好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

FIZZY

hinhinmummy,
我真係衷心見你小朋友有進步, 好老實講, 每見你message亦有想像我日後亦可能會同你一樣開心, 事實大家每一message都係教我如何教導及同囡囡相處, 我都係近排先開始每晚全天候不停同囡囡玩及講話, 我自己想, 我都係lost咗好多時間, 之前大安指意放工後去做自己的事沒有關注與囡囡溝通問題, 現在回想起真係追唔番呢D時間呀.

我會努力的, 多謝你!

kakab105

hinhinmummy

未番呀 亞仔 星期一先番17號呀，呢2日都冇去暫托(托兒所)，痾左好多日喇，尋晚買左豆奶比佢 ，希望今日止到啦!

見到hinhin有進步，又講咁多野，好開心呀~~ 恭喜你呀)))))))努力真係不會白費架~~  

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy, Justjust,

Thank you for your suggestion! My son felt much better now and today I sent him to school again.
Yesterday and this morning, he could eat a bowl of congee.

I do not know what happended. Seems after sick leave, he performed very well in the PT, ST training.
Before, he was not attentive in school's ST training.
Same as Gigi's daughter, he performed differently at home and in school. Very passive in school. When we arrived school, PT was not yet arrived. His teacher and I asked him many questions such as what color was the table, teacher Chan's T shirt, Hin 姐's T shirt and so on?? Teacher was surprised to see he can speak out most of the color including purple, white... When we asked him what Hin姐 was doing, he answered : Hin姐抹玩具。And during ST training, maybe today is doing some task he likes, he was very attentive. He could recognize and speak out all the foods ST showing him and kept practicing: 摆xx俟雪櫃度 and saying: 我想要食朱古力 when ST was so happy and took out a bottle of chocolate...
I feel very happy today to let his school teacher and ST to see his real performance and ability as he was so passive in school before...  :

Gigi2,
Congratulation to your daughter's progress! Your daughter is a good example which Yu is following and will catch. If you could share more what you are doing with your daughter and experience here, it would be even better    Actually, I followed your suggestion quite often such as showing Yu pictures taken of family members and teaching him to speak out the situation...

JOANNA722

hinhinmummy
好替你開心, hinhin近日有很大進步, 不過你真係負出了很多才有今日的正果, 我都要相繼續努力, 向你學習 你老公打機唔同個女攪功課好攪笑!!

啊仔快2歲8個月啦!  仍只識講mum mum, 街, 媽媽, 雖然同未入I位時比較有所進步, 但仍然進步得好慢, 或許我要求.期望高, 令自己唔開心.   我都好怕親戚上我屋企(老yeah想叫佢地來), 一定問我點呀, 啊仔進展如何! 識講野味, 你快d做e樣做果樣, 其實我做左好多野,不過我唔想講感多, 常問令我心情壞透了, 我自己都好心煩, 好彩這裡有你們明白我.

頭先電社工, 佢話2,3,4月會先派I位, then S位希望可派到啦啦!我想問下有無人知痙攣協會同協康會既質數分別, 預祝各位今年得債償所願,

啊仔近幾日識得同我分顏色5種, 在5枝木棍上, 好開心!
同啊仔晚晚訓練可坐定成個鍾, 但出去做S.T .O.T 仲係要四處行下先安樂, SIDE晒D$同時間, 你地有無計?   

HelenMrs.Lau

見到你地個個小朋友都進步得0甘快，我都有d擔心！
唔知阿仔幾時有你地果d 0甘0力哩     

gigi2

Mickeyma,

Thank you for your congratulations.  This forum I always post for the news about my girl which hopes to share my anxiety or enthusiastic with all of you. This would be the encouragement for us to work harder on our children continuously.

Like others, I am the working mom with 2 kids and the most difficulties for me is the first half year of discovering my girl with speech delay and afterwards we have to compete with the time to narrow down the gap of our girl’s problem.  

In fact, we seldom to do table task for her since the last summer holiday but we will train her through daily living habits and more exposures with outdoor activities.  I also believe the kindergarten, which is suitable for my girl, that is much helpful for her improvement.  She enjoys the school life and has memorized all books contents from school.  Through her memorizing the songs and sentences from books, I find that she gradually grasps the meaning of those sentences and can apply them to the right situations in her daily life later.  Singing and reading for your children and they must be benefited in one day.  The ST told me that the curve of her development would not be a straight line to moving up.  The progress line sometime will be flat which seems stop moving ahead but actually it is only moving slower a bit.  That’s why we need to be patient and never give up to approach another breakthrough from their performance.

We still do not succeed yet but my husband and I can finally have a little loose breath about her current performance.

hinhinmummy

JOANNA

我諗你仔仔係蝦d姑娘, 軒軒做training, st的時侯會自由行, 扭下計, 但係在協康做幼兒訓練就會坐定定, 不敢蝦個姑娘.

有一次, 做幼兒訓練的時侯, 剛剛見到老公的麵包, 要食, 已經食左一大半, 夠鐘上堂, 軒軒都要食, 姑娘話不得, 佢就扭計, 一路扭計左2/3堂, 老公心想, 呢次蝕晒啦.  但係姑娘話, 一定要比佢知道規距, 如果不是下次軒軒就會蝦姑娘.

點知下一次, 軒軒又係上堂前食麵包, 到上堂呢次佢扭小左.

再下一次, 就自動自覺入房做training無再扭計.

我新工人黎的時侯, 第一日就帶埋佢去同軒軒做幼兒訓練, 不知係不係軒軒以為姐姐都係姑娘, 呢個幾星期, 我見工人同佢做功課的時侯, 軒軒比較用心, 但當我一行埋去諗住接手, 佢就不做.  佢蝦我

helen

你都好努力架! 加油!

FIZZY

JOANNA722 寫道:

我都好怕親戚上我屋企(老yeah想叫佢地來), 一定問我點呀, 啊仔進展如何! 識講野味, 你快d做e樣做果樣, 其實我做左好多野,不過我唔想講感多, 常問令我心情壞透了, 我自己都好心煩, 好彩這裡有你們明白我.

JOANNA722,
我明白你感受的, 我老爺仲衰呀, 問我囡囡係唔係啞tim.  老公果邊親戚明明知囡囡仲未識講話, 佢次次見親佢都逼佢叫佢地, 如果唔叫就唔比入屋或放佢落地玩(原先係抱住佢的).  我覺得係有少少"系"落佢呀. :cry:  :cry: 次次攪到囡囡喊先收完場.

HelenMrs.Lau

好似好多人on line 喎！d反應0甘快0既

HelenMrs.Lau

gigi2，
其實我都好少同阿仔坐埋

mickeyma

Helen,
Don't be upset! Your son is moving forward as well.
To certain stage, they will have a bigger progress..
As Gigi2 said, the development curve is not upward, but moving up step by step. Therefore, we need more patience.. Sometimes when you think he is not listening, he is collecting all the datas already!

Gigi2,
My son loves reading and singing very much as well. Every two weeks, I will borrow nearly 7 books for him. I will read those books again and again if he likes. And two weeks later, change another set. He got his own library card now.
:  :

HelenMrs.Lau

mickeyma，
我有時都會信心大跌

JOANNA722

FIZZY
我的親戚唔會這樣逼佢, 如果係我實同佢出頭 :evil:
但餐餐問我就夠煩, 前幾日上來又問, 我忍唔住話你個仔正常你點會明呀?  跟住我相眼通紅, 話唔好講la.... 佢先停口, 我真係覺得自己好慘......wu wu wu

JOANNA722

Helen
我又何常唔係, 有你這樣同感, 好唔開心, 我真係好唔鍾意佢成個" he man" 感, 時時充滿力量四處走, 好討厭!
我想問下你地係未唔好比朱古力佢地食, 會令佢地more活躍?

gigi2

Helen,

Don't be fed up.  More express your feelings here and you must feel better as we all must support each other !

Like you son's case, I agree this is unnecssary to force him reading if he refuses to do so.  Maybe while he is playing his game, you join into his game and be one of the role from his game.  You would be like an idiot at first but I hope that you must get some feedback from your efforts.

Regarding the daily lives, show pictures or photos etc for those visual aids methods are useful for your son's understanding.  He will get what you told him but only he does not tell and express to you at this moment.  He is quite a character boy , right?     

JOANNA722

hinhinmummy
我唔知佢係咪啊!  我個s.t. 話不如下次試下, 我唔入去, 試下得佢2人, 會唔會好d, 我怕令佢大喊繼而影響成堂, 或令佢以後唔意上去, 感咪死火!!! ( 因只上了2堂)

gigi2

Sigh....sometimes even the sincere enquires from relatives will also be the big pressure to parents and notwithstanding those people make inquiries with evil hearts....

kakab105

JOANNA722 寫道:
Helen
我又何常唔係, 有你這樣同感, 好唔開心, 我真係好唔鍾意佢成個" he man" 感, 時時充滿力量四處走, 好討厭!
我想問下你地係未唔好比朱古力佢地食, 會令佢地more活躍?

仲有飲可樂係咪都係會 衰d呢？ 我都好想知

JOANNA722

我奶奶又係咁 成日問我 講野未呀？你地要教下佢講先得架~~一時中一時英佢點會識呀~~*()&$@#*(^$*()@#^%*()@再望住我........好似關我事咁.....
老野就成日叫個仔表演爬車仔佢睇~~傻架~~

gigi2

Helen,

Suddenly I think....why don't you draw a picture or get a photo from which a boy or cartoon etc to sit properly on the chair.  You show the picture = command to your son whenever you want him to sit properly for lesson or table task.  Have you tried this?

gigi2

Kakab105,

2 different languages used might be one of the factors to have confusion which will delay the speech development of a kid.  My girl is the case from this.