應該點做? 好心up!

2bzmummy

學校冇解釋過校規咩 ?    

BNC 寫道:
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sorlo 寫道:
我見個女去做咁多義工，　我估一定有服務令抵銷，　不過最就算佢真係要記缺點，　咪比個教訓佢囉

真係唔知有無服務令抵銷喎, 咁......咁......好唔好問老師呀?
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sorlo

parrot1214

我個女間學校本手冊都係自己用咁．．．

BNC

stmummy 寫道:
~~~~~ 又冇咗升中壓力, 可能自己都放鬆過頭!!

係呀, 老師都有咁講, 佢話有d學生覺得升咗中學暫時無晒壓力, 就放鬆晒, 加上佢地呢期又無會考, 所以好大可能鬆過頭.

sorlo

2bzmummy


去到個女欠交四次時，　我都好緊張，　不過依家我估唔只四次啦，　變左緊張都無用，　若果佢唔話我估我都無法，　所以我唯有放手啦

BNC

parrot1214 寫道:
唉!我個女間學校.本手冊好似只係佢自己用咁.
我末見過佢老師的筆跡在手冊上出現過.
(唔同小學發生咩事會寫在手冊上.等家長知道)
所以我咩都唔知.

我個仔本手冊上老師筆跡咪就係欠交功課同留堂囉; 你都唔好望你個女手冊上有老師筆跡嘞.

2bzmummy

都係留下堂好, 等佢地有個驚呀

sorlo 寫道:
2bzmummy


去到個女欠交四次時，　我都好緊張，　不過依家我估唔只四次啦，　變左緊張都無用，　若果佢唔話我估我都無法，　所以我唯有放手啦

parrot1214

BNC 寫道:

我個仔本手冊上老師筆跡咪就係欠交功課同留堂囉; 你都唔好望你個女手冊上有老師筆跡嘞.

我唔係期望有老師筆跡.我係想知清楚個女在校情況.
佢都有欠交.做唔足功課等情況.
但都係我 問佢.佢才話我知.
你話係咪好頭痛  

sorlo

之前我都係問佢, 佢就發老脾，　依家我唔問，　反而佢自己報案

2bzmummy

我諗係中一 d 小朋友欠功課都好普遍, 阿仔返黎話已經有人要做服務令喇

BNC

2bzmummy 寫道:
學校冇解釋過校規咩 ?     [quote]

好有印象講過欠交十次要記缺點, 但無咩印象有無服務令; 上星期派咗通告話今年欠交功課好嚴重, 重話係中一生尤甚添.

2bzmummy

我個仔學校都係咁講........

BNC 寫道:
[quote]
2bzmummy 寫道:
學校冇解釋過校規咩 ?     [quote]

好有印象講過欠交十次要記缺點, 但無咩印象有無服務令; 上星期派咗通告話今年欠交功課好嚴重, 重話係中一生尤甚添.[/quote]

sorlo

大家唔好比咁大壓力自己啦，　若果佢地自己唔自律，　真係迫都迫唔到，　盞反抗力愈來愈大

parrot1214

sorlo 寫道:
大家唔好比咁大壓力自己啦，　若果佢地自己唔自律，　真係迫都迫唔到，　盞反抗力愈來愈大

但再吾開始理佢地.遲d咪會好大件事lo.

sorlo

開學時，　大家都未習慣，　我差不多每日都番屋企同個女吵架，　不過依家大家讓一步，　我接受左唔好太管佢一的野，　唔好太羅梳，　反而佢的壞習慣有改善　

BNC

parrot1214 寫道:
[quote]
sorlo 寫道:
大家唔好比咁大壓力自己啦，　若果佢地自己唔自律，　真係迫都迫唔到，　盞反抗力愈來愈大

但再吾開始理佢地.遲d咪會好大件事lo.[/quote]

其實有諗過等佢自己醒覺, 但睇到錯又點會唔出聲?

sorlo

其實我發覺左，　小朋友升中一既問題，　好似都差不多一樣樣，　如果真係解決唔到，　打電話比班主任再傾下啦

BNC

好多謝咁多位媽咪o既回覆, 意見同分享; 今日晏晝真係好心up, 同班主任講完電話後即刻打比我老公, 係    住咁打, 嚇 c 佢, 佢叫我唔好咁激動. 係, 我係一個好眼淺o既人.

就黎放工, 今日好似無咩點做過野, 一陣返到屋企用咩開場白好呢? a..... 你班主任今日打過比我, 話你咩咩咩咩.......... ~~ 今日點呀? 返學點呀? 開唔開心呀? ~~ 做晒功課未呀? ~~  唉 ....................

sorlo

BNC 我都就快走啦，　其實我都曾經好似你既心情一樣，　每日都番去問個囡，　做完功課未呀，　寫好手冊未呀，　執左書包未呀咁... 結果係令到個女好反感，　佢覺得去到中一啦，　其實唔駛再咁哦佢.....

跟住岩岩學校有社工打過比我，　我就用左大半個小時同佢傾關於小朋友既問題，　佢既回覆係，　我地應該放低個主見先，　因為依家小朋友己經十二歲，升中一啦, 同小學階段應該會有好大轉變, 依個時候首先要學習自理同自律, 若果依家我地用番家長式既方法管教佢，　只會得到反效果，　所以我又試下唔好再煩住佢，　每日只係同佢傾下學校同埋的鎖事，　關係就好左好多

我覺得小朋友要改好，　唯有係一步一步改，　無得急進，　唯有係慢慢控制下自己情緒，　令佢唔好覺得番屋企有壓力，　佢先可以做得好的~~~

henry1328

我亞仔都一樣 :cry: 中史同科學唔及格,中英數僅及格,普通話最高分,都係得80分 :cry:
亞仔話都現在都有小小唔適應,功課多好多,有d科目唔識(中史,科學等) 亞sir 同Miss 講課時聽唔明,同講得好快 :cry:
我都盡量鼓勵亞仔同叫佢揾d某科目強同學仔互相交流,我現在只能這樣做.
還有提醒各位,注意小朋友是否開始踏入青春期,這亦令到他/她們分心

心急MaMa

Dear BNC,

Same as you, class teacher called me last week.  Also said my son is not good at learning attitudes.  Such as test result not good, haven't done the homework ( sometimes he done it but forgot to submit, I don't know why???), etc....................  
I think your situation is better than me.  At least you have your husband support you and you can cry.  I can only cry in my heard.  You can share with him but I can't.

Anyway, I hope our son can "San Sing"