

<<你好搞笑...見你幾次, 你d皮膚都好滑靜丫, 一d都唔覺得你 "唔夠訓, 面青青" 喎... ..... 無計...有時人工同工作時間係相輔相成既    >> agree.

你仔都唔係咁差,at least the assessment shows no speech delay, 你是否要求高, 我仔雖說讀小學,都好'屎'呀咋.

Stella,

Your son learn violin and piano, I want too but not enough time to practice both.  :cry:

我會同個仔報校際音樂節,你有冇興趣?

mrsphcheung

Dear Wewangwang,
According to my s.t., your son's progress is very good.  He told me that your son could apply all the things that he learnt from the previous lessons.  Your son has potential to develop better.  


You may be right.  I am a demanding & picky mom.  I always feel that my son is not good enough.  

Forget about the s.t. assessment.  My boy tried two assessments in this summer, one from the school's s.t. and the other one from my private s.t.  The first one reported that his expression was one year ahead, but comprehension half year delay.  The second one reported that his comprehension was one year ahead, but expression was half year delay.  It seems to be a bit contradictory.  On the average (according to these assessments), he could be more or less age appropriate.  In reality, his communicate ability and story telling skill are still very weak.