5歲或10歲的媽咪請進!

Hellomummy

Hellomummy 寫道:
Hi, All,

I'm thinking shall we organize a Native English learning group for age 5 at home? Say, to employ a teacher together and have the lesson at the nearby home.

I'm living in Tung Chung...my available time is Sat nights or Sunday afternoon.

Any interested mummy?? any ideas?? any teachers introduce?

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有無人有興趣呀? 係無興趣定係時間地點唔啱呢?

Hellomummy

我地呢個topic都好多members格, 一人一句唔好俾佢掛到武雷功咁遠啦! 推番高d, come on, mummies!

Hellomummy

小寶,

thank you!

你小朋友應該k.3咗播, 咁快就有功課煩惱? 係咪你要求太高咋?

FUNGBABA

個仔未足六歲，剛升小一。已有很多不服從指令，以前數五聲內便要服從。現在便要跟他心情。開始反叛，你們小朋友有沒有這種情況？

THRY

Dear Hellomummy / Bluestar,

After visited etv program, I feel that the information seems too details for a kid of 5-6 years.  But my son likes the programs very much and almost ask me to repeat the programs for him.

I have a question, whether I need to teach him not to talk about such topics in public place, I scare that he will talk about such sensitive terms / names in public place suddenly, then.....

OR, I shall let him talk and ask freely?

Please commend.

jumama

Hellomummy,

關於讀寫障礙, 我相信其他BKmembers 都有同樣問題, 何不開個Topic, 等其他Mummy 可分享交流吓? 我諗對大家都有幫助。

Hellomummy

jumama 寫道:
Hellomummy,

關於讀寫障礙, 我相信其他BKmembers 都有同樣問題, 何不開個Topic, 等其他Mummy 可分享交流吓? 我諗對大家都有幫助。

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在"特殊教育"中都有相關topic, 不過試過幾次都無mug回應, 唔緊要啦, 都已經唔係第一日面對呢樣野, 大致已找到出路了, 有心有心!

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Bluestar

THRY,

If my son asks me an embarassing question in public, e.g. why is this woman so short / has to use crutches (disabled), I tell him quietly but calmly that I will explain to him later on / when we reach home, and he will stop asking right then, then when I reach somewhere convenient, e.g. home, or somewhere discreet, I answer his question in a factual but brief manner so he can know part of the reason, e.g. the woman is affected by some illness.  I think the same should apply in your case.

Kids around 5 or 6 yrs old do not need lengthy answers yet, they do not need the details, only the true fact in a simple way.  They cannot understand the details either, so it should be sufficient to give short simple answers.  If he is still interested or wants more details, he will ask more questions to which he will demand more answers in finer detail.

Sometimes they ask because they know / think it affects them, so they are a bit scared and want to know whether / how it affects them.

THRY

Dear Bluestar,

Thanks for your advice.

I will keep try.

Hellomummy

小寶 寫道:
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Hellomummy 寫道:
小寶,

thank you!

你小朋友應該k.3咗播, 咁快就有功課煩惱? 係咪你要求太高咋?

我不是要求高,係佢唔專心,做做下又攬下野,又發下夢,又唱下歌講下野,總知就唔會安安定定咁做. 係咪我要求高呢? 我應該如何做好? 因為次次見到佢咁我好忟,成日要開晒戰,請指教 :-| [/quote]

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hi, 小寶,

唔好意思, 咁耐先respond, bk花多眼亂, 上上吓都迷失路tim!

其實我個仔都係咁, 依家大個了(10歲)叫做好d, 但有時都仍然好勞氣嫁! 佢五.六歲時我掛住返工, 無眼睇, 所以亦無mug印象, 不過同我個女比, 就見到好大分別.  我諗專注力呢樣野係好大程度天生既, 好似我對仔女咁, 同一個阿媽生, 都咁大分別!

不過亦可後天訓練, 學樂器就人所共知可提高專注考力喇, 你有無試過呀? 講起上黎都攪野, 我個仔連學樂器上課時都不能專注!!!(咁點算?) 可能因為我好遲才識呢個方法, 成8歲才俾佢試學鋼琴, 結果都係半途而廢. 反而到而家佢見個妹樣樣都學得成, 佢不甘示弱先話要學番一仲樂器!

講番轉頭, 小朋友既專注力係要按年齡要求的, 例如一個三歲小朋友可持續專注10分鐘, 而五歲就可expect佢有20分鐘, 如此類推, 如果你expect一個五歲的小朋友連續坐喺度30分鐘無中途休息, 直至做哂d功課,(只係舉例),  係不切實際的, 你可和他一起訂立一個佢可以做到的時間表, (要realistic), 如果嗰日做到就俾d獎勵佢, 咁佢又有成功感, 唔係一味俾阿媽鬧, 覺得自己好差咁.

你不妨試下, 試完分享下效果如何??   

HELLOMUMMY

Bluestar

小寶,

"佢唔專心,做做下又攬下野,又發下夢,又唱下歌講下野,總知就唔會安安定定咁做."

-  其實我個仔都有同樣問題。但很"奇怪"，在學校簡直判若兩人。(佢在家會:玩一轉豬仔車，跟住wee-wee，然後飲水，跑進房匿埋，- 總之令我們起火，他還hehe笑。總是不肯好好坐下練琴/做功課。)幸好他的功課很少，通常在放學前已在老師指導下做完。週末的功課要在家做，較頭痛。
我們是飯後要他做，如果他搗蛋，我試過跟他鬥氣，==>順他意收起未做完的功課在書包，結果他比我更緊張，"死死氣"自己再拿出來，好像很委屈地邊流淚邊做。
我個仔很大脾氣，又喜歡我們讚他，會飄飄然的樣子，見他流幾滴眼淚，會自己告訴你是鱷魚淚。
但我的做法較偏激，對我個仔可行，但對別的小朋友應該會幾hurtful。
只可以說，聽聽話話的小朋友很多，但我個仔並非其中一位。

你不如試試用稱讚及獎勵的辦法。(我們有時也會用的。真是昧著良心地勁讚少少做得對的事，他較會接受。)

HIN_bb

我囝囝做功課時又好似你地D小朋友咁,不專心做一陣又唱下歌,我都唔知掂教佢

Bluestar

小寶,Hin_bb,

無法啦，係咁gala。我地有排同佢地玩啊!
通常我們會一個做好，一個做醜，但亦有是佢真的太過份，兩個都唔幫佢，佢咪又"死死氣"o羅。
有時真係要掩住良心去讚o家。

總之佢做一陣，例如一版字(隔格寫的)或一行珠心算，或一樣功課，讓他離檯飲水etc一次，不太過份的話，我們也會由他的。但條件應承後反悔，就萬萬不能。

HIN_bb

有無比你地d小朋友學課外活動呀

ireneirene

swimming、學琴、畫畫、跳舞。

THRY

I prefered:  珠心算, Swimming, Violin
He prefered:  English, Piano, Painting, Boy scout
Totally:  7

HIN_bb

THRY

官塘區知唔知有無珠心算學呀,學珠心算對小朋友有咩嘢好

THRY

Dear HIN_bb,

珠心算good for train their 集中力.

Actually, my son learn it in their kingdergarten, so I don't know whether there is any course in Kwun Tong.

HIN_bb

THRY

你學個間係邊度呀,有無電話查詢,thanks

THRY

HIN-bb,


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