報咗09年St. Paul Day Nursery 的, 入嚟傾吓啦 !

Snoopywy

原帖由 jjtseung 於 09-4-17 08:45 發表


18個月講句子, 你女女好o力... 我女果陣最多講下"食蘋果""去遊樂場"等動詞+名詞的組合only, 歌仔就好多, 不過發音就好好笑, 通常得我地自家人明!

面對陌生人要自細操練, &同本身性格有關... 多些鼓勵&獎勵(小貼紙 ...

通常係自已個小朋友既特別話...係自已父母先識聽....
囡囡無事嗎 ?

係喎,我都係quarry bay / north point 呢, 呢度有3個東區人喎 !

Snoopywy

coffeecake :
你好型......沖過涼...跟著落樓下食早餐 !!!


max :
我生呀囡時係自再...因為早2日見少少紅入醫,不過醫生睇過又吾似,佢就叫我繼續留院,過多日冇事就出醫先....好彩呀囡聽聽話話,第2晚就要出黎...(已經過左預產期3日)

留院個2晚,每晚食綠豆沙...

Snoopywy

jj :
你指 CWB個會係咪近大球場個個....個池應該未開 ! 我星期日入去 bbq呢 !

Mollymama

Yes we always encourage our daughter to speak, to play and to learn.  We don't want put any pressure or any expectation on her, keep it natural is our wish.  However, we note that since she was 11 months old, she was keen to learn new things and enjoy speaking through imitation.  Most often she can memorize words/ vocabulary firmly after we teach her once/ twice.  Sometimes out of surprise she can express some words/ sentences that we haven't taught her but maybe she learnt from her own observation.  

She likes to sing those Chinese and English children songs because  I sing to her every night before she goes to bed, so starting from around 16 months old, instead of me singing alone, she also sings together before she goes asleep......

原帖由 jjtseung 於 09-4-17 08:45 發表


18個月講句子, 你女女好o力... 我女果陣最多講下"食蘋果""去遊樂場"等動詞+名詞的組合only, 歌仔就好多, 不過發音就好好笑, 通常得我地自家人明!

面對陌生人要自細操練, &同本身性格有關... 多些鼓勵&獎勵(小貼紙 ...

CoffeeCake

我一定唔可以用唱歌呢招氹我女瞓。
佢會越唱越興奮，到時我自已受罪！！
所以我既做法係熄晒燈扮瞓，咁佢就會好快瞓著。

原帖由 Mollymama 於 09-4-17 09:58 發表
Yes we always encourage our daughter to speak, to play and to learn.  We don't want put any pressure or any expectation on her, keep it natural is our wish.  However, we note that since she was 11 mon ...

Mollymama

They have dismissed 2 Indonesian maids since the birth of my daughter and they concluded that these maids' hygenic sense is far from satisfactory and they don't want to have a maid debating with them everyday (so we are unlucky in choosing maids).  They thought that as my daughter was 17 months at that time, they could do the housework themselves instead of having a debating maid.

After working hard without a maid for more than 1 month, I note that they are exhausted during daytime while my husband and myself also feel too tired during night-time by looking after my girl, so I employed a Philipino maid in Nov 08.....but we're unlucky again to have such application process being prolonged till now.....

I do hope the new maid can arrive HK next week......We're really really tired during the past 7 months!

原帖由 jjtseung 於 09-4-17 08:52 發表


我都仲係度搏緊, 佢的能力提升後, 我的對策都要跟隨升級...

不過, 自己就已經習慣佐, 所以無頭頭咁hard feeling... 同埋都係間中好trouble, 大部分時間都係講道理的!

點解佢地反對你請工人呢? ...

Mollymama

Yes different kid has different style....

Recently when I start to sing a song, my daughter will then requests me sing another song that she likes.  After singing twice, she will then sing by her own.  I won't go ahead to sing any more unless she requests so it will be silent after we sing for 4 to 5 songs and then she goes to sleep.  The whole process normally is within 20 mins...

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 09-4-17 10:10 發表
我一定唔可以用唱歌呢招氹我女瞓。
佢會越唱越興奮，到時我自已受罪！！
所以我既做法係熄晒燈扮瞓，咁佢就會好快瞓著。

Snoopywy

molly :
老人家身體一定無以前咁精力充沛,自已都覺自已係...
希望你工人快到..又上手喇,最緊要老人家吾抗拒喇 !

CoffeeCake

講起工人。。。我阿媽REQUEST我另外請一個比佢（因為佢會湊細B，加上佢年紀都大，60幾啦），加埋我自己屋企一個，一共要請2個！養小朋友真係可以好貴。

Mollymama

Some of my friends (working couples with no help from grandparents) having 2 kids also employ 2 maids, otherwise 1 maid can't do the good job for all the housework and take care of 2 kids!

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 09-4-17 11:09 發表
講起工人。。。我阿媽REQUEST我另外請一個比佢（因為佢會湊細B，加上佢年紀都大，60幾啦），加埋我自己屋企一個，一共要請2個！養小朋友真係可以好貴。 ...

CoffeeCake

其實係志在人為。
我MUM以前係FULL－TIME MUM，一個湊4個（一年一個），重要打理埋二層既HOUSE，咪一樣OK。。。雖然我地以前無咁妗貴，但係一個工人睇2個，重要唔係一年一個（我大女都已經讀全日班），其實係可行。不過，啲外傭梗唔想同你做到咁辛苦啦！

原帖由 Mollymama 於 09-4-17 11:14 發表
Some of my friends (working couples with no help from grandparents) having 2 kids also employ 2 maids, otherwise 1 maid can't do the good job for all the housework and take care of 2 kids!

Bocat

Mollymama,

Same here, we hired an Indonesian maid last sept08 but she quit after 2.5 days……

The story is: our original plan is to send her to my 99 place (just across the street) to train her up for preparing lunch & dinner for our girl. However, this is her first time in HK, Cantonese is not great and my 99 have too much expectation on her….. 99 keep scolding her which scare her out.

Then we have to hire another maid, which took another 2 months and finally she arrives at the end of Nov08. Same approach, send her to 99 place and train her up during day time…. Again, with the limited Cantonese skill, 99 have communication problem with her and keep complaining & complaining to me everyday. Finally, we have to dismiss her after a month of hard try.

Recently, we have hired another Indonesian maid who has worked in HK for 4yrs, same employer, she arrived last week. SO FAR SO GOOD… THANKS GOD and my 99 didn’t complain much this time. Looks like this maid will last longer than my 1st 2 maids!

Give you guys a bit of background, my hubby and I both have to work and before we have maid, we send our girl to 99 place (Mon-Fri) and we dine together everynight. (you know, traditional Chinese family, the mother always want the son and daughter in law to come back for dinner, so we have no choice)

99 have high demand on maids, she had a maid working for her and lately, her maid start shouting her back and now you guys can imagine how much complaints I have to hear every night………..

原帖由 Mollymama 於 09-4-17 10:11 發表
They have dismissed 2 Indonesian maids since the birth of my daughter and they concluded that these maids' hygenic sense is far from satisfactory and they don't want to have a maid debating with them  ...

[ 本帖最後由 Bocat 於 09-4-17 11:56 編輯 ]

Bocat

Me 4! We live at TKS!

原帖由 Snoopywy 於 09-4-17 09:53 發表


通常係自已個小朋友既特別話...係自已父母先識聽....
囡囡無事嗎 ?

係喎,我都係quarry bay / north point 呢, 呢度有3個東區人喎 !

Bocat

Totally agreed! And if our girls are lucky to be accepted by SPN, then I think 1 maid would be more than enough coz the elder daughter is at school, she can focus on the younger baby and do housework.

Time flies, all mummies, is 17Apr la, need to start pay attention to your letterbox next week onward!

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 09-4-17 11:32 發表
其實係志在人為。
我MUM以前係FULL－TIME MUM，一個湊4個（一年一個），重要打理埋二層既HOUSE，咪一樣OK。。。雖然我地以前無咁妗貴，但係一個工人睇2個，重要唔係一年一個（我大女都已經讀全日班），其實係可行。不過，啲外傭梗唔想同你做 ...

Mollymama

That's why I always think that we're not as tough as our MUM & DAD!

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 09-4-17 11:32 發表
其實係志在人為。
我MUM以前係FULL－TIME MUM，一個湊4個（一年一個），重要打理埋二層既HOUSE，咪一樣OK。。。雖然我地以前無咁妗貴，但係一個工人睇2個，重要唔係一年一個（我大女都已經讀全日班），其實係可行。不過，啲外傭梗唔想同你做 ...

Mollymama

So nothing is perfect!

Originally we planned to hire a maid who has not worked in HK before so that she will be more easy to manage.  But having 2 bad cases, now I've selected a Philipino maid who has worked for the same employer for 5 years before.  Hope that she's OK and my MUM will not complain to me everyday during dinner....

原帖由 Bocat 於 09-4-17 11:52 發表
Mollymama,

Same here, we hired an Indonesian maid last sept08 but she quit after 2.5 days……

The story is: our original plan is to send her to my 99 place (just across the street) to train her up  ...

Mollymama

Last year's letter was sent out on 28 Apr so I guess we may not receive letter next week lei....

原帖由 Bocat 於 09-4-17 11:59 發表
Totally agreed! And if our girls are lucky to be accepted by SPN, then I think 1 maid would be more than enough coz the elder daughter is at school, she can focus on the younger baby and do housework. ...

jjtseung

原帖由 CoffeeCake 於 09-4-17 10:10 發表
我一定唔可以用唱歌呢招氹我女瞓。
佢會越唱越興奮，到時我自已受罪！！
所以我既做法係熄晒燈扮瞓，咁佢就會好快瞓著。

我個女都係... 最簡單, 上床, kiss, good night, byebye, 熄燈, 走人... 佢自己就15~20分鐘內豬佐...

jjtseung

原帖由 Mollymama 於 09-4-17 09:58 發表
Yes we always encourage our daughter to speak, to play and to learn.  We don't want put any pressure or any expectation on her, keep it natural is our wish.  However, we note that since she was 11 mon ...

So smart...

我女講野就無咁快... 可能佢係廣東話, 普通話&英文一齊學...

不過, 我地都發現自佢8/9個月大開始, 模仿能力, 學野速度都好快... 都係一兩次就學識! 記得佢10個月大的時候, 爸爸教佢玩櫃筒點樣避開夾唔到手指, 佢學一次就識, 自此之後未曾比櫃筒夾到過手指! 哈哈...

jjtseung

原帖由 Mollymama 於 09-4-17 11:14 發表
Some of my friends (working couples with no help from grandparents) having 2 kids also employ 2 maids, otherwise 1 maid can't do the good job for all the housework and take care of 2 kids!

mollymama, 咁睇, 你同老人家一齊住?? 老人家有時真係好多要求的... 我都試過炒佐個工人, 果陣女女4個月大(好易搞), 請鐘點每日來4個鐘(一個月都要3000文), 我亞爸亞媽住埋來幫手... 點知大家都覺得好累, 好似成日為家務所困, 好討厭! 最後5個月後終於請到個絕世好印, 真係好彩!

1個工人真係做唔晒咁多野, 如果有2個細B的話... 我同工人2對1, 果陣都係覺得岩岩好(我家的雜務較多, 日日要煮飯)...

希望妳地快D脫離"苦海"... 請到個好幫手!