08/09年度 K1A 上午班 (KENT RD.) 報到!!

PRESTONMOM

Hi Kat,
Hope Anson will be fine soon...
we are all longing to see her "Ms So" hair style la...
My new maid also will arrive after CNY..really hope this one can handle my son better la...fingers & toes crossed

iamjackie

yes, i can join the breakfast ...

but just thinking whether i should send Wingtung to school or let her take school bus and meet her at school...as i m afraid too late for the school bus and no time to take photos...how about last time?

原帖由 marywmf 於 08-12-10 00:32 發表
Prestonmom:
Adrian got your Christmas card on Monday. Thank you so much!!! Adrian hang it on our Christmas tree. I hope all of you won't mind if adrian didn't send you one. same as iamjackie, i vomit  ...

iamjackie

let me check check any appointment for these 2 days first and let u know later...

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 10:21 發表
Good morning!
Hi Mary:
True ya...佢地大左..有自己主見, 真係少D 心血都死 ....咪 Sor 啦....當然唔mind 啦...大家都明難度高過奧運D跳水項目!!我本來都唔打算寫, 但Daddy 有偉大既offer, 我一定accept  ...

iamjackie

i already vomited blood today morning....  

7:35am, when we arrived and waited for the school bus, i asked Wingtung to stay inside as too windy, she wants i stay with her, i said no need. (actually, this is normal, we do this everyday) Then, she throw her school bag on the floor and angry. even the school bus arrived, teacher called her, she only show her bad face, yes, just like last time in the Weewee's club house.. we stayed there few mins after school bus left, she also not willing back home and talk with me...
At the end, she followed me to go home. just arrived, she cried for long time and when she stopped, i asked her why...she just kept silient.....so i m angry too...i cant control myself.. i told her if she cant give me the reason, i will hit her hand as she naughty and throw school bag...etc
after hit one, she cried again and said "i dont want to talk too much" . she didnt let me hit another hand, i said "no, as u cant give me reason and not tell me which hand u throw the bag..etc". she let me hit at the end.

when we calm down, i hold her hands and explained to her again, angry without reason is not good....etc and asked her whether she still love mami or not as i hit her...haha...she said, "Yes, i love mami, even u hit me, i still happy"...oh my god...really dont know what can be said...

before i left i hug her and remind her again, can not do it again....and said she cant play any toys and watch TV today due to her fault today....

at the end, Wingtung didnt go to school today, and i left home at 9am.....

Wingtung always do this before, she has improved a little already...hope she can improve all at the end...as i really dont want to hit her too many to hurt our relationships when she grow up

[ 本帖最後由 iamjackie 於 08-12-10 11:10 編輯 ]

PRESTONMOM

Tung Tung ma,
She is so sweet to say that to you..so touching   .and they really know how to make us feel guilty .. sometimes I do not know how to deal with my son too...one moment sweet angel one moment devil.   
Last 2 weeks, i had the same problem with Preston, then by some chance i talked to his Kumon teacher about this on the phone.  Then last Sat morning, he told me he would be a good boy and will take mom's instructions, and asked me to forgive his bad behaviours for the past week. Very surprise!! Touch wood...he has improvement this week, although i do not know how long it lasts...  I guess it would be good to have a 3rd party to chat with them too.

iamjackie

So touching that Preston can talk with u like that...seem we are under control by them...haha

yes, i also plan to talk with miss so, let see whether she can help....

we cant still deal with them in such way to break our relationship...i heard some case before, if we not build a good relationship start from beginning, and keep to hit them, when they growup, they will not like us much and not willing to talk with us ...so, i feel scare...i hope my daughter will talk / discuss with me whatever she want / meet / try....etc
esp. for boy...hard to deal then girl....

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 11:36 發表
Tung Tung ma,
She is so sweet to say that to you..so touching   .and they really know how to make us feel guilty .. sometimes I do not know how to deal with my son too...one moment sweet a ...

iamjackie

story continue.....i told grandma already, today Wingtung can not play toys and watch TV....

When grandma and granddad arrived, granddad wanted to go out with Wingtung to ride the bicycle...
Grandma said can not as she's naughty today, didnt go to school...

haha, Wingtung said Mami only not allow me to play toys and watch TV, didnt say can not ride bicycle.. .

It's good that she can listen grandma said, didnt shout for play again....

kattang

We are interest to the 大 棠 荔 枝 園, let me check with my family the actual no. of people will go together.

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 10:21 發表
Good morning!
Hi Mary:
True ya...佢地大左..有自己主見, 真係少D 心血都死 ....咪 Sor 啦....當然唔mind 啦...大家都明難度高過奧運D跳水項目!!我本來都唔打算寫, 但Daddy 有偉大既offer, 我一定accept  ...

PRESTONMOM

yes....they controlled us!!...:;pppp:  Sometime i raised up my voice cos he was not listening to me....then he would show me the "unhappy" face and say "唔可以 罵人架...媽咪斯文D啦! 女孩子要斯文D:"

kattang

Wingtung is such a girl that has strong personal idea and wants you follow her "instruction". You better talk to Miss So and let her talk with Wingtung.

Luckily, you still have time to change Wingtung.  If her character keeps in teenage, then you will be in superb headache.

iamjackie

yes, my mother always remind me to look after
Wingtung carely as she seem hard to control...

and just rec'd Miss So's call and talked to her already...she said she never see WingTung angry and bad face...etc and will talk to her tom.

原帖由 kattang 於 08-12-10 12:33 發表
Wingtung is such a girl that has strong personal idea and wants you follow her "instruction". You better talk to Miss So and let her talk with Wingtung.

Luckily, you still have time to change Wingtun ...

iamjackie

haha...Preston is so cute...they really know much and more than what we expected....

i will arrange the time to take the course you introdue to me before next year...hope both wingtung and myself also can improve....

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 12:21 發表
yes....they controlled us!!...:;pppp:  Sometime i raised up my voice cos he was not listening to me....then he would show me the "unhappy" face and say "唔可以 罵人架...媽咪斯文D啦! 女孩子要斯文D:" :s ...

kattang

Anson is much better after the new medicine.  She is now playing with the dolls and pretend to be Miss So at home teaching the kids (dolls) to draw pictures...haha...I trust she will be ok to school tomorrow.

I hope the new maid can work for us at least one year, keep our fingers crossed.

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 10:30 發表
Hi Kat,
Hope Anson will be fine soon...
we are all longing to see her "Ms So" hair style la...
My new maid also will arrive after CNY..really hope this one can handle my son better la...fing ...

PRESTONMOM

When Preston was 2, i took him to 靈實做綜合評估 because he was not speaking very well. 姑娘話尼個仔1. 唔鍾意聽指令. 2. 好有主見. 3.唔專心.4. 下膝唔夠力.etc 不過佢都有D小聰明,理解力強...所以要好有耐性教... 唉! 而家我都接受左...所以我幫佢搵KV 囉

iamjackie

Where is 靈實?
i also found Wingtung is 2. 好有主見. 3.唔專心...
so tire to deal with her...and need to pay more patience to deal...

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 12:56 發表
When Preston was 2, i took him to 靈實做綜合評估 because he was not speaking very well. 姑娘話尼個仔1. 唔鍾意聽指令. 2. 好有主見. 3.唔專心.4. 下膝唔夠力.etc 不過佢都有D小聰明,理解力強...所以要好有耐性 ...

marywmf

cherry:
Sorry that we couldn't join you to Da Tong. we have plans on both days. btw, have you been there before? my son went there for his school picnic last yr. Very primitive but he had lots of fun like feeding cow and goats, 'catching' goldfish, feeding 'lay yu'. Hope you guys have fun too!!!

iamjackie:
after listened to your story, i was a bit worried for wing tung. she is nearly 4 years old but she is as strong-minded as a 14 years old. it seems she has so much anger inside which is ready to explode anytime, anywhere. You might seek help by reading books on angry kids or taking some parenting courses which might help you in guiding wing tung. I hope you won't mind me being frank. But i really think that you should stop/change her behaviour before too late. Yet, you should be glad that she didn't misbehave at Ms So's class. That  means she's just manupulating her family members. She in fact can control her temper.

all:
i finally 8 到 who are the 8 stars of K1A. They are:
1) preston
2) Yat Kiu
3) kiu kiu
4) Ryan
5) Si ching/Alexandria
6) Gladys
7) Man Him
8) Pak yin
Congratulations to all of them and their parents as well ! It's so proud to be 'the star'!!! (I asked adrian why his photo wasn't there. he didn't say a word. sigh...)

PRESTONMOM

靈實is in TKO, close to Metro City 2.  They provide 綜合評估 or 言語 評估,  1 to 1 trainning, group therapy  for autism,hyper active kids etc. It was a long queue for the assessments.  The training queue is even longer.    I think they will not take our kids because our kids do not 評估as autism or hyper active kids etc .  They will recommend us to have private tutions which provide these kind of training, but the charge is very high.

iamjackie

yes, mary...of course i dont mind, as what u said is what i worry as well...

really need to take more EQ course....

oh!! congratulations to all "stars"...so good....

原帖由 marywmf 於 08-12-10 15:42 發表
cherry:
Sorry that we couldn't join you to Da Tong. we have plans on both days. btw, have you been there before? my son went there for his school picnic last yr. Very primitive but he had lots of fun  ...

iamjackie

ic...

then, i will try the one u introduce to me before...
let arrange next year....

原帖由 PRESTONMOM 於 08-12-10 15:54 發表
靈實is in TKO, close to Metro City 2.  They provide 綜合評估 or 言語 評估,  1 to 1 trainning, group therapy  for autism,hyper active kids etc. It was a long queue for the assessments.  The training qu ...

PRESTONMOM

Hi Tung Tung ma,

I pm you another link,where they have the  綜合評估 as well, but i have not tried these. But the charge is similar to what i paid.
My friend's son is on the border of acutism after 評估, they joint the playgroup therapy at 靈實...
Personally, i do not see Tung Tung has the emotional problem but she has a stronger character.   Preston also has a strong character, so i used to set my bottomlines very firm. But eversince i started become a working mom, i sometimes a bit loss up too.    Sometimes i will copy Preston's bad habits...then he did not like it..so i told him how i felt when he did the same to me.  But i think it is also important to learn what she is angry for as well...