08/09年度 K1A 上午班 (KENT RD.) 報到!!

iamjackie

oh...so sorry ..Adan mami...

Wingtung just told me she fall down and hit the head, but never tell me she fall down and Adan is under her...haha

yes, i speak and then she write the words, but sometimes she cant recognize, eg. N, M, S, X....etc
so, i will write the word on the paper to show her again...but 成地血.....

原帖由 JNBvv 於 08-12-12 10:28 發表
Hi all,

Long time no see.....

昨天 miss so 打電話比我, 通知我 Adan 在學校跑步時被後面同學撞到跌落地, 個咀仔流好多血同腫在, miss so 打電話比我, 話流好多血, 等我仲問佢要唔要 " 聯針", 佢話唔駛,老師幫 ...

iamjackie

hi all...
just get the following infos from other topics...it is written by 鄧藹霖...want to share with u all..

http://ss.crazyandhappy.com/dz/viewthread.php?tid=9023
http://www.hkcs.org/cnews/c280/c28007.htm
http://security.mingpao.com/books/cfm/books.cfm?Path=writer_07.htm

tracyyung

MY DAUGHTER IS CHONG PUI WAN,FAT GIRL
HER SISTER NOW IN K3

weewee

Oh Adan ma,

How's Adan? He might feel very painful for breaking his mouth. Hope he's alright. But he's a brave guy for not crying!

原帖由 JNBvv 於 08-12-12 10:28 發表
Hi all,

Long time no see.....

昨天 miss so 打電話比我, 通知我 Adan 在學校跑步時被後面同學撞到跌落地, 個咀仔流好多血同腫在, miss so 打電話比我, 話流好多血, 等我仲問佢要唔要 " 聯針", 佢話唔駛,老師幫 ...

weewee

Hi Pui Wan mami,

My son's called Chun Him. Nice to meet you!

原帖由 tracyyung 於 08-12-12 11:17 發表
MY DAUGHTER IS CHONG PUI WAN,FAT GIRL
HER SISTER NOW IN K3

weewee

Tung Tung ma,
I also read her books some time ago and it really gave me lots of insight of what's more important than having a good relationship with our kids!

原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-12-12 11:09 發表
hi all...
just get the following infos from other topics...it is written by 鄧藹霖...want to share with u all..

http://ss.crazyandhappy.com/dz/viewthread.php?tid=9023
http://www.hkcs.org/cnews/c280/c ...

weewee

yes, sometimes I also see some of the children hitting or kicking their parents when they are losing temper...It's terrible and both of hubby and me won't tolerate this behavior. If it happens on Him Him, we must punish him seriously....but luckily so far, he's never done that to us and others.

原帖由 iamjackie 於 08-12-12 10:40 發表
Hi Mary,

I agree with you, we must set our standard as high esp, for boy...賞罰分明, when they do somethings wrong, we need to punish/hit them..and, we need to hug them and already express our feelin ...

iamjackie

Hi Tracy...welcome...which team of Pui Wan? Wigntung is banana team now...let me check with her whether she knows Pui Wan...

原帖由 tracyyung 於 08-12-12 11:17 發表
MY DAUGHTER IS CHONG PUI WAN,FAT GIRL
HER SISTER NOW IN K3

iamjackie

yes, we cant let them be a 野蠻孩子...

When we saw Wingtung "ha" 姐姐, we also blame and teach her, can not do that....

原帖由 weewee 於 08-12-12 11:27 發表
yes, sometimes I also see some of the children hitting or kicking their parents when they are losing temper...It's terrible and both of hubby and me won't tolerate this behavior. If it happens on Him  ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi Kat,
Anson 好識照顧體貼人...喎..邊個第時娶到佢就幸福啦.....

Hi Mary,
it is very difficult to have set the balance of  "恩威並重" ...i  used to have the same high standard until one day  my ex indo maid told me of below story when she went to pick up Preston from nearby nursey..On the way home, my son asked his friend XX.

Preston: XX .你媽媽係咪都成日罵你打你架?
XX was holding his mom's hand and 當然唔識答佢啦...
Preston: 你知吾知我媽媽好惡架...佢成日罵我同打我架!!
XX's mother can not stop laughing and then told my son
XX' mom : Preston 如果XX百厭, 我都會打佢架!!!

My ex-maid  found it was very funny to hear these, and told me when i returned home.  But i felt very sad when i heard this, because my image was so bad in his little mind.  Now i decided to have another approach...and every time i think i am going to lose my temper....i warned him first.

iamjackie

Preston is so cute and mature..he can express this feeling to his friend when he just in Nursery...
and he can check with friend whether same as what he has...so good....

but this is what i never think...they will share such infos together....

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-12 11:45 發表
Hi Kat,
Anson 好識照顧體貼人...喎..邊個第時娶到佢就幸福啦.....

Hi Mary,
it is very difficult to have set the balance of  "恩威並重" ...i  used to have the same high standard until one day  my ex indo ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi Tracy

Welcome...my son is Preston ..he is now in Banana team.

weewee

Preston ma,

Preston is so great to share his feeling when he's just in nursery. I understand your feeling. It would be a bit heartbreaking when we learned that our image is bad in the mind of our kids. But that's good that you know it so that you can improve the way we handle with our kids. Don't be sad!

Hubby and I won't hit Him Him. Most of the time we will blame him for his doing wrong things. After blamed him, sometimes he will say:"I don't want daddy/mami!". It's also heartbreaking sometimes. But I won't take it serious. Instead, I'll ignore him for a while until he says sorry to me. Most of the time it works 'cos Him Him is kind of 善忘 guy who'll forget the scene when we blame him easily.

Sometimes i tried to blame him loudly but be more patient..but sometimes it's difficult to control when you have fire on your head...haha.

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-12 11:45 發表
Hi Kat,
Anson 好識照顧體貼人...喎..邊個第時娶到佢就幸福啦.....

Hi Mary,
it is very difficult to have set the balance of  "恩威並重" ...i  used to have the same high standard until one day  my ex indo ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi Adan ma,

Poor Adan...he is so brave .not even a tear..果然係男孩子 ..Pls help me to give a 叻叻 to him la.   And let he drinks and eat cool stuff in order to make the wounds not hurting too much...
Preston mentioned Adan got hurt at the mouth..but he did not tell me it happenend in school.

Hi Tung Tung ma,
Maybe Tung tung did not feel painful at the time she fell so she did not mentioned to teachers...or she was too shocked to see Adan's wound...and forgot her own pain   Preston's legs always got so many blues..i always use 喜療妥...u try try ..
唉..i was very 瘀..as my son "唱"我...actually Preston was very slow in speaking when he was 2..( i was very worried) then after he started full day nursey..he picked up very very fast....  but his pronunciation is still not very clear.

Hi Weewee,
There was a "開心家長學府" in Po Lam.  I attended their courses before (when i was a full time mom) ...it was very good and a lot of group sharing..but their schedules only suits full time mommies.

JNBvv

wee wee,
Adan 今日都返學, 祗係個咀 " 損左". 現在塗 d cream 等佢無咁乾.

Preston mami,
我今晚會話比佢聽, auntie 讚佢 " 叻叻" .  我都想佢堅強 D
唔無遇到小小事就哭, 有時同小朋友玩, "爭"唔到玩具、 屋企玩" 中文字咭"輸左都哭......我同佢講您輸了, 就要拍手, 恭喜人, 等佢可以輸得起.  
學校唔知幾時開始有組長, Adan 話比我知, 佢個檯係 si-chung做組長, 我問佢組長做什麼 ?
佢話組長幫同學取鉛筆, 我問佢您想唔想做,
佢答我媽咪我大個仔 , 唔做啦 !.....

Hi pui wan mami,
nice to see you ..... !

原帖由 weewee 於 08-12-12 11:20 AM 發表
Oh Adan ma,

How's Adan? He might feel very painful for breaking his mouth. Hope he's alright. But he's a brave guy for not crying!

Genki

聽到有小朋友受傷, 我都好肉痛...Adan 好叻仔, 希望佢快d好番!

原帖由 JNBvv 於 08-12-12 14:33 發表
wee wee,
Adan 今日都返學, 祗係個咀 " 損左". 現在塗 d cream 等佢無咁乾.

Preston mami,
我今晚會話比佢聽, auntie 讚佢 " 叻叻" .  我都想佢堅強 D
唔無遇到小小事就哭, 有時同小朋友玩, "爭"唔到玩具、 屋企玩" ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi Mary
Eventually I will take 19th off ..May I  join u for breakfast too?

weewee

Is 19Dec the birthday party/christmas party for the kids?

marywmf

iamjackie,
I saw wing tung being picked up by her dad. She looked very cheerful. They were going to join you and celebrate your birthday? Happy Birthday!!!
Thanks for your kind words. Yet, my hubby's family had been very loose to him when he was a kid. that's why he didn't think discipline is necessary. Oh my God!!!

Adan ma,
I'm so sorry to hear that Adan has hurt his mouth. By the way, Adrian told me that he got headache thursday evening. i asked him why. he said he bumped his head to the slide. i forgot to ask the details from miss so this morning. :-/  Today, I saw man him. he didn't look anything different. i didn't see the cut. Glad that he recovered very well. Hope you could join our breakfast next Friday.

prestonmom,
i saw preston this morning. i called his name and he smiled at me. I love your story. i spank or threaten to spank adrian quite a lot. i'm not proud of this at all but you had been a stay-home mom and you must know kids are used to test our limits EVERY MINUTE. But i believe in the meantime, it won't happen to me because adrian is not speaking cantonese as fluent as Preston. i tell him that only when he's misbehaved, i'll hit him. i often remind him that i love him very very much and beg him for not making me mad and angry. To reinforce his good behaviour, I give him a sticker before sleep if he got no '打打'.

weewee,
yes, i think next friday is the birthday party for Nov/Dec kids plus christmas party.

Puiwan ma,
Welcome to Kent Road k1A! My son is Adrian. Are you a working mom or a stay-home mom? We're going to have breakfast @ Pacific coffee next Friday morning. Could you join us?

party-goers on Dec 21,
fyi, Sophia's family will join us too!

[ 本帖最後由 marywmf 於 08-12-13 00:08 編輯 ]

iamjackie

yes, wingtung is so happy that her dad to pick her from school...as she requested before why we can like other parents to pick them from school.....i have explained to her as we need to work and no more holiday for this year, will try to do it next year...she seems understand at that moment...haha

there has x'mas party at my husband's company last friday, so he go with wingtung and then have dinner with me....so poor that wingtung has slept for the whole time when we have dinner....seem we have table for 2....haha...

原帖由 marywmf 於 08-12-13 00:05 發表
iamjackie,
I saw wing tung being picked up by her dad. She looked very cheerful. They were going to join you and celebrate your birthday? Happy Birthday!!!
Thanks for your kind words. Yet, my hubby's ...