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Last night I stayed awake till after 2:00am.
Unexpectedly so many parents also stayed awake for another sad story.
Jam and mcheung,
I can deeply share your feelings.
Ever since our first prince has joined YW, our whole family has joined YW.
Our little prince has claimed YW as HIS OWN school. Whatever our elder prince performed in school, our little prince did watch and imagine they would do the same in the future.
He did sing “YWHome” with his brother everyday last year. He did sing “YW Happy Birthday” and dance with his brother happily the whole November.
He DOES regard YW as HIS HOME, he IS a memberof this home, he is not an outsider. I guess your princes are the same.
No matter “YW Home” or “Home of Our Youth”, YW is cultivating the sense of home to YW families.
I can imagine how hard it is to tell our little princes that this home does not accept him as a member, how hard it is to tell them that their identifications are different from their home!
Even though we do not use the word “reject”, their feelings of being rejected by their home must still be strong.
Their brothers must share the same hurted feelings of their siblings, and we cannot explain why their siblings are rejected by their home.
It will be hard to teach them what is home, hard to demonstrate to them how to accept people, especially people that they do not like.
No matter what, it is very important to remember that it is not your princes not as competitive as other boys, it is only that your boys do not fall into the first 150 places of the type of boys this particular school wants.
Our views to judge our boys should be commensurate with our God, not our society or our school, God will judge finally! Great men do not come from one school, they come from quality families!
[ 本文章最後由 Anthea 於 07-11-26 22:46 編輯 ] |
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