Hello, Dr.T speaking...

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我都有時會在摸完d coins後...hee...聞下隻手.....    我也有一個唔係咁好ge習慣...就係好鍾意囉起d野聞下佢....尤其係書...紙ge味...
唔通li d係...感官上敏感的問題...？？？     

tin_tin 寫道:
Dr. T,

My son has a bad habit to smell his hands after he touchs anything (especially dirty things). This habit began when he found that his hands had bad smell after touching the coins. He smells his hands because he wants to check if his hands are dirty. I've explained to him smelling hands cannot identify if the hands are dirty. But he still keep on smelling his hands and doesn't want to touch anything that made in metal. Is there any way to stop his bad habit?  

稚言治語

Dr.T 寫道:
1. 老實說...我睇劇集,睇戲同睇書都經常喊...

我都係，仲要唔一定係慘情喎﹗我連睇"足球小將"漫畫都喊得一餐﹗

sister

Dear Dr. T,

有關囡囡的問題想請教你 :＿

囡囡平時在家很好開心，好活躍，但昨天學校舉辦了攤位遊戲日，成個人就變得目無表情，又唔笑，好以好驚咁！有什麼方法可以改善？

sister

Dr.T

能夠造成小朋友緊張及不開心的原因實在太多,單憑她一時間的表現嘗試去估計成因,再希望尋找解決方法實在有點困難...過往有沒有相類似的情況出現過?

sister 寫道:
囡囡平時在家很好開心，好活躍，但昨天學校舉辦了攤位遊戲日，成個人就變得目無表情，又唔笑，好以好驚咁！有什麼方法可以改善？

Dr.T

    

郭富城？

Dr.T

每個人都一定有別人眼中的壞習慣,是否每一個都需要改變就要視乎那個習慣有否對日常生活有大影響,因為如果每一個壞習慣都要更正的話就很花時間了...

小朋友碰完物件後聞手與及他不會觸碰金屬製物件因為覺得它們污糟是兩個完全不同的表現,處理方法要看小朋友的接收能力...與其向他解釋聞手不會保證乾淨,倒不如索性當他聞手時立即說"好乾淨"...但我覺得都是不要理好過,費事攪到自己神經衰弱

反而後者(不會觸碰金屬製物件)可能較有改變的需要,因為這會局限了他的生活經驗,小朋友或許真的對金屬氣味較敏感,這一點我們身為外人是不會明白的,可以嘗試利用其他的氣味掩蓋原本的味道,又或者是強調該物件的功能及引起他的興趣,希望減低他對金屬的負面印象.

tin_tin 寫道:
...This habit began when he found that his hands had bad smell after touching the coins. He smells his hands because he wants to check if his hands are dirty. I've explained to him smelling hands cannot identify if the hands are dirty. But he still keep on smelling his hands and doesn't want to touch anything that made in metal. Is there any way to stop his bad habit?  

Dr.T

To Lam's mother:

BK的pm好似神神地,send極都send唔出 請給你的email我再send我對有關囡囡報告的看法給你  

Dr.T

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Dr.T

唔係喎,睇見佢地跑極都跑唔過半場我都真係好想喊("鄧"佢地慘...點解個球場可以咁大      )

稚言治語 寫道:
...我連睇"足球小將"漫畫都喊得一餐﹗...

tin_tin

Dr.T,

Thanks for your advice!
In the beginning, I ignore him ga. But my mother always e e all all,  blaming me not correcting his bad habits in the early beginning. As a result, his bad habits become more and more. 攪到我神經衰弱 la.  

Dr.T 寫道:
...但我覺得都是不要理好過,費事攪到自己神經衰弱

mcc88

Dear Dr T.

My son is now 5 years old , he has been classified as DCD (Developmental Co-ordination Disorder) at 4 yrs old. He is now attending physiotherapy and 職業治療. Anything else can we do? Does DCD affect his ability of writing and recognising of words? He can write the no. 1, 5 & 4, but not the no. 2.

Thks

Dr.T

之前已覆了你,可能你錯過了...再抄一次如下:

動作協調障礙(DCD)始終是一個較新界定的症狀,孩子長遠的發展仍有待觀察,但對讀寫的影響似乎是有此可能. 據我有限的知識,物理治療師及職業治療師應已是協助小朋友的最佳人選,教育心理學家的角色是監察小朋友在學習上是否有困難,抱歉對書寫及其他身體肌能的訓練方法不敢越俎代庖地提供建議

mcc88 寫道:
My son is now 5 years old , he has been classified as DCD (Developmental Co-ordination Disorder) at 4 yrs old. He is now attending physiotherapy and 職業治療. Anything else can we do? Does DCD affect his ability of writing and recognising of words? He can write the no. 1, 5 & 4, but not the no. 2.

Dr.T

兩邊都有關係...

lam's-mother 寫道:
...可能高估左小朋友嘅抄寫能力,所以叫本人睇緊D...我想問吓, 抄寫能力是指小肌肉定手眼協調?

Dr.T

可以睇定d先,只不過是要睇得比較緊d...

lam's-mother 寫道:
...囡囡的大肌肉和手眼協調豈不是更差 問題大不大呀? ...

bignose

Dr. T

您好, 有事請教.
小兒現2歲7個月, 比較斯文, 唔鍾意人地粗魯, 推撞,
講野都幾叻, 好識同人表達, 鍾意玩靜態野,
最愛玩puzzle & uno.
但係佢唔太識與同齡的小朋友玩, 亦唔鍾意圍埋一班小朋友做silly things.  我既問題係:
1) 有小朋友推佢, 打佢, 搶佢野, 佢都唔識表達, 只會扁咀,
我已教佢要講 '唔好呀, 話比媽咪知', 佢事後就識咁同我講,
但係發生事時就唔出聲.  我應該點教佢去處理?
2) 佢比人蝦得多, 有時會講 '唔要小朋友'.  我要點handle?
3) 佢淨係鍾意同大人玩 especially 女人, 聽人講咁樣係因為佢對大人有信心, 唔會撞到佢, 係咪咁樣呢?

麻煩晒你!     

Dr.T

兩個可能原因...小朋友性格比較內向(要強調這本身不是壞事),不會主動爭取...另一個可能是小朋友不太懂得"閱讀"非語言的提示(從他喜歡玩d規則清清楚楚的可見一斑),故此根本不知道在那個時候出聲拒絕他人...解決方法都在他參與這些社交情況時,協助他解讀其他人的反應.由於小朋友年紀尚小,少訓示多實習是最基本的方法.

bignose 寫道:
...但係佢唔太識與同齡的小朋友玩, 亦唔鍾意圍埋一班小朋友做silly things...