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Dr.T

早已收到...但請讓我清一清腦袋再覆 :-| 這幾天飲得太多咖啡...

阿仔個媽 寫道:
...我老公想知佢send俾你嘅M收到未喎？

hoiyin

Dr T:
我見你服務中可以為歲半小朋友做一D評估,我想問下咩情況下小朋友歲半要做評估呢?thx

makmak

dr.t:
我收到第4頁,第5,6頁無收到.請再fax.

gigi2

Dear Dr. T,

We have just finished the assessment for my girl from Ha Kwai Chung which lasted 2.5 hours (we all felt very tired at the end!)

Dr. Luk (a lady) from Ha Kwai Chung finally assessed the result that my girl is not autistic child but with speech delay for 10 months or 1 year and this cause her to be weak in social skills.  She said that my girl is the type of anxiety (situational) and is lack of confidence in some aspects.  I have asked a lot of questions to Dr. Luk regarding the training & development etc.  She told me that my girl did not need to adopt I-seat and the current training from Heep Hong were suitable for her needs.  Dr. Luk is very patient and has explained to me in details about what is autism and what the autistic child would be and why my girl was not that type.  She further advised me that the current major issue was to communicate with my girl's kindergarten as I have to understand what the curriculum in K2 would be and the attitude of school to handle & support my girl in K2 class etc.   

After the assessment, my girl is required to have follow check-up with sight, hearing and visit psychologist in future.  

But one thing which I don't understand after that, she mentioned that the speech delay can be caught up or not.  What's meant that if my girl does not catch up?  Will she become very strange in her life?  Although she is falling behind 10 months (seems still far away from the same age level), she is continuously improving with her speech and attentive skills (the K1 teacher said that her attention span is much better in smaller group and my girl will be transferred to pm session in K2 with 1:8 ration in class).

Can you please give me any comment on her speech or choice of kindergarten or primary school in future?  (Remember we will have a spring date while my girl is going to choose primary school)

Thank you !


  

Dr.T

理論上是可以做梅柏二氏(Merrill-Palmer),但其實一般情況下我會建議待小朋友大些(最少2歲尾/3歲),才進行正式的智力測驗,不要那麼心急口嘛!

以往我甚至會勸家長待小朋友5歲才做韋氏..但最近遇上一個三歲時已做測試(Stanford-Binet)的孩子,現在5歲升小再評估後發現極大可能是讀寫障礙...翻查當日測試結果原來早已有端倪(當然不是指總分,而是分部測驗的分數分佈)...

hoiyin 寫道:
我見你服務中可以為歲半小朋友做一D評估,我想問下咩情況下小朋友歲半要做評估呢?thx

Dr.T

孩子年紀還小嘛,既然証實與同齡小朋友相差不算太遠,那要追回並非沒有可能的事.還是不要想得太遠了,因為現階段始終加強言語及社交溝通訓練最重要,你上次說到了K.2人數會較少,那就最理想嘛...我真的已忘記了

gigi2 寫道:
...she mentioned that the speech delay can be caught up or not...Can you please give me any comment on her speech or choice of kindergarten or primary school in future?..Remember we will have a spring date while my girl is going to choose primary school)

hoiyin

Dr.T
我仲想問下我從那兒可以找到小朋友幾多月至幾多歲的發展指標呢?

Dr.T

協康會出版的"兒童發展手冊"

hoiyin 寫道:
我仲想問下我從那兒可以找到小朋友幾多月至幾多歲的發展指標呢?

gigi2

It's alright because you have too many fans here ar...


[quote]你上次說到了K.2人數會較少,那就最理想嘛...我真的已忘記了  

Dr.T

No lar...

gigi2 寫道:
It's alright because you have too many fans here ar...

hoiyin

thx

hoiyin 寫道:
Dr.T
我仲想問下我從那兒可以找到小朋友幾多月至幾多歲的發展指標呢?

jjsam

Dr T:

唔好意思，我想問問關於我女的問題，希望你可以比少少意見我。
我女兒現四歲三個月，發現她語言能力很強，我在她兩歲11個月時才開始教她英文及英文併音，至現在才一年半，但她現在已讀到外國一些readers寫是7歲以上的書。有很多字是她自學的，因為她除了喜歡看故事書外，重喜歡看兒童字典，即一個字，一個圖o個o的，近這兩個月，她表現更怪，每日書接書的不停看，差不多要一個小時，叫她好幾次才收手，晚上叫她不要再看，要睡覺，她都會哭的。
她特別喜歡看字，每看一頁都是看一看圖，看完字再細看多一次張圖的，問她的問題都懂得用英語回答，而且發音很準確，遇到有些英文的併音與她學的rules是不同的，她都十分緊張要知點解(例如island點解唔係讀is-land，無s音)
語文方面也很特出，除了說話好完整，常帶有原因同解譯外，重唔知點解非常喜歡role play，大半年前開始，已經日日要家中的人在不同的時候份一些她在故事中，或現實生活中的角色，佢要安排所有人做一些互相關聯的人，例如她是baby box，媽媽就要做BJ，爸爸要做Barny。她是princess時，媽媽就要做prince，爸爸是witch，工人姐姐是fairy god mother......等等。而她會模榜故事中一些對話及情節要所有人陪她扮，又或創出自己的新情節，要其他人配合故事發展。如果扮的人是只會說英文的，她就會用英文說話，其他人都要用英文...等等。她每日都不停的要扮不同的角色。「不如而家我做媽媽，你做女，爸爸做我老公，好唔好？」不夠半個鐘，她又可能要求大家做唔同的角色。我常常勸佢做番自己，但佢成日都話佢唔鐘意做自己！！點解呢？
我回校問老師，他只說佢very smart，記憶力非常好，昨日教的東西，今日問問題時多數都只有我女識答。教的歌或普通話詩歌，都是一教都識背，每次上課都要出去表演。雖然她未學樂器，但音準非常好，除了一聽到別人唱走音就好大發應外，我比她玩的玩具樂器有少少走音她都好介意，要我整番好。
性格好主動，非常善交際，番、放學時，一大堆家長同小朋友在學校附近公園玩時，她都好主動同一些她唔識的小朋友甚至家長交談，很多家長都話，佢好大膽，成日主動覺同學仔的家長談話，問佢一些關於o個個同學的問題。
但她也有較弱的地方，情緒控制好差，小小事就悲從中來o甘，一哭會哭到講唔到o野，叫佢深呼吸都唔得，好敏感，少少事就發脾氣。經常在公眾場合做一些她明知我是最不喜歡的行為，好似一定要做到我發火，打佢鬧佢，唔采佢，喊o西幫收場。經常要我在公眾面前出丑。
食o野食得好差，對食物無o羊大興趣，好似成日唔知餓，所以身高同體重都進展得好慢。訓覺訓得好差，成日發開口夢，發惡夢，訓訓下哭....等。數學方面只是一般，運動方面、平衡、發應，敏倢都屬於差。

以以上的種種，我係唔係應該帶佢去check下知商呢？去邊度check呢？邊一種測試適合佢呢？幾錢呢？

唔好意思，好似寫得太長，希望你可以幫幫我。唔該。

Siue

Siue 寫道:
Dr.T:
我也想要Omega3的文章請email:[email protected]
謝謝!

Recd', tks a lot!!!

cy101

Dr. T,

Congraduation! and thanks for your quick response!

係你講個間地區名校,兩間離我屋企一樣距離!

既已出關,幾時見到你本秘笈面世!     

cy

Dr.T

1. 但間私校喺九龍個噃 你究竟住邊架 定係兩間一樣咁"遠" 如果係咁,間私校會做得好過間地區名校.

2. 書展...到時應該會長駐某出版社counter客串做sales   ,搵d外快  

cy101 寫道:
1. 係你講個間地區名校,兩間離我屋企一樣距離!
2. 既已出關,幾時見到你本秘笈面世!

Dr.T

己看到你的疑問,請容許我再想清楚再答你

jjsam 寫道:
...

cy101

Dr.T 寫道:
1. 但間私校喺九龍個噃 你究竟住邊架 定係兩間一樣咁"遠" 如果係咁,間私校會做得好過間地區名校.

2. 書展...到時應該會長駐某出版社counter客串做sales   ,搵d外快  

1.荔景,你話我係咪處於兩間學校中間
2.今年書展幾時開始? ,可 否講個counter no.俾大家知,買番一,二拾本好書 ,
3.開始keep fit 未呀,大家好期待見你呀!

cy

Dr.T

1. 我都估唔係呢度就美孚架啦 :

2. 7月20...我都未知邊個counter...

3. 聽日開始...日日都咁話...話左2年幾...我係可以上落"爭"50磅果隻人...

cy101 寫道:
1...荔景
2.今年書展幾時開始?
3.開始keep fit 未呀,大家好期待見你呀!

cy101

3. 聽日開始...日日都咁話...話左2年幾...我係可以上落"爭"50磅果隻人...

少咗50磅,可以變成另一個人,你有無睇過"修x堂"d真人騷呀,個個都由豬肉佬變俊男   

稚言治語

Dr.T 寫道:
我係可以上落"爭"50磅果隻人...

50磅？？      有咩秘笈，唔該過兩招嚟﹗我淨上唔落﹗