好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gigi2

Justjust,

Congratulations to you!  Good care of yourself and the little BB in your body!!  With your experience encountered, surely your little B will not have any problem in language development!  Will you take care of your both kids after giving birth or any special arrangement for this?

Regarding the telephone conversation, this requires more advanced level of communication as absolutely based on listening and imagination.  Initially, my small girl will reject to talk on the phone with me, then gradually listen to my own talking or sometimes speak to herself on phone.  As time passed, she then started to make simple communication on phone with me everyday i.e. what did she eat for lunch?  Outside is sunny or raining?  Kiss me with saying 1, 2, 3 first etc.  That is a good training as well.

mickeyma

Hinhinmummy,
My mother will be with us still till end of Jan. we will get some termperary maid during this period. My mother can not bear the long trip (4 hours) every day sending my son to and back from school.  She will mainly take care of cooking and my daughter. My husband will send my son to school and pick him up at the moment till we get the termperary maid.
I myself have to get up around 5:40am to prepare the breakfast and get my daughter up around 6:30 to eat and dress up before my mother sending her out to school bus stop. Then that is 7:00am, I will get my son out of bed and get him ate and dressed and then my husband's job to send him to school around 7:30am.... Sigh... already exhausted, even more workloads on shoulder now. But out of my expectation, we can handle that quite well today.. :0
A good helper is really important..

思佳媽咪

Dear mickeyma

You must be having a difficult time, poor!  I think it takes less than two months to hire a new maid now even from Philippines.  Why don't you take one who can come earlier?  I always like to hire fresh ones from Philippines because they will have less bad habits & less tricky.

It's a good experience meeting you and other mums last week.  We should arrange more gatherings like that in future.

hinhinmummy

思佳媽咪

我估mickeyma的工人係印印, 對嗎?

一個盡責的工人真係好難求.

希望你的新工人能夠乖乖地.

陸美爸

hi...HI...各位mama~

我返黎喇...事關老公放完大假了, 99又返番屋企了, 終於有D私人時間喇...

陸美媽

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hinhinmummy:
吾該晒, 今日在王姑娘做第一堂, 基本上的效果都幾好,一個小時都可以在椅子度過, 有d動作在姑娘幫助下都可以做到.
我有朋友叫我轉學校,加多小小錢, 但全日, 早上12小朋友有2個miss + 嫂. 下午會小d, (此校是新校, 在最初開學是行政混亂, 但現在應該好多了, )  我朋友的兒子現在讀緊此校, 但我又怕囝囝適應力慢, 因現在的n1學校就出名d, 但可能大班d, 我應否轉校, 新校雖然說是1比6, 但始終是普通幼稚園, 應否請姐姐每天教1小時 or 1.5小時呢, 用王姑娘錄的vc.

joanna:
我都是排了"容鳳書"是11月約10見姑娘, 見完后通知要5--6個月, 是否要這樣長久呀? 另我在12月21日約了健康院, 應否去見姑娘呀?
另12月24日又約了"廣華"兒科, 想盡快做評估, 是否約了太多評估呀?

Hei媽

咪咪EE

有懷疑早評估, 唔好以為咁細無用, 我囝囝都係18個月經健康院轉介,如Joanna說大慨一星期就見姑娘, 到足21個月時已見醫生做評估,同時經醫生轉介到兒科及精神科. 見醫科醫生時又替囝囝做腦電圖,磁力共震及耳測試等.  由評估到現在差不多6個月,在協康做幼兒訓練也有五個月, 呀囝進步唔少,所以唔好唗時間,越快越能糾正佢哋啲唔好野.

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妳講的那所新學校在那區,可否PM我 不知廣華是否自己約還是經轉介? 我又覺得既然約咗, 就去啦,我都知係好心急知結果,不過無論點,都要積極面對,相信呢度啲媽咪都係一樣.

Just Just

真係可喜可賀, 有時都想生多個, 但還未能衝破心理關口,預早祝妳小B女身心健康.快樂!

今日第一次到中環見黃姑娘, 呀仔的反應好好, 今次係玩圖卡,用圖卡換食物及玩具,就算是換了供應者或雙方距離拉遠及圖卡離開他小小, 他都知道換了供應者及尋找圖卡和行遠小小,務必拿到他想要的東西.當中黃姑娘亦從中教我們的技巧, 上了6堂,呀囝今次反應最好, 不知這是否就是夾?不過上完堂,吃完飯,回家已九時半. 很累.不過未敢偷懶.

Mickyma

好開心妳囝囝的進步,我也見了Dr Raymond Chan2次,佢好 nice,由於還未有政府訓練,故安排小組訓練給囝囝,但未知幾時有位, 他亦教了我們不少技巧,他亦說呀囝比上個月進步咗,如眼神及對自己名字的反應.不過下個月又要見,好累,妳呢?仲駛唔駛再見佢?

另,希望妳新工人好啦, 係呢段時間,辛苦了,不過最緊要呀囝沒有太大影響. 努力.


加油啦,各位!!

hinhinmummy

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軒軒都係返全日的, 其實當初我都好擔心佢可不可以適應到, 因為要食飯.訓覺.  點知佢都可以, 雖然都要成2個月的時間, 但起碼佢依家可以自己'不'飯, 又可以訓晏覺(係學校).

可以話比機會佢學習照顧自己.  軒軒果間都係普通的幼稚園.

陸美媽

wellcome back

hei 媽

中環的黃姑娘係邊個呀?

軒軒依家都對自己個名有反應啦, 我問佢, 軒軒呢? 佢會拍下心口, 講'軒軒', 媽咪呢? 拍下我心口.

唯一同佢講"叫我呀", 佢係不係都叫'姑姑', 因為姑姑日日叫佢幾次'叫我呀', 所以佢一聽到人'叫我呀', 就叫姑姑.

同埋依家比野軒軒, 佢會識得講'謝謝, 媽咪', 謝謝, 家家'

hinhinmummy

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不記得講, 真開心聽到你仔仔可以坐定定, 軒軒初時去的時侯, 係'自由行', 到最近先肯坐定定.

承承媽媽

justjust,

恭喜晒你呀!小心身體呀!唔好咁粗勞呀!

陸美媽,
歡迎你歸來呀!

Sandrine

我剛好相反﹐係大女言語遲緩﹐細女仲未出世(而家五個月)﹐我地知道將來一定好辛苦﹐但我好想好想佢地互相有伴﹐成長得開心D。

Congratulations justjust.  I'm really happy for you.  It's good that your daughter will have company soon and someone to share. I'm sure she'll be happy too.

P.S. Thanks for your advice regarding YMCA Toddlers' World earlier.  

Sandrine

mickeyma

思佳媽咪, Hinhinmummy,
My new maid is from Indonesia as we do not like Philippine maid as they are more difficult to handle. We like the fresh one as well due to the reason 思佳媽咪 mentioned. That is why it takes longer time to get her here. Like Hinhinmummy said, I prayed and hoped God would hear and send a good one to us this time... I talked to her on the phone, seems she is quite active one, and quick action. Somehow is better for my son.

It is my great pleasure to meet you the other day, 思佳媽咪!Hope can meet all of you soon!

Hei媽,
Dr. Chan is really nice person. We will come back at the beginning of Mar. 2005 to see him. As we have the service from SCCC, we do not have training from there. He mentioned to us that if the doctor in
中九龍智能测試中心 had any doubt reg. my son's lining up for I seat on the coming interview on the begining of next year, I should ask them to call him. Besides, his smile is warm.

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Hei 媽:
我想找朋友預約的, 見完兒科醫生, 之后吾知點再約見, (我會追我老公, 佢攪的),可能見精神科.

另學校是普通學校, 在將軍澳將軍澳廣場--比諾幼稚園, 好似話2層過萬尺, 半日$1800.00 全日$2600.00, 中英文老師, 可以在早上8:00 返學, 9:00 食早餐, 在8:00--9:00 之間有MISS 同你傾計, 每日20分鐘英文, 朋友說是坐在 膠墊上說故事, 說出公仔名. 我朋友個仔 30月大連病 & 星期天都要返學, (在剛剛新開校是非常混亂的.)听朋友說我現在囝囝返的學校,很多學生都轉此校
明天學校收生日. 在將軍澳地鐵A出口, 找將軍澳廣場.
但在今個月先攪好"社署" 合格証, 因消防問題.

HINHINMUMMY>
我昨晚看VC. 王姑娘話囝囝都有小小眼神接觸, 后來都會主動同玩具說"拜拜"  

hinhinmummy

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下次同埋仔仔一齊看, 幫佢溫故知新.

尋日拿返出黎看, 點知看看下, 可能錄得不好, 無聲, 軒軒即刻望下講'無'.

justjust

Thank you all, Sandrine, gigi2, Hei媽﹐承承媽媽。

gigi2,

Regarding the telephone conversation, this requires more advanced level of communication as absolutely based on listening and imagination.  Initially, my small girl will reject to talk on the phone with me, then gradually listen to my own talking or sometimes speak to herself on phone.  As time passed, she then started to make simple communication on phone with me everyday i.e. what did she eat for lunch?  Outside is sunny or raining?  Kiss me with saying 1, 2, 3 first etc.  That is a good training as well.

係呀﹐初時我地同個女講電話都係甘架﹐我地講三分之二﹐佢講三分之一﹐有時仲剩係得我地講﹐佢唔出聲。真係要持之以恆﹐由開始講電話到而家差唔多成年﹐加上個女大個左﹐而家先至叫做有D有意義既對話。

Sandrine,

你最後有冇報到YMCA既課程﹖我地而家讀緊LN(Lower Nursery=N1 or pre-nursery),冇讀Toddlers' World.剛剛幫啊女報左YMCA既游泳班(Level 1),一月開始。雖然冬天上堂﹐但係暖水池﹐上個禮拜去試過都OK。希望可以善用時間﹐幫佢發洩精力﹐學點有用既野。

Hei媽﹐

你就好啦﹐可以跟翻黃姑娘﹐又就到時間。我地冇基督教服務處既消息﹐可能仲未安排倒新ST。今早就上左政府ST第一堂訓練﹐須然得半個鐘﹐但都俾倒我地一D新既技巧同新既學習目標。個女又似乎同政府ST幾夾﹐佢又幾好人﹐本來今日唔見client,都特登攝一堂俾我地。不過一個月一次始終太少﹐我地仍然希望基督教服務處安排倒新ST﹐又或者跟翻黃姑娘(須然唔想工人山長水遠帶啊女去中環)。

hinhinmummy,

中環黃姑娘係基督教服務處介紹既ST﹐肯到觀塘近我地屋企上堂﹐但過了六個月﹐由每次連續兩個client增加到三個﹐真係朝九晚九﹐每次拖一個細旅行夾裝玩具黎。她覺得太辛苦﹐便決定唔再黎觀塘。我等緊基督教服務處介紹新既ST﹐我自己係中環返工冇所謂﹐但就唔係甘想工人帶啊女去中環﹐費是佢掛住傾電話唔照顧個女。

JOANNA722

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佢地多數都話5-6個月, 但我見大多數都唔'洗', 我同我個朋友係容鳳書果間都係等左2個月都無, 就見醫生lu..你12月見的是否自己打去約期(因覺得佢有特別), 還是佢夠某歲數要返去見, 如果係你見佢有特別而返去見, 我諗不用了, 浪費時間,你耐心等見醫生的電話吧 , 因我之前又係感去見, 但佢知你係已在處理中, 只會問幾句, 就走得.. 無聊.
12月24日有時間味去law, 因看多個醫生話咩野都好, 反正自己又心急.去協康都要幾百銀啦啦!

hinhinmummy

justjust

多謝你解答, 軒軒最近都開始返政府的社交訓練playgroup, 但每次去親都大喊, 不肯坐定定, 可能悶, 又或者同大口環不夾啦, 我依家都等緊政府的早期訓練, 始終都平過私人.

陸美爸

請教各位~

點樣可以教仔仔"點頭"呢？我教極佢都唔識... :-|

陸美媽

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joanna722:
我係醫生寫紙見"容鳳書" 頭尾的時間都攪了一小時, 是11月頭去的. 前兩日打電話去問, 就叫我等5--6月. 唉

hinhinmummy:
今晚同囝囝一起看 vc. 好似有小小味, 后尾又麻麻地看, 我又學王姑娘買了聖誕樹, 不過我的是用"紙做" 教囝囝玩掛"波波" 應下景, 跟住玩泥膠, 囝囝拿全泥膠在手, 不肯玩, 連"刷牙吐水都不玩", 不過肯跟我說: "吐 "  (在吐水之后)

咪咪EE

Hi 各位:

我今日終於Fax左封轉介信,姑娘就下晝打俾我約時間,12月已經爆滿,而家要約到1月15日呀.....

係呢,我想問下大家平日會同小朋友玩d乜野有幫助既遊戲呢?可以分享下嗎??等我偷下師,幫下仔仔嘛。我通常同佢玩泥膠,煮飯仔,砌puzzles,畫畫,講故事,有無d幫助佢講野既遊戲介紹下呢,佢真係唔多開口自己講野,要我逐個字叫佢跟我講,佢就肯講囉.....many thanks.

JOANNA722 寫道:
咪咪EE
去約左未?  我當日啊仔都係在容鳳書做評估, 打電話約見姑娘好快(within one week), 跟住見姑娘用左1 至 2 個鍾, 問下啊b日常生活, family history, 玩下玩具睇佢下佢識唔識指下野, 有無望人, 說話能力又 看下佢d大小肌等等.  跟住等左不用2個月就見醫生, 所以你約得來, 啊仔都2歲lu...
你啊仔2月follow up 時, 先至諗同唔同佢地講law, 佢係私家醫生我估佢最後可以做既係比封轉介信你.
我覺得2歲做評估唔會係好早, 等得政府d資源來, 啊仔又大左了....