真係忍唔住....其實啲家長知唔知自己係到做緊啲咩架?!

kingigi

我本來都好緊張架,
但C6話我地2個細個都係唔係讀咩名幼稚園架啦,
最緊要都係我地放多點時間與孩子相處,
身教為主,讀書可以讀成世,
所以最後我都係報左 3間,
入唔到都唔無所謂,
讀番PN直升既村校~

lovelinda

你就好啦! 我剛剛相反, 因為阿仔唔會讀家姐個間, 出生率又再高些, 2年後又要重新replay, 我仲仲大壓力呀

原帖由 anki2502 於 11-12-1 16:33 發表
上年我都參加呢個遊戲,見到有人十個八個offer,壓力大到呢...... 好在出年阿女可以輕鬆些,因為佢可以入哥哥果間,唔使同人爭啦!

w_y

我反而開始無壓力, 今年升幼攪到咁, 過兩三年升小肯定大混亂, 只要盡左力, 直/私唔得咪等抽獎. 近一半學額係抽獎派位, 點唔得都唔會無路行.

到時考得到係超叻, 考唔到係正常. 仲點會有壓力呢?

lovelinda

Hi, elmolly and stinkyrabbit111, 好耐無見......你近來好嗎? x2

haha, 我in N1, K1 都是" 洗板"咁讀.......

hi, w_y, 我第一個反應都以為是板主上咗黎

[ 本帖最後由 lovelinda 於 11-12-2 12:41 編輯 ]

wanabe

呢排"蒲"EK, 真"蒲"到有啲depressed. 越睇得多越心寒同無奈. 所以先忍唔住出個咁嘅post發洩吓.....

其實我地嘅小朋友係好需要有一個愉快同純真嘅童年生活. 點解硬要將咁細個人仔就放出去同人競爭? 仲有嘅係, 家長將勝敗得失睇得咁重, 將來啲小朋友又會變成點呢? 而家只係考幼稚園咋....

一個人成功與否, 係唔係一定要同入到名校畫上等號? 係未"走火入魔"之前, 請三思

lovelinda

建議大家睇下這個爸爸的故事~~~

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/vie ... &extra=page%3D1

vnghk0001

Post 過黎都好，好多人冇去小學嗰邊睇。

vnghk0001

而家已經進化左為入唔到名幼稚園會世界末日。

讀名幼稚園唔等於一定成龍，但唔讀就一定不能成龍。

開心小花

原帖由 lovelinda 於 11-12-2 13:31 發表
建議大家睇下這個爸爸的故事~~~

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2353137&extra=page%3D1

我有睇, 真係好感動. 佢真係一位好爸爸. 佢的仔仔係充滿愛的環境下成長, 真係好幸福.

lovelinda

我都明白現在的香港社會, bb多, 競爭大, 又羊群心態.........我自己1年後都要開始為小b找N1, 之後找K1.......淨係睇今年都比上年變化咁大, 我都想像到過多2年, 可能壓力仲大, 家長們可能更誇張.......

所以我希望大家暫時停一停, 諗一諗, 冷靜一下, 想清楚自己想要什麼, 什麼對自己才是最重要, 自己的目標是什麼~~~~等等

看完那個爸爸的故事, 希望一切都回歸原點

wanabe

Very touching

原帖由 lovelinda 於 11-12-2 13:31 發表
建議大家睇下這個爸爸的故事~~~

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2353137&extra=page%3D1

bon_bonny

原帖由 Christi 於 11-12-1 13:47 發表
好同意樓主!

報咁多間KG,其實唔係唔明家長們的心態,咪就係:

1. 擔心仔女無學校收,所以報多幾間 ;
2. 擔心仔女無心儀的學校收,所以報多幾間 ;
3. 未諗清楚/無法去諗清楚邊間KG配合家長價值觀/配合子女發展,所以報多 ...

睇到呢個topic, 我都有問自己究竟知唔知自己係到做緊乜...哈哈!! 其實講真都真係唔係好知, 只係知個女無讀pn, 而下年要讀幼稚園, 半年前開始做research, 但係咁多間學校, 我真係唔知邊間好, 邊間適合, 咪上d forum睇下囉! 報多幾間當親身體驗下間學校適唔適合囉!

Christi 講果10項家長心態, 其實我都中左6-7樣, 但真係無辦法, 除左報多幾間, 我仲可以點呢?? 其實真係好大壓力, 你估我地報得多KG既家長唔辛苦咩? 日日都要開個excel睇, list哂十幾間KG, 幾時download form, 幾時交表, 幾時寄信, 幾時interview, 幾時有result, 又要去排隊, 日曬雨林咁, 為乜喎?? 我唔係想個女成龍成鳳, 只係想同個女鋪條好d既路, 等佢將來唔好行得咁辛苦姐

我報左14間, 己 in 11間, 得2間收, 其他全部waiting, 或未出result, 交左一間留位費...唔收我個女既學校, 我唔會話佢地唔好, 只會覺得應該係女女唔適合間學校.

雖然我好緊張個女, 但都會平常心面對結果

GandL

It's just a vicious cycle.

- some start to act extreme by applying to 20+ or even 30+  kinders

- each kinder receives thousands of applications

- the kinder without choice needs to put thousands of kids into waiting list.

- parents find that their kids receive no or no "good" offers ...

- parents thus apply to even more kinders due to fear

- kinders receive even more applications

- due to the large no. of applications, the time spent by the kinder on each interview is further reduced (which completely defeats the purpose of an interview)

- even more kids are placed on waiting list or reject list

- the fear amongst parents grows even greater (esp. seeing others having 4, 5, 6, 7 offers, or posting out how many "wins" they have amongst their 30+ battles)

- parents apply to even more and more kinders  


so what would be the future????

[ 本帖最後由 GandL 於 11-12-2 17:39 編輯 ]

chubbychu

好感人呀, 睇到我眼濕濕呢.

原帖由 lovelinda 於 11-12-2 13:31 發表
建議大家睇下這個爸爸的故事~~~

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2353137&extra=page%3D1

lnp

We are all little potatos, and we can't change anything. This is called "Living World".

In job seeking, I sent lot of job applications. Absolutely, it increased the successful chance of getting an interview or getting a job.  

In KG seeking, I am doing the same thing. Because I cannot guarantee my daughter can get a seat in a good KG, and that's why I applied for 18 KGs.

We all have to understand & accept the game rules. ****But I would like to emphasis that we should work together in helping our kids. Otherwise, there is no point to come here. ***

GandL

Agree.  that's why the entire thing is frustrtaing.

原帖由 lnp 於 11-12-2 17:45 發表
We are all little potatos, and we can't change anything. This is called "Living World".

In job seeking, I sent lot of job applications. Absolutely, it increased the successful chance of getting an i ...

[ 本帖最後由 GandL 於 11-12-2 18:00 編輯 ]

lnp

No Fedup. Think positive

I really thanks Victoria & LH, which rejected my daughter PN application last year (my kid did really bad in the interviews). It pushed me to spend more time with her.

No pain no gain.

[ 本帖最後由 lnp 於 11-12-2 18:15 編輯 ]

Yipapa

Get touched.  I will take you as my role model.  Good bless you

babyck

大家都希望給子女做好準備，希望大家可share意見及內容

原帖由 lnp 於 11-12-2 07:01 發表
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