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didima

wumma:
謝謝你的分享,今白剛去完小兒學校(今天是家長日),大致上老師說囝囝中規中矩
我心裹的排位與老公不同,我覺得未試過點知唔得,但老公說是由囝囝性格去睇,佢話唔一定讀名校,其實兩間都難入,DBSPD又waiting ,所以很煩
didima

didima

yk:
若你有機會見倒囝囝隻手,你也不忍心要佢繼續,囝囝也學了1年才停体操,佢自己要求學的其他,現在仍然學得好好,体操是他唯一要求唔學的
囝囝學日文同學蝶式時,佢雖然覺得難同倦,就因老師鼓勵,囝囝終於克服
可能我唔識教,見佢咁,我唔忍心,或者我太保護佢,anyway,thanks your sharing
didima

WYmom

didma,

I think sometimes we don't really know what our kids are interested at initially, we just let them try a lot of things.  For some activities, they may ask to quit.  I don't think that we have to force them to continue as we want, I will let them choose which activities they want to continue.  

My elder girl also asked to quit her ballet when she encountered difficulties after she learnt for half a year at K3.  She was very unhappy at that time, I let her quit.  After half a year further, she asked me to let her learn ballet again when she grew larger.  Now she is learning very well and enjoy very much.  So I think you don't need to worry too much.  I believe your son will be happy to learn gymnastics again if he really likes it.

beseem2003

Philipwhau 寫道:
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beseem2003 寫道:

EPGY？我大仔都讀緊，佢有個同學同佢一齊讀，上次補考唔得，停半年後最近再考過，點知竟然又唔得，其實那同學停學期間老豆一直有幫他補數，他老豆是讀數的，之後忠告我阿仔考試小心Ｄ，一停左就好麻煩，而家佢又要等多半年，夾埋就一年了。

beseem2003,

My son has just completed EPGY Grade 4 Maths.  How about your son?  

Who sat for the re-examination?  Your son? or your son's classmate?

Indeed, my son could do all the assignments under my guidance and could understand most of the concepts and principles underlined.

I think the major problem is that my son does not have enough time to consolidate or completely digest all the teaching materials, as you should understand how tough the workloads and how tight the teaching schedule are.

Another major cause for his failure may be attribute to his carelessness, I think.  Although I repeatedly remind my son to carefully answer the questions, he still commits careless mistakes quite often. :cry:

Since your son (or your son's classmate) failed to pass the re-examination two times, what is the consequence?  I would like to know whether he needs to sit for the re-entrance examination or to take supplementary course?
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我arm arm先問清楚我老公Ｄ詳情，因為數果Ｄ野我無跟開，淨係知Ｄ八卦野。我個仔二月開始Begining Algebra，佢同學上次補考唔得後就要停，最近果次就應該係re-entrance examination，其實個同學話自己都唔明點解會唔得，因為佢覺得無咩點錯，所以佢老豆有帶佢上去要求覆券，但果度話無得覆券，唔得就係唔得。
聽講好多４，５歲入到的小朋友考試都唔掂，都係因為唔夠時間，唔小心等問題。

ykwong

我補充一點：

強調的是遭逢挫敗的反應，我已說過可能是自己對咬手指甲的行為反應有點過敏，故有此說。

至於小朋友不喜歡某樣活動，當然可以quit。但他又不是(成績常在頭三名)。不喜歡乃因不守規矩而被罰(若冇理解錯誤)。這樣便有點不同。

愉快學習、活動教學，不等同毋須守紀律吧！可能罰的方法有所不同罷了。

didima

stccmc, yk:
咁如果你的小朋友像我的情況,你地會點做?
請賜教

philip, wumma:
我很慚愧你比我100分,就像選校,我同老公都未能達成共識,在網上又這麼多對logos負面的評論,我老公又唔想囝囝入LS,DBSPD又waiting
請教下就体操班的處理,你地會點做?
囝囝覺得自己喳,做唔倒,我都唔明點解佢咁,或者佢覺得達唔倒自己要求掛,但事實又不是這樣(佢做得幾好),所以就用頑皮去令到自己唔駛做,我地有堅持要佢繼續,當然有耐心解釋上堂應有的態度同鼓勵佢,但係情況越來越差
因平日佢已經可以自動自覺做功課,(好攪笑有次我約佢同學個媽咪同佢同學仔來食飯,到佐8點幾佢問佢地幾時走,我問做乜?囝囝就話我仲未做功課呀),MT math同睇英文書,日文同練琴,當然有d我見佢變成咁,我都有喊過,我問究竟發生乜野問題,想翻起我心仲d有唔舒服
didima

didima

philip,wumma:
我就因耍處理囝囝情緒問題,我辭職唔做,囝囝的問題不是太嚴重,但我知如果我唔跟,就有排煩
自細我每做一件事,都會想點解要做,點樣去做,做左大概的結果係點?
但面對幫囝囝作決定時,我心裏有很大負擔和壓力
didima :-|

beseem2003

Philipwhau 寫道:
beseem2003,

Thanks for your reply.

你大仔讀 Beginning Alegbra, 他應該讀初中，是嗎？

其實個考試(Passing Mark 要 80%)對D小朋友來說都幾高要求！

我覺得EPGY個負責人都幾'寸'。

我個仔高小，佢今日更正我地話同學果Ｄ唔係re-entrance，係休息半年再唻過，並教訓我地唔應該將呢件事掛在口邊，佢講得無錯，有時做人做得耐左會唔記得Ｄ細節。

上堂果度櫈都無張，做野Ｄ人又唔多願開口咁，咁耐以唻我上去既次數用手指都數得哂，我同個負責人只係點下頭，打下招呼咁，無正式傾過偈，唔知佢寸唔寸，淨係知道佢地個門面越來越靚，應該好掂。
我老公話果度勁多ＩＳ學生。

ykwong

didima 寫道:
stccmc, yk:
咁如果你的小朋友像我的情況,你地會點做?
請賜教

你既已專心教子，是行了最重要的一步。亦很代表你非常正視兒子的情緒問題。我非專家，亦冇個人心得可供分享。請見諒。

有此一步，看來嚴重性不低，宜請教專家。

cow

從二年級家長日這天開始出發 !

我曾經提過因近期學校發生了一件事而觸發起我提出這個討論。

那件事其實是關於一位剛離校有情緒問題的資優生，他的父母當然有盡力去幫助他，找社工、醫生和其他專業協助等，父母和兒子都分別有上一些相關的課程，但有一天突然接到學校某發言人的來電勸喻退學，他們便跟校長商討。
他們跟其他類似情况的父母有交流，得知其他學校有怎樣的幫助，便向校長說明，豈瞭校長竟跟他們說:
「咁你咪去果Ｄ學校讀」，他們即時對學校死心。

他們在面試時校長已知道小朋友的問題，還安慰他們說:
「你地放心，我一定挍得掂!」但事隔一年，竟然....

學校還在觀課日公開對家長話已經比左好多機會佢。
學校除比機會佢之外，夠竟對佢有乜野協助呢?

我唔係話個小朋友無錯，但學校咁對佢令我對學校感到失望。

PS:
這事件我是未經當事人同意而發表的，希望他們原諒。

ykwong

But studentS having problem don't need CHANCE, they need HELP.

If the school doesn't provide help, it better changes into another one. Not a bad case to this poor kid and his parent.

cow

"關於真道書院小學介紹會"內whoareu和honest的意見也可聯係在此。