好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

hinhinmummy

hoho

我爸爸出左院啦, 佢做完手術之後果晚就發燒, d人話做完手術之後發燒可大可小, 所以我先甘緊張, 點知我看完佢之後, 醫生就比佢出院lor, 話退左燒wor, 激死.

我媽媽份工好難請假的, 佢地要看夜好似nurse甘架, 所以佢真係好難話放假就放假lor.  算啦, 每個人的價值觀都不同, 如果我認為要去做的野, 無人阻到我lor.

hinhinmummy

今日帶軒軒去買野, 我比緊錢的時侯, 佢忽然之間走左去宣傳架的後邊推跌, 我當然好緊張甘叫小心, 姑奶話, 軒軒本來無野的, 點知我嗑左出黎的時侯, 佢就喊, 還一路拍心口, 好似小朋友拍住心口講驚驚甘, 但佢就無叫驚驚, 跟住就成隻樹熊甘攪住我.

今日帶佢兩個出街行街, 好倦好倦, 還慘過返工.

gigi2

Hoho,

I didn't mean that or my message is not clear.  I mean you did right for your complain and up to now the teacher has already been taught a big lesson from her job.  Forgiveness is encouraged.

You did right and hope the teacher has been taught a lesson in her profession.

mickeyma

Have your children experienced following?

Starting from last weekend when Yu was sick, he began a habit of repeating the first word of what he would like to say many times, then bursting out the whole words or sentence... He looked like trying very very hard to burst out the words finally... I have counted, sometimes, he would repeat first word ten times before finally finish the sentence in two seconds.... I was thinking maybe he would like to express himself, but found difficult and must think at the same time? His voice is louder and louded with the more effort of wanting to speaking and more repeating of the first word... And after finishing, he was so happy and released, would smile...
What is the problem, will this last long? I am afraid he will be 结结巴巴 in talking later... But so far only happened in first starting word..

gigi2

Mickeyma,

I do not have such experience but she will repeat what she said several times.  This seems she got great satisfaction and achievement when expresses herself well every time and wants to appreciate her successful efforts.  I think this is no problem of your son.

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

我諗yu係想表達, 但又表達不到者, 比d鼓勵佢.

尋日整理返晒軒軒由做評估開始的文件, 發現到一張draft紙, 係在養和做評估時, 醫生寫的紙, 話軒軒當時的語言表達/理解係1歲的standard都無, 而象徵遊戲就得1歲, 語前就得6-9個月

甘想比依家, 佢真係進步左好多, 可能真係我貪心.

尋日買左比細軟剪比佢學剪野, 佢不識開, 佢用兩隻手開左軟剪先, 跟住可以好似大人甘, 剪野

夜晚, 同佢玩玩下, 忽然覺得佢'lo lo lun', 跟住整下條褲, 不知講'濕'定'急', 跟住就企係potty前邊, 我飛奔過去, 發覺已經濕左.

再夜d, 佢又lo lo lun, 喊住講又係不知'濕'定'急', 放到落potty度, 又係濕左.

但我已經好開心, 已經條褲仔濕左, 佢都不會有反應, 依家起碼會話比我聽'濕'.

mickeyma

hinhinmummy,
I was thinking the same as you at begining and would wait patiently till he finish the wording and helped him by saying out what he wanted to say near him.
However, things got worse these days, that is why I am a little bit worried about that...
I am anxious as well for Wednesday's evaluation...

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

不好太緊張同埋比太大壓力個仔, 到時做出黎的表現因為緊張差左就閉家火!

放鬆d啦.

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy,
個仔唔識緊張 so far! Only 合作 or 唔合作之分。
But you are very right, I should not give too much pressure to myself...
講一些宇好笑嘅嘢大家聽:
After teaching Yu the song : 有隻雀仔跌落水..., one day, when I accompanied him in toilet ng ng, he was saying: 扑通..扑通.. I found out that he was doing that when his ng ng fell into water. Then suddenly he started to sing: 有隻屎屎跌落水,跌落水,被水冲去...
I could not believe my ear and could not help laughing to tears....

Yu became more and more funny these days. When I asked him to say Thank You to me one day after giving him milk, my mother stopped him and asked him to say Thank you to 婆婆 instead of 媽媽, he kept smiling and looking at me. I waved my hand and pointed my nose, meaning to say Thank you Mama.. He said: 無多謝婆婆哦, 多謝媽媽哦。After I praised him for doing right, he looked at me and kept saying 多謝婆婆 for three times!laughing badly...

One morning, Yu was watching 兒歌樂, one song has one sentence describing a boy with many winter clothes like 大笨鐘。 I asked Yu: Yu, are you 大笨鐘? not expecting him to answer. He thought for a while and said : 唔係，唔係。 When we were clapping hands and praising him, he said again: 嬷嬷大笨鐘！

justjust

mickeyma,

My girl is also the same.  She would repeat the first few words of a sentence for some times, louder and louder, until she finally bursted out the whole sentence.  I think her mind was running faster than her tongue and so she was buying time to organize her thoughts and searching for the right words and right sentence structure.  

Like you, we would also wait till she has finished, and then repeat her line in a normal tone and sentence structure.  Don't worry too much.  With your encouragement and patience, Yu will improve day by day.  From what you say, he has quite some funny stories and he begins to play tricks on the others!

ClaudeeMa

Having waited for 3.5 months, finally my son is assigned a place at Heep Hong 青蔥計劃 in Shun Lee!  Last Sat he was assessed by the 幼兒導師 and she said that my son's main weakness is in the communication aspect (this I know la!)  And my son will start the 幼兒訓練 this week.  The 導師 seems very well-experienced so I hope he will show significant improvement after starting the training la.

BTW, my son started 輪候 gov't 的早期幼兒訓練服務 since November 04.  Last week I phoned the med social worker and she said that the queue is quite long and I should expect that I need to wait for at least 9m to 1 yr to get the service.  So ridiculous!

Everyone here add oil!   :evil:

陸美爸

想問問大家, 22個月應該可以砌到多少粒積木呢？
我仔仔現砌到5粒(有時會失手), 試過一次砌6粒...

另外, 我用手指指向遠處物品時, 他不懂得跟我手指方向去望, 每次我都要指到差不多掂到那件物品給他看, 他才知道...咁是否很差呢？

hoho~
搵到合適幼兒園未呢？我仔仔現時"點頭"動作係快速地曲一曲腳, 好像坐下的姿勢般, 但每當我問佢"要唔要"時, 佢會懂得答我, 姿勢方面, 我諗等佢自己慢慢演變好了...

hinhinmummy~
緊張軒軒之餘, 都要關心下大女喔! 因住佢呷醋呢...

ClaudeeMa~
恭喜你呀~終於等到協康, 我等左5個月都未有呢 :cry:

陸美媽

ClaudeeMa

Thanks 陸美媽!  I originally just wanted to wait for the place at 協康 Mongkok Centre on Saturdays.  But after 3 months of waiting, they still cannot assign me a seat.  I was so anxious to let my son start some training as he is now 2 yr 9 months already....So I phoned in 協康 several time to ask for the status of my application...finally they assign me a place at 協康 Shun Lee centre.  But the timing is a bit strange, 2 times Sat training and 2 times weekday training for each month.  And I accepted it.

Did you phone in the 協康 office to followup your application?  I think waiting for 5 months is too long.  I wonder maybe they overlook your application.  You'd better phone them and check.

Cheers!

hinhinmummy

陸美媽

你真係要打去協康問一問, 因為我同你排一間, 我排左兩個月到就有位啦, 你看下係不係miss 左你個application?

至於家姐, 佢成日呷嘈架, 佢今年過年我買左對boot比佢, 本來想買多對比軒軒, 但係軒軒不肯著, 甘我話不買啦, 家姐話好呀! 我想媽媽今年過年靚靚, 家姐靚靚, 軒軒無得靚靚

ClaudeeMa

Hinhinmummy,

Which 協康 centre is hinhin in now?

ClaudeeMa

陸美媽,

Phone the 協康 office la!  Tel: 23937555 (Ms Ho)

hinhinmummy

ClaudeeMa

軒軒係灣仔協康上緊幼兒訓練.

hinhinmummy

尋晚陪軒軒訓覺, 問軒軒"枕頭呢", 佢拍下個枕頭, 跟住好大力枕落去, 再扮'如 shu, 如shu'(鼻寒聲), 講shu音的時侯, 個咀還要du晒出黎, 好鬼攪笑.

678

hinhinmummy
hinhin 好掂呀, 佢開竅喇, 開左竅就好易上手. 佞飲得杯落.

mickeyma

Dear All Mummy,

We went to 中九龍智能测試中心 this morning and doctor had assesment on my son for 1.5 hours.
We successfully switched the line to I seat.

Here is the latest report of Yu who will be  2 year 10 months next Tuesday:
Cognition: 2 year 6 months    --- 4 months lag behind.
Language understanding: 2 year 5 months -- 5 months lag behind.
Lauguage expression: 2 year 8 months -- 2 months lag behind.
Physical development: normal.
Social skill is still weak, but improved comparing to before.

She considered his language understanding and expression 與智齡相符。But cognition is a little bit slower than same age group, but not a big deal.  She commented my son's progress is surprisingly big.  And she had no objection in his switching line to I seat.
We talked to the social worker this morning at the same time to line up the I seat. I seat result can be known before end of Mar.

DR. still thinks Yu has autistic feature, and I asked her what is difference between feature and autism.
She commented autism is confirmed case which is typical and feature is mild... Here and there, you can find some tracks..    

Anyway, now I do not want to stick to this point, for me, it is more important to concentrate my energy and time in his weak point: still insufficient eye contact with strangers which might be one of the feature    and attention span..  If I consider he is normal, then he will go on on the normal way in the rest of his life! I must keep belief on God and my son and myself. Today, I instruct my mother in law to announce to all of her relatives,if they ask, that my son was confirmed not autism which is true and I will not mention his A-features to other people anymore except  mums here and family members.
I must protect him and lead him to a more normal life in future.