好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gigi2

Hi,

Glad to see everyone got improvement recently.  Feel quite blue these several days and exhausted with job….no motivation to write long message…
:-|  

HayBMum

hi all mummy,

just have not visited BK for a week>>many many messages.

Mickeyma, very glad to see yu's improvement.  you are a very hardworking mum. Hope this will not be long for the rest of mummy.

hinhinmummy, hinhin is good woh!!  I specially appreciate his sense of humour.  Very lovely boy.

kakab: I had same experience as you before. Last year, two school rejected my son's application only because I told them his problem.  In fact, I think one of the school will accept him if they know nothing about him because he performed quite well during the interview (very simple: just ask him to fix the puzzle and use key to open door).  I regreted to tell them my son's problem.  But as what other mummy said, it will be even worse if they later on find his problem and do not have kind hearts and experience to deal with him.  

let me update my son's progress:
he speaks a lot recently.  He likes to "order" you to do the things but always repeats the order, eg. mummy drink soup, mummy put on shoes...  You need to respond him otherwise he will repeat it again & again.  Sometimes it is quite exhausted to answer him.  Anyone has idea how to handle?  

His eye contact has been improved but still far behind the normal kids at his age.  He can look at the family members proactively when he is playing with us.  However, his eye contact is still poor to strangers.  

He knows how to answer simple questions but not yet ready for those complicated questions, eg. did you have your breakfast this morning?  What did you have for breakfast? etc.

I agree with mickeyma & hinhinmummy that our kids do know how to love.  However, they are not easy to express their love.

hinhinmummy

haybmum

真係心仔仔都有進步.

gigi2

公司有事? 不好不開心, 有mug事講出黎會舒服d.

gigi2

Yes.  Battling happened in the workplace every day and the games of office politics is getting worse.  Sometimes, I wonder why somebody enjoy arguing fiercely in the next forum of BK and they seem do not feel tired about this during working hours? :-|

hoho1105

for all:
早幾日打電話去优德問吓聲氣,今日收到電話,話28號可幫我仔見醫生做評估,好開心呀,但又好緊張.

hinhinmummy

gigi2

辦公室政治幾時都係好惡頂, 我由出道到依家都係在大公司度做, 一路都見慣呢d大埸面, 亦曾經做過政治'氣'性品, 自從黎左呢間公司之後, 已經看化, 人不犯我, 我不犯人, 從不理會其他人的野, 只做自己事, 樂得清閒, 有人鍾意搶功, 有人鍾意a字膊, 只要做好自己本份就算, 我本著, 不鍾意我就抄我, 只要賠足錢比我就可以.  點樣的心態, 反而做左10年.

hoho

做完評估, 記住上黎update我們, 記住無論評估成點, 都看開d(touch wood).

hinhinmummy

尋晚臨同軒軒陪訓之前, 諗住去埋洗手間先, 點知個傻豬自己走左入房, 又不見我, 喊住出黎搵我, 搵到去洗手間, 敲門講'開門', 我即刻開門比佢

hoho1105

hinhinmummy :
做完評估我一定會同大分享,我知至少有妳常常係到會比回應我.

gigi2:
做嘢遇到人事問題,到到都有,唔好咁在意啦.......咁會好唔開心,日日返工更難頂,咁咪滿足咗d小人.妳能面對到,妳的功力又加深咗lu

mickeyma

Gigi2,

I have the same thinking and technique in handling the office politics as Hinghingmummy. And I worked here for nearlly 10 years as well.  
And I have a very good way to adjust myself while encountering unhappiness during working. I tell myself: Here is not my destiny.  I must save my energy on the most important thing: my sweet family and my lovely kids!   :  Then I feel much better and have much EQ to take care.

hinhinmummy

hoho

無辨法, 公司實在太清閒, 無mug野做, 就黎地震, 都不知會不會震埋我, 如果係的話就賠返d錢比我, 疊埋心水返屋企主力湊軒軒好過啦.

gigi2

Thank you for all moms.  I also agree that office politics everywhere but I really hate to handle these but it is inevitable I know!  These several years I have learnt a lot of ‘tricky’ things but those all are not my favourites!  It is good to have here for venting out my blue!

Do you know what is my dream?  I dream to run orphans houses to take care very small kids especially newborns or if available I wanted to be an adopted child family.  I like to take care children especially those who are lack of loves from families.  Am I crazy? Ha……
    

kakab105

hinhinmummy

嘻嘻 我都成日發夢 諗 ~~ 公司炒我 賠番少少比我 我就番歸 湊仔 湊番一年半載先~~

mickeyma

Gigi2,

Not crazy at all. If you run orphans houses, I could be a good helper.. :

gigi2

Mickeyma,

Not a good helper! You should be my good partner!  Currently I fulfill 1/1000000000….infinitive of my dream through donation and be a supporter of World vision.

hinhinmummy

gigi2, mickeyma

你們有無買六合彩? 我以前不買, 依家耐不耐有大獎就會買, 雖然知道基督徒不可以賭博, 但實在想發下白日夢, 有一日訓醒, 有好多好多錢, 去實現自己的夢想, 到時我們一齊攪呢間孤兒院?

不過我覺得辦一間專收a仔的學校/協會, 類似協康的會好d.

還要係海邊, 比d小朋友感受下涼風, 係沙灘漫步, 不理世上的人歧視的眼光, 自由地生活.

lin lin.....醒啦, 開工啦.

gigi2

Good idea! but....locate it along the seaside which recalled me the Tsunami.  Those poor kids were drowned!  Built it away from the coast is safer.  

Dreaming is a tool of relaxing!


[quote]不過我覺得辦一間專收a仔的學校/協會, 類似協康的會好d.
[quote]還要係海邊, 比d小朋友感受下涼風, 係沙灘漫步, 不理世上的人歧視的眼光, 自由地生活.

mickeyma

I nearlly want to throw away all the quotes, meeting report and go with two of you to plan our future dreams...     
However, need to have meeting again with boss soon..   :-|

HelenMrs.Lau

大家一齊發下〔發達夢〕喇     
琴晚我隻老都話如果發左達都會捐一大筆錢比HEEP HONG做營運基金，HEEP HONG真係辦得好好！教得阿仔幾好！
    

hinhinmummy 寫道:
不過我覺得辦一間專收a仔的學校/協會, 類似協康的會好d.

st

Dear all,

I come up to report my girl's progress.

After a few mths training from the private ST and the power of the DHA pill, my girl starts to speak la.

She now can speak very well of some single words:包包,爸爸 媽媽, 姐姐 ,伯伯, Bye ,雞, 雞旦, 百佳,唔 Etc.

She Occationally speak : 要, 切 , Okay, 香蕉 ,E, Etc.

During the lessons of the private st, she speak more than I can expected, Last time I burst into tears ( but the teacher thought I have a cold)

BTW: I totally agreed with yours day dreaming, If my father / mother win the 六合彩, I will donated a huge money to Heep Hong too.

ST

12312

昨天,協康打電話比我話 1/2 OR 22/2 可以上第一堂啦, 好開心,可以"省"D 錢. 同埋個姑娘問了我好多野,  想了解小朋友多D, 是平時 5點,  咁囝囝不使成日走堂不返學啦.
另外, 昨晚, BABA 按住囝囝, 囝囝景然說 : STOPPING, ( 英文的) (字正康完) , 一個好意外, 吾通囝囝D英文好過英文, (另一次, 囝囝看完 英文 卡通片 "OSMO" 景然說 D "OSMO" 話, D 語氣好似, 我同BABA 都有其鳴.
HINHINMUMMY:
公司吾要你, 味返去照顧ＨＩＮＨＩＮ羅, 最緊要經濟上沒有問題. 我成日都想返家, 照顧個囝, 但經濟又吾容許.