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原文章由 nlau 於 08-6-27 12:27 發表 
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上週末我和她溫習考試, 叫她寫了一篇英文, 我看後便指出她的錯誤。 但一開始, 她便撇著嘴, 一付不高興, 不願聽的模樣, 我自然火起來, 責罵她, 問她為什麼, 她掉着淚,
卻只說”無嘢”, 態度仍是不 ...
First, please accept my apology in replying in English as my Chniese typing is very poooooooooorrrrrrrrr !
I appreciate your application of 1-min parenting and others deep sharing. Parenting is really a life long learning process.
I have 2 sons, one at S.2, one at P.5. So both are 'teens'.
We are more playful - we squeeze time for pillow wars, body/foot massage, chess, card games, sometimes my husband even leads them playing internet games. Building up enjoying moments / memory in family is wonderful and invaluable ! This also releases the parenting pressure, so do RELAX and ENJOY !
In 1 way, we are playful, the other way, we are learning to be firm and consistent - it's not easy especially for mothers, I am easily changed. Recently, I learnt to be firm and gentle. This means we have to control our emotions when things don't happen in our wishes, then gently, clearly and firmly express our ideas / principles in short and simple sentences, then allow room for improvement.
Teens are so intelligent and able to make judgement, they are not learning from just what we talk but how we walk our talk. So don't keep 'educating' in words, they will observe our action, and feel our love and full support.....
Last and the most important, we keep praying to the Lord Jesus Christ in parenting, in the protection of kids and provisions of Godly friends.
Hope the above is useful to you all and let's keep learning and enjoying parenting.
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