SC畢業生家長一起走過癲婆的日子

danielboy

LaLa & chingyu,
真係橋,我就係尋日啱啱見完psychologist, 呢6個月以嚟,見咗3次,加埋老師好detailed嘅report, Mr. T已被評為,"suspected ADHD predominantly inattentive type," 轉介咗去Prince of Wales Hospital兒童精神科.

LaLa,
個個媽咪都覺得自己囝囡有問題 True, 100% agree!但事實證明我懷疑得有道理,小朋友專注力弱好正常,但Mr. T係"predominantly"弱,所以我一直以嚟嘅擔心唔係誇張,我睇好多ADHD嘅資料,雖然Mr. T成績無問題,社交又無問題,又無誇張到爬上爬落扮spiderman,但一樣可以係ADHD,佢呢d borderline case最容易被overlooked,我真係好好好辛苦.

chingyu,
我係先被轉介見政府心理學家做assessment, 但老師要好合作, 心理學家只require 老師填份questionnaire, Mrs. Lam填完後,又主動寫封好長嘅信俾個心理學家,等人哋可以全面d評估.而家要睇精神科,不過政府要排兩三年,我考慮睇私家,可能順便睇埋自己!

[ 本帖最後由 danielboy 於 09-3-19 09:43 編輯 ]

chingyu

LaLa,
<學o野慢又專注力弱兼脾氣臭> haha....Give me five.  Exactly what I am thinking of myself.   As I stated, I also want to see the doctor or learn how to teach Ms. A in a proper way.

The teacher also said she is clever.  However, her concentration is weak.
She is always the type of “slow motion” and doesn’t pay attention.  Certainly I also don’t want to lose my temper.  But… when you see she keeps doing something else and doesn’t focus on the urgent matter (u know how compact of HK syllabus), I start to become crazy.

You have to consider thoughtfully when you find the school for your little one.


danielboy & HeiMa,
when can we have high tea?

danielboy

chingyu,
Re : High Tea
My maid is going back to the Philippines on 27/3 for 3 weeks.  How about we meet next week for high tea?  I am free next Tuesday.

HeiHeiMa,
How about you?

chingyu

danielboy,
u OK, I OK.
I also need some info of ADHD.

LaLa

chingyu,
How come your descriptions on Ms A's behaviours are identical to mine on Ms V?  Are they twins?

danielboy,
<雖然Mr. T成績無問題,社交又無問題,又無誇張到爬上爬落扮spiderman,但一樣可以係ADHD,佢呢d borderline case最容易被overlooked>  咁 Jeremy即係唔只係 borderline case 啦!  佢社交又有問題 (成日鍾意打人, or 好聽d"郁手郁腳"), 又誇張到爬上爬落扮spiderman (佢 lee 期興伸長雙手雙腳襟住走廊左右兩幅牆大字型咁撐上天花板 ), 我諗都幾有問題, 不過我會睇多一年半載先再考慮 seek professional help, hopefully 佢大d會生性d 啩!

上個月 SC parents' day, 我對 Ms Skye 講話我好 worry Jeremy 嘅情況, Ms Skye 話 "his behaviours are perfectly normal ...... for a 3 year-old Western boy."     但我地屋企係 100% Chinese family bor!  And 如果唔係完全無得選擇, 我暫時都 prefer 佢讀 local mainstream school.

請比多少少 ADHD 資料研究吓, 另請解釋一下 "suspected ADHD predominantly inattentive type".  Thanks.

chingyu

danielboy,
嘩…"私家"精神科很貴.  RC princess中的Adrianne爸爸是精神科醫生. 你識唔識佢地呀? 不過, 我同佢不太熟. 如果無記錯, 佢在QE做. (No worries.  Even though you didn’t mention, I won’t say anything to anybody. )

DanDan是suspected.  放鬆d.  你咁早發現, 好叻女架la.

我對住我件 “周身郁, 無時停” 都暈低, 我好明白你感受.  你是full time mom, 其實有無時間比佢stay alone, study alone, play alone at home ? (當然家中要有人係度啦).  我發現有時佢地無mummy陪, 反而有意想不到的效果.


LaLa,
我想你每天放工返到屋企仲要應付兩件, 一定心竭力疲.
我以為Ms. V是快版.  估唔到...

sumyinmama

chingyu, LaLa, danielboy,
近排好多野處理，尋日終於炒左個菲傭，等緊新菲傭，希望快D有好日子過﹗
嘩﹗好多野想回應，不過突然唔知從何說起，對於ADHD，我都好有興趣知多D﹗你地講得啱，今日好似個個小朋友都有問題，有時又覺係唔係大人要求好高，突然諗起啱啱高考中文口試有一題圖片題，一位小朋友唔識計數，對住老師講："不是我能力不好，是你期望太高。"可能考試局都有所反省﹗

LaLa,
就黎放假，個個都飛晒，我地飛唔到，s小姐就有排悶﹗

sumyinmama

HeiHeiMa

chingyu/danielboy:
原來我Tue要返學校做家長義工! Next Thur就free! 唔知妳o地得唔得呢?

danielboy:
唔好太擔心! 知道問題所在, 就可以對症下藥! 雖然可能將會好辛苦, 但冇法! 佢係自己個仔! 不過, 聽講大個d會好d! 希望醫生比到建議妳, 等妳容易d handle!

chingyu:
我諗好大部份o既小朋友o係家長面前一定係曳過對外人! 所以全職mom會有咁多磨擦!
妳係半職, 已經好好多o架喇! 仲可以有時放低佢比個maid! 抖抖氣! 我就!

danielboy

LaLa,
Jeremy鍾意打人當然係一個issue,係要處理,但唔等於ADHD,通常3歲做assessment/智力評估無乜用,Mr. T一向都唔專心,但3歲小朋友幾乎個個都唔專心,所以到5/6歲評估較準確, Mr. T都到5歲開始發出嚟,心理學家認為佢比一般same age嘅小朋友唔專心,所以Mr. T被評為"predominantly inattentive"另<雙手雙腳襟住走廊左右兩幅牆大字型咁撐上天花板>,你細個無練過呢門工夫咩?我玩到8/9歲架喎,好好玩架! Mr. T K1時Ms. Skye都話佢似鬼仔,但所指嘅係佢好outspoken同有主見,並唔係negative嘅嘢,我覺得暫時Jeremy除了打人係問題,其他都唔係問題.

chingyu,
"Suspected"係borderline case,如果只係好唔專心,而唔係predominantly唔專心,佢哋係唔會轉介去浪費政府資源架.我考慮睇私家因心理學家都強力建議,我都check緊收費,醫生方面,我屋企人都幫到我,唔該晒.

sumyinmama,
你個菲傭好似唔係用咗好耐,點解炒佢呀?

HeiHeiMa,
Thursday OK但唔可以太遲走, 可以傾到around 4:00-4:30pm.心理學家話大個會好d係hyperactive嗰type咋, Mr. T嗰隻inattentive type大個咗都有架.

danielboy

Hi all,
呢度有ADHD嘅簡介可以參考下,另我成日蒲特殊教育攞local嘅l料.
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder/what-are-the-symptoms-of-adhd-in-children.shtml

睇睇(at the bottom of the page)
ADHD Can Be Mistaken for Other Problems

[ 本帖最後由 danielboy 於 09-3-20 09:25 編輯 ]

teresa123

真係每個小朋友都有本難唸的經...

danielboy, 多謝你尋日既時間...multi-sport既website http://www.multi-sport.com.hk/

佢地已經出左summer既programme, 有興趣可以打電話去問...

另外, 你尋日介紹既中文我已經打左電話去問, 原來佢地係cwb都有架...  仲有, 你可唔可以話我知"seven"個書包可以係邊度可以見識下丫

[ 本帖最後由 teresa123 於 09-3-20 10:07 編輯 ]

danielboy

teresa123,
唔該晒,trampoline真係諗起都好玩.
"seven"書包睇怕要去Barocco先見識到, (喺Ocean Terminal, Lee Gardens & Elements都有shop),因喺RC就未見過人用d咁奢侈嘅嘢,多數用SPI/Dr. Kong/Chiropak/Sanrio,我要著爛絲襪所以Mr. T都係用SPI仲要喺Tsuen Wan散貨場買嘅特價貨,不過service超好,上年Mr. T整爛條拉練,我ling番去SPI整,要整3-4 weeks,期間佢哋會借個書包我俾Mr. T用住先架.

Hi all,
ICS都出咗summer programme,睇下啱唔啱?
http://www.ics.edu.hk/Upload/fromeditor/web-SummerProgram.pdf

chingyu

danielboy,
<SPI仲要喺Tsuen Wan散貨場買嘅特價貨,不過service超好,上年Mr. T整爛條拉練,我ling番去SPI整,要整3-4 weeks,期間佢哋會借個書包我俾Mr. T用住先架> ===>  wah... I am your super fans!!!  How come you know everything???

HeiHeiMa,
Next Thurs => March 26  - ok!

Sumyinmama,
wah...... what happen with EDB?
I also heard some conflicts between the views of teachers and social workers.

teresa123

danielboy真係乜都知, 佩服佩服...

聽落SPI好好喎...等我叫我餅做下資料搜集先...

真係唔該晒你呀...

chingyu

danielboy & HeiHeiMa,

oh..sorry!  Is it ok to change the date to March 23 (Mon) or March 25 (Wed)?????

danielboy

chingyu,
我Monday OK but Wednesday唔得.

HeiHeiMa,
How about you?

chingyu

danielboy,

Monday(March 23rd) - HeiHeiMa ok.
Pls check email.  Thanks.

HeiHeiMa

danielboy:
乜SPI幫人整書包o架咩? 我仔唔見o左胸前條帶, 唔知有冇得配返呢? 請問o係邊樹整?

danielboy

HeiHeiMa,
你call佢哋睇下有冇得配返同埋幾錢,Mr. T換拉練只係幾十蚊,所以唔洗買過個新.

香港油麻地彌敦道515-517號好收成商業大廈16樓
電話: 2708 2078 傳真: 2307 6367

HeiHeiMa

Ok, thanks!

原帖由 danielboy 於 09-3-21 09:42 發表
HeiHeiMa,
你call佢哋睇下有冇得配返同埋幾錢,Mr. T換拉練只係幾十蚊,所以唔洗買過個新.

香港油麻地彌敦道515-517號好收成商業大廈16樓
電話: 2708 2078 傳真: 2307 6367 ...