女拔落敗感言

LovelyDad

I believe a school provides a platform. Whether the child performs will depend on a whole lot of factors. Given the child is only 5 or 6 years old now, I believe it is too early to judge his or her success at this stage. Besides, we should not use academic results or even income level to judge whether a person is successful. If a person can be warm and kind to others, I believe he/she is already very successful person.

J_D74

thtb 發表於 12-1-5 11:03
其實這些名校都是對某些人仕是身份的象徵. 不知大家有否認識一些人是中下階層及就讀普通有學券的幼稚園入讀 ...

二年前, 曾有媽媽留言說她只住在屯門公屋, 女兒也能入DGJS, 請大家不要常常標籤這家學校, 但當時我只是路人甲, 沒有多問~~~亦聽朋友說葵芳村也有一位DGJS的學生, 但我沒親眼見過.........
我自己覺得, 父母無學歷又無錢的話, 基本係無可能, 就算囡囡幾叻, 學校都唔敢冒呢個險, 出席家長會時, 有個C9入去大叫大嚷咁, 你唔驚失禮咩~~~若父母高學歷而女女又叻, 就算住得唔係好富貴都有機, 我企係校長角度去諗, 我直覺覺得MRS.DAI真係重視教學的人, 不過, 私校始終要生存, 所以, 三路人馬唔少得; 1) 有錢; 2)課外活動強; 3)真係讀得書, 咁先可以保持到, 能文能武的地位~~~

J_D74

LovelyDad 發表於 12-1-6 00:22
I believe a school provides a platform. Whether the child performs will depend on a whole lot of fac ...

If a person can be warm and kind to others, I believe he/she is already very successful person. -->其實同意的, 我女兒5歲幾已經做得到, 學校既commend老是說她helpful, cheeful, 樂於助人, 樂於分享, 很受同學的歡迎.........不過現實歸現實, 希望讀多d書, 第時唔洗我擔心佢自己都養唔起自己~~~^_~ , 我成日同佢地講, 要share都係要本事, 若果自己都無, 點share比人!? 我帶大女去做義工, 我同佢講, 好感恩, 我地有能力去做義工, 幾多人都好想幫人, 但自己都未顧得掂, 有心無力係最悲哀~~

angeemama

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學歷是嫁妝一部份, 比起金銀手飾還有用

I really buy in to this and that's excactly what my parents said to all of us.  They always say only your knowledge will be with you forever and no one could take it away.  Although my daughter doesn't have the luck to be accepted by DGJS, I would not feel upset about it.  She had done her best and she needs to accept that she cannot be chosen all the time.  When you think you are the best, the one sitting next to you could the best out of the best.  

kochiman2004

Be more relax and looking forward ....

TYYC

kochiman2004 發表於 12-1-6 13:50
Be more relax and looking forward ....

I agreed and always stay positive.

I know a girl from CCKG will decline DGJS offer, I believe more seats from DGJS will become available after the "Grand lucky draw", so there are definitely chances for waiting list kids.

Keep finger crossed,

kochiman2004

The decline DGJS offer girl already registered SPCC wor ...

chongnicole

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恭喜呀！兩間學校真系各有各好。

LovelyDad

As parents, one of our jobs is to educate our child to be humble, warm, honest, kind, helpful, etc. In the past, I have seen parents pushing all these responsibilities to the school (ie, they expect the school to do all these). I believe both parents and schools are responsible for the whole education process.

myac

LovelyDad 發表於 12-1-7 00:01
As parents, one of our jobs is to educate our child to be humble, warm, honest, kind, helpful, etc.  ...

古語有云:養不教,父（母) 之過.

marcie

TYYC 發表於 12-1-6 17:35
I agreed and always stay positive.

I know a girl from CCKG will decline DGJS offer, I believe mor ...

Anyone has got DGJS waiting letter?

J_D74

marcie 發表於 12-1-7 15:51
Anyone has got DGJS waiting letter?

身邊都有好幾個入到second-in, 但都收rejected letter咋, 無聽聞過有waiting list......佢都唔需要waiting list la, 真係好想入的人一定會再叩門, 到時可以再揀多次, 只會有人多, 點會怕有位無人讀呢~~~~

YLMom

My friend's daughter got waiting list.

smallfoothk

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smallfoothk

本人純粹路過,看到很多這所學校的家長，突然有感而發,名校讀得吃力；"難頂女拔萃 林海峰大女轉漢基"
話大囡係升女拔中F.1 , 話以前用2hrs做功課, 升F.1後用4Hrs, 加埋補習+樂器, 晚晚12點先瞓, 冇晒親子時間,  決定轉校  .

marcie

YLMom 發表於 12-1-8 18:31
My friend's daughter got waiting list.

Waiting list letter?

bbJP

我都有很多朋友的女兒讀DGJS,唔知點解,佢地不約而同,d樣真係越讀越chok.好似由內心不自覺地流露出一種高傲.幾年間变化很大.

YLMom

marcie 發表於 12-1-9 09:30
Waiting list letter?

Yes, waiting list letter.

twobirds

bbJP 發表於 12-1-9 10:37
我都有很多朋友的女兒讀DGJS,唔知點解,佢地不約而同,d樣真係越讀越chok.好似由內心不自覺地流露出一種高傲. ...

因為佢地真係叻嘛.....

bbJP

twobirds 發表於 12-1-9 13:54
因為佢地真係叻嘛.....

或者係啦!但果種blue blood feel,唔係淨係自信咁,佢地d父母,即係我d朋友都好叻,不過唔係咁既樣,來自其他本地或IS名校一齊玩既,都冇果種chok樣....唔知呢,好彩我冇女,唔洗煩報唔報.....