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原帖由 Jupiter 於 13-12-21 發表
My girl is not very brilliant and CP described her as having 小聰明 but learning attitude not good. ... All clever animals including humans like to play a lot, especially when they are young. When they find their passion and "purposes" in life, they will switch their energy to these things, and play less. It is about million times easier for kids to discover themselves and find passion and purposes in IS than in traditional schools.
I think you analyses the situation correctly. Is she going to "Hea" in IB? Probably. Is she going to improve and be influenced by classmates? Probably. Is she going to get better as she grow older? I think so. Which of the two situations is the lesser evil? Your girl "Hea" in IB school and is very happy, but you don't know if she is going to improve. Or your girl suffer in a traditional school and be seen as trouble maker?
Honestly your girl has a better chance of learning better "knowledge" in traditional schools. All kids do. But at what cost? Is knowledge the only thing we care in education?
Nothing in life is certain. You just take your best shot. Some people use definitive tone in giving you comments about whether your girl is suitable for traditional school or IB. I am not sure if you should take it at face value.
You may listen to comments but not literally, including mine. As parents I would advise you to go with your gut. Nobody knows your child better than you do. Other similar cases might be or might not be applicable to you. Nobody is to put up with whatever consequences your decisions are.
Trust yourself and trust your child.
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