ST.CAT 2005 K1 家長入黎傾/分享下 - 續集

sumyinmama

danielboy,
小朋友打人既事常常有，尤其是男仔﹗不如問下佢點解咁嬲個女仔，可能有蛛絲馬跡﹗最重要係daniel 知道打人唔啱﹗相信有你這個好媽媽教導，佢一定明白﹗

TSLiu,
明天我約了11:00呀﹗可能我們會見面呢﹗

sumyinmama

HeiHeiMa

danielboy:
每個小朋友都會有控制唔到情緒o既時候, 尤其係男仔, 有時郁手郁腳玩得過火在所難免! 所以佢知錯就算啦! 當然, 問到因由就最好啦!

報料:
兒歌 ~ "小蚊蟲"

TSLiu

jess647,
通告寫咗唔使帶, 星期一交返學校就得啦!

sumyinmama,
我同Thomas會10:30am後就到, 同佢係playground玩吓先, 等佢多d歸屬感, 無返學成個禮拜, 唔好成日話唔返學, 我地到時相遇啦!    

bbych2004

Hi Danielboy & 心心,
i was told that HKU is the only U in HK that trains & develops Educational Psychologist who can test kids' IQ.  If you're interested, you may call HKU Psy Dept to see if they provide IQ test service.
Not sure if this helps.
Don't be angry.  All kids are by default daughty (mine as well   ).  But as long as they are teachable and willing to improve, that's fine.

danielboy

bbych2004,
Thanks a lot for your comforting words. I am feeling a lot better now. Thinking from the positive side, at least he took the initiative to tell me what happened in school and he knew what he had done was wrong.  Actually, I don't think Daniel is gifted as I note he is only a child of average intelligence quotient.  In addition, I am also pretty sure he is not an ADHD child.  However, he is often defiant, has frequent outbursts of temper, tends to argue with adults and refuse to obey most of the time.  I just want to know whether he is suffering from some kind of personality disorder, and if so, what can be done, in particular, whether a therapist would help.

HeiHeiMa,
Daniel said he is no longer angry with his classmate.

HelenPoPo

all,
係咪星期三去旅行！     

我都想去呀？！

仲有邊個家長義工參加？？

到時見喇！     

HeiHeiMa

Danielboy:
咁咪好o羅! 小朋友糾紛好快冇o野o架喇!

HelenPoPo:
義工有旅行咩? 去邊?

心心

bbych2004
naoki唔係資優兒, 表面上既醒目只係佢唔輸得, 佢會將佢識既野都表達出黎, 認c認疵

danielboy
老師告訴我naoki進步左, 冇咁野蠻係呢個家長日最值得慶賀既野, 不過教佢都要花多一些腦筋

tatacat
尋日見到彤彤唔覺佢細膽bor, 佢什麼都要玩bor
naoki真係太興奮, 一上車訓左, 落車時佢話: 我要渣車呀我要渣車呀, 好大可能"mon"見高卡車

danielboy

心心,
Naoki進步左就好喇, 慢慢黎啦, 每個小朋友都有佢哋既特質, eg. 有d小朋友食飯坐定定, 一教就聽, 有d train3個月就OK, Naoki & Dan Dan呢d, 3年d都未得.相反, Naoki天生獨立有自信, 唔怕醜唔洗warm up 既性格, 亦令你慳好多功夫, 有d媽咪花腦筋嚮呢方面你又唔洗啫.

Hi all,
Last week 顧住嬲個仔打人唔記得報料添, Daniel 話講左個故事關於個女仔夾親隻手指, 包左白色紗布, 隻手指腫到好大, Daniel 竟然覺得隻大手指超攪笑, 死啦, 佢會唔會當做experiment夾自己隻手指睇下會唔會變大?

tungtungma814

心心, danielboy,

唉, 你地個仔都唔好差者, 我個女都打過人    佢話同學仔搶佢個bb喎, 佢就郁手打人推人喇     事後老師當然同我講番   

又有一次, 班中2個男同學打架, 佢竟然同另一個男同學加入, 話要報警同叫救傷車, 仲話一齊叫佢地唔好死, 佢2個救返果2個男仔喎, 呢件事係個男仔mami果日家長日話返比我知佢個仔當時返去咁同佢講, 而當時係開學冇耐, 都未教警察同救傷車既topic 後來我問個女, 佢話係呀, 佢地救返2個同學仔喎   

見老師都話佢成日掛住玩唔合作呀       

男仔打架都關佢事 :evil: 野性呀    佢真似個男仔架, 佢仲話著衫都要blue, 要冇ribbon同公仔喎   

danielboy

tungtungma,
咁我勁liki你囡囡爽朗兼有正義感既性格, 如果Daniel同佢一班, 肯定會愛上佢,  太過lady既女仔, Daniel 嫌悶架

TSLiu

danielboy, tungtungma814, 心心,
其實真係每個小朋友都有佢地特質, 好似您地d小朋友天生獨立有自信, 爽朗及唔怕醜唔洗warm up 既性格, 我就好羨慕啦! 事關我囝囝就好被動, 慢熱, 自信心不足, 所以好似好怕羞咁!      嗰日家長日見到sumyinmama同Sarah佢都未有即時反應打招呼, 仲攬著我有d怕羞,  咪一樣叫人頭痛, 都唔知點可以令佢open d?     您話男仔係唔係應該active多d呢?

sumyinmama,
幾個月無見, Sarah大個女咗, 好靓女又lady喎!      2月11日個seminar我收到入場卷, 9:00am個場, 您係唔係會一齊去聽?

jess647

TSLiu,
唔該晒妳! 但我見唔到有通告話要交返學校喎

心心,
嗰日家長日我終於都冇等Miss.Li,因為唔知要等到幾時.......
一直想問妳,naoki講唔講日文?

心心

好開心同你地傾, 傾完個人舒服D, 凡事要向好處想

TSLiu
男仔應唔應該ACTIVE? 其實冇話應唔應該, 到佢ACTIVE你又怕佢太顛, 我個仔做事不理後果, 開心時玩到亞媽姓咩都唔記得, 好怕佢出事架

JESS647
嘩, 唔明點解D人傾咁耐, 我9:20去到11:00先見完MS LEE, 我記得通告最早果個係9:00, 我係9:15, 咁到底有幾多個9:00 同 9:15

tungtungma814

danielboy,

我怕我個女思想行為都咁男仔又會嚇怕的男仔呢

如果Daniel同班, 咁我個女實好中意喇, 2個都中意玩

danielboy

Daniel報料話English class 教12生肖(我估), 佢話"no lion, only tiger", 信不信由你

HeiHeiMa

danielboy:
Daniel點會咁蠢夾自己隻手指做實驗!

TSLiu:
我覺得小朋友o既性格好難去改, HeiHei有時都會好怕羞, 不過相對細個果陣, 已經好好多! 試o下帶多d佢出o黎同小朋友玩丫, 會有d幫助o架!

HelenPoPo

HeiHeiMa 寫道:

HelenPoPo:
義工有旅行咩? 去邊?

HeiHeiMa
完來係返學校做義工咋！！
做教材喎！   

TSLiu

jess647,
Sorry! 我睇錯, 係值頭唔使交.


HeiHeiMa,
您有所不知, 我剛才講嗰d係佢對外既表現, 係屋企簡值兩個人, 難玩又多咀, 學老師既comment話頭, 佢係略欠自信心; 不過您都講得肯, 要帶佢多d同人相處會好d.    

danielboy

TSLiu,
Daniel對外都勁難玩又多咀, 您可以imagine係屋企既佢幾terrible. 我簡直嚮惶恐中渡日.

HeiHeiMa,
係喎, 佢會揾第二個隻手指做實驗, 嗰個可能係我.
By the way, 佢啱啱話教個<鳥>字.

HeiHeiMa 寫道:
danielboy:
Daniel點會咁蠢夾自己隻手指做實驗!