好擔心...醫生話BB發展遲緩~~

gigi2

Everyday when she sings the songs so nice and pronounces those full sentences  accurately which I expect she is able to fully understand and utilize them very soon.  By the way, while my girl expresses herself, her pronunciation both in English and Cantonese are very correct.  When she speaks English with those words of s or t sounds etc, she will not be lazy to swallow them!

Just expect it will happen in the near future!

承承媽媽

軒媽,

唔好咁唔開心啦!    其實我地每個人都會好似你咁,遇到唔開心o野時會諗:之前我係唔係做錯d乜乜乜呢?攪到依家咁......    (最常問o既係:我係唔係唔應該同隻死佬結婚?! :evil:  :evil:   )不過諗番之前o既o野都係無用o既,最好慳番d力嚟向前努力啦!

唔好話你有兩個細路,我得一個我都覺得好多o野兼顧唔到...... :cry:  :cry: 而且我老公都曾經詐我型,話我淨係顧住個仔就得啦!尤其我依家要返份替工,一早出咗門口,放工即刻去接仔,返到屋企就即刻同佢出去食飯,之後返到屋企就要做家務同陪仔玩,有時兩樣都兼顧唔到,間屋好似垃圾崗咁! 所以我依家諗住定個時間表,預先計劃每晚會同仔玩哪一類玩具,咁唔使好似次次同佢玩都好求其咁......   

你都可以設一個時間表,例如:mon 8:00-9:00姐姐,9:00-10:00軒軒,呢一個鐘係儘可能只俾呢個孩子的.到tue就倒轉,對軒軒的影響可能不是太大,但對你女女來說,她會覺得每天有一段時間是自己和媽咪兩個的,是很珍貴的.
不過最難係持之以恆,就好似做運動減肥咁! :  :

gigi2

Dear hinhinmummy,

Please do not feel down or blame yourself.  You are the very responsible mummy and love both of your children very much.  Bringing up children is not solely responsible by you.  Your husband or other family members also need to support them!  You should be proud of your girl and compliment & encourage her when it is right time!  Not too late and gives her a big hug tonight!  All along, I keep my elder girl to be aware that how deep my love to both them through either verbal or nonverbal languages.  They will know and feel how much you have dedicated to them!

678

joanna
check pm pls.

hinhinmummy
我都係咁諗, 我陀個仔時, 嘔足十個月, 唔夠營養比佢,結果係咁..... 本來諗著生多個陪個大女玩, 第日佢地生活都有相有量 :cry:

kakab105

hinhinmummy

我都有諗係咪最衰自己慳錢，冇去 私家開刀生 佢，先搞到佢發展得唔好................. :cry:

hinhinmummy

多謝甘多位媽咪的鼓勵, 我會努力, 不過屈埋好幸苦, 想搵過地方發洩下者.

678

你還有個大女? 當彩我又係諗住生多個陪家姐, 依家反而'mok 削'左家姐的時間.

gigi2

我依家隔個星期六, 阿女短週, 軒軒要返學, 我會一早起身, 同佢食麥當當, 帶佢去玩, 然後一齊接軒軒放學, 阿女還話, 無左軒軒輕鬆好多.

承承媽媽

我都有諗:
係唔係我嫁著個唔多講o野o既老公,所以生個仔有自閉傾向?
係唔係因為我在實驗室做,吸咗太多有毒物質在身體內,以致阿仔咁?
係唔係因為穿咗水但只係沁出少少,所以我唔知係穿水,以致阿仔留嚮我個肚裡面多咗一個禮拜,所以攪成咁?
又或者曾經倒親佢個頭,所以依家咁?
........

不過諗咁多以前都係無用o架!不如留番多d精力同佢地training啦!       

hinhinmummy

承承媽媽

哈哈, 諗下者, 向前望!!!!!!!!

尋晚個衰仔, 陪訓的時侯, 訓訓下走左返自己房望街, 我未鎖門不比佢返入黎law, 佢望望下, 倦啦, 想入房入不到, 叫佢爸爸開門, 爸爸話佢都開不到, 跟住就大喊.... 老公叫我不好開比佢, 罰下佢, 比佢知道規距.

但, 5分鐘後, 我失敗啦, 之後就要抱住訓....

5分鐘呈強, 之後就不止5分鐘......

承承媽媽

軒媽,
尋晚我都俾我隻仔玩死呀!
我九點半諗住橫豎夜了,就快手沖埋涼陪仔瞓啦!衰仔一直嚮張床由床頭碌到床尾,又唱歌,又數手指,又叫又講o野......(我隻仔唔要佢瞓都唔多o野講o架! :evil:  :evil: ),到後來碌到成十一點都未瞓,我就鬧鬼佢,自己起身去洗頭(因為原本諗住早d瞓今朝起身洗),我洗完出嚟佢就差不多瞓咗!   
不過到今朝一早五點幾就醒咗呀!又嚮樹攪攪震......激死呀!     

hinhinmummy

承承媽媽

哈哈, 大家都同病相憐.

承承都好d, 肯比你去洗頭, 我去廁所, 軒軒都不比呀, 陪訓就真係要陪到佢訓著, 陰公.

連佢老師都話, 甘哆.

JOANNA722

mickeyma
真係替你開心, 我都等緊這日.

JOANNA722

咪咪EE
去約左未?  我當日啊仔都係在容鳳書做評估, 打電話約見姑娘好快(within one week), 跟住見姑娘用左1 至 2 個鍾, 問下啊b日常生活, family history, 玩下玩具睇佢下佢識唔識指下野, 有無望人, 說話能力又 看下佢d大小肌等等.  跟住等左不用2個月就見醫生, 所以你約得來, 啊仔都2歲lu...
你啊仔2月follow up 時, 先至諗同唔同佢地講law, 佢係私家醫生我估佢最後可以做既係比封轉介信你.
我覺得2歲做評估唔會係好早, 等得政府d資源來, 啊仔又大左了....

hinhinmummy

咪咪ee

不記得講, 你個兒科醫生算好啦, 同你講你個仔的問題.  我個仔果個-

軒軒兩歲多d的時侯, 我問醫生, 點解佢不講野, 有無事? 佢話無事, 好多男仔講野都係慢的.

到兩歲半又問, 都話無事, 但我話, 醫生不係呢, 不講野wor, 一個單字都不識講wor, 佢先話, 如果我驚的話, 就寫紙比我帶佢去check啦.

但佢呢度就好過你果個, 佢即刻寫埋信封, 地址, 還貼埋郵票, 比我拿去寄.

之後做完評估, 我又帶佢返去看醫生, 喊住同醫生講, 醫生, 大口環話軒軒自閉症wor, 甘點算呀?

醫生話 : 甘佢又真係不望人wor.

出到去拿藥, 連d 姑娘都用d 好特別的眼光, 望住軒軒, 走的時侯, 我叫軒軒同姑娘bye bye, 軒軒不望佢, 個姑娘還話, 真係不望人wor.

不明白的人, 用歧視/好奇的眼光望軒軒, 好無耐.

justjust

咪咪EE ,

我都係容鳳書做﹐唔知有冇記錯﹐可以打電話約期見姑娘﹐只需傳真醫生轉介信加小朋友出世紙。記住問清楚見姑娘當日要帶的文件。希望你早D約到期﹐無論結果點樣﹐你都會知到下一步應點做﹐唔駛心掛掛。

hinhinmummy,

其他媽媽講得對﹐唸返以前D野真係剩係唸下好啦﹐最重要係向前望。你知道俾少左時間俾大女﹐以後俾返多D時間佢﹐每日至少同佢傾幾個字計﹐都好架。

我剛好相反﹐係大女言語遲緩﹐細女仲未出世(而家五個月)﹐我地知道將來一定好辛苦﹐但我好想好想佢地互相有伴﹐成長得開心D。

mamee,

作晚唔記得講﹐冇所謂叻D唔叻D﹐大家都係朝住同一個方向努力。

hinhinmummy

justjust

恭喜你, 多個bb陪大女, 可能甘樣, 會剌激到大女多野講d都未定.

休息多d呀, 不好卦住訓練阿女, 自己都要休息, 小心d.

HelenMrs.Lau

e~~~又多一個兩B媽呀！
係呀，湊兩個好煩忙

justjust

hinhinmummy,

多謝晒﹐望就係甘望啦。

頭先工人打電話黎﹐話個女想同我講野。啊女接過電話﹐講完hello加幾句BB話﹐就叫我望窗外﹐話有飛機飛過﹐佢以為我會看到﹐我唯有話“係呀﹐架飛機好大架係天上面飛緊呀。”

mickeyma

last night, I fired my maid. She is so good in many aspects.. But we can not keep her anymore as she borrowed money which she can not affort to pay back from financial companies. (yes, not even one company) and lied to us all the time. We settled first loan for her, and she promised there was no others left and some days ago, phone calls from debt collecting company kept bothering us again, only at that time, we found out she had another loan which was double the amount even before the one settled!! and that money she borrowed was sending back to her husband to buy car!!!!

She is so nice to two of my kids, my elder daugher was crying all the time when she knew our maid had to leave... and blamed me for driving her away... It spent me sometime to explain the matter to her..

I have to apply a new maid. She was working in Singarpore for two years, non-Cantonese speaking and Enclish is fine according my phone call to her today. She will only come early of March next year..
I asked her to pick up Cantonese in Indonesian Training School now asap as I do not want my son to confuse.

Mamees, pls be careful of your maid and do not allow them to use your home address to send letters... especially for their mobile phone and so on.. It could bring you big trouble later when they borrowed money outside... If possible, better keep the contract and passport by yourself.

hinhinmummy

justjust

吓! 幾好wor, 識得表達呀!

hinhinmummy

mickeyma

甘邊個幫你看住d小朋友?